VIDEO - The Isley Brothers - Contagious feat. R. Kelly

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Three or four times during the past week the same bit of wisdom has been passed onto me by some older men and women. And this video I ran across tonight while searching for something else has confirmed it. Why the Lord has led me to it is beyond me but maybe it's a message for someone else. ??? Who knows...

But, the message and the philosophies that these people had is this:

Don't stress yourself so much over whether your man or woman is cheating or whether or not he or she might cheat on you. Don't chase him or her - or beg for his or her Love; Or, try to keep the guy or girl locked up in the house away from the World...

Because, "IF a man or woman wants to cheat, he or she is gonna cheat.

And, there's nothing you can do to stop it if he or she wants it bad enough.

So, why worry yourself about it? Why stress over it? And, if it happens, don't ruin your life over it!"

Don't go out there blastin' up the town or commit any heinous crime! Don't jeopardize your future! You have too much to live for! Goals to accomplish. Dreams to live for. Friends and family who need your love and support. Why destroy your life because of this bum???

I know a situation like this can send any man or woman into a rage but why throw YOUR life away over a hoe??? (whether it's a man or a woman)

"Suffer the broken heart and when you've healed, find someone else." Someone better.

I know that's easier said than done, but I agree.

Say "good riddens" to that jackass, and kick him or her straight to the damn curb!

If he or she doesn't know a good thing when it's staring them right in the face, screw-em!

Save yourself and give all of your good lovin' to someone else. Someone more deserving and worthy.

Don't ruin your life over someone who's not worth it! And, especially when there are plenty of other fish out there in the sea who are MORE worthy of your love. Suffer the broken heart and allow the storm to pass.

And, when Time has healed those wounds and the pain and hurt is gone, move on.

Don't let this episode stress you out or bring you down.

You might not ever forget - or even be able to forgive, but, Learn from the experience.

Allow it to make you stronger and wiser. And, move on.

I know some people out there might have kids involved or they've built an Empire with that person, but many people have been in the SAME situation and have survived the same drama. You can do it too!

And, you don't have to shut the cheater out of the children's lives - even if he or she left you for someone else! Don't make the kids suffer or keep the drama going! Find a new love, strive for happiness, and move on.

And, if you can't move on, (and decide to work things out) STILL, let the past go and work on your "new" life. Communicate and discover what you two can do different to make things better.

But, the main thing is: Get away for a while or leave or do whatever you have to do to keep from breaking that hoe's neck and cutting your life short. You have too much to live for.

- loveqna