If you've ever considered permanent hair removal, electrolysis is the way to go. Check out some of these videos and some of the others on YouTube more info.
NEW! Simp Or Sucker? You Be The Judge.
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
RnR: Gastric Bypass and Tummy Tuck Journey - Before and After
Here's another RnR video journey that shows the Health and Cosmetic Benefits of surgery. This one is posted by LaMorenita881 who looked totally fabulous during her journey.
Be sure to check out some other vids on YouTube and do your due diligence before you say "yea" or "nay".
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Videos provided by - LaMorenita881
- loveqna
Be sure to check out some other vids on YouTube and do your due diligence before you say "yea" or "nay".
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Gastric bypass video #1 Pre-Op
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tummy tuck and breast lift results
Videos provided by - LaMorenita881
- loveqna
RnR: Becky's Tummy Tuck Journey (Videos and Pics Included)
If you can't accept your body the way it is due to having children or simply because you hate being fat and covered in loose saggy skin, then research and review tummy tuck procedures.
I never knew this but women AND men get them for HEALTH reasons as well as cosmetic reasons so if you've ever wondered about tummy tucks, start your journey here.
Here's Becky's story from the beginning. View her YouTube channel for all of her video updates as she went from what she looked like the days before the surgery to what she looked like one year later.
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Videos and Pics provided by - beckrsr
- loveqna
I never knew this but women AND men get them for HEALTH reasons as well as cosmetic reasons so if you've ever wondered about tummy tucks, start your journey here.
Here's Becky's story from the beginning. View her YouTube channel for all of her video updates as she went from what she looked like the days before the surgery to what she looked like one year later.
Becky's Tummy Tuck Journey 1 ~The Very Beginning~
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Becky's Tummy Tuck 1 Year Video Update 13
Videos and Pics provided by - beckrsr
- loveqna
Monday, June 18, 2012
Romantic (or Lover's) Philosophy For Life: Take A Break
If I had any hair on my head, I'd be pulling it all out right now. This damned computer is driving me insane.
I have more "RnR" (Research and Review) videos on the way before I continue with some of my other topics but, hell, I might be all day watching the damn screen on this slow-ass thing.
I mean...It's just unreal how slow this computer is behaving right now. It's just pitiful. Talk about a computer that sucks... This is probably the most suckiest of all the computers in the world that suck.
This little gem is actually a low-budget Aspire One netbook, so in all fairness, I guess I can't expect it to handle multiple downloads, surf the Net with eight webpages open, watch a movie (plus, browse videos on YouTube), and blog at the same time - even though I've been able to do it before.... So, I don't know what's going on.
What a piece of crap. Man, Screw Acer.
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(15 or so minutes later...)
Okay, I've had a chance to settle down.
It took me about 10 minutes just to get onto Blogger that's why I was in such a rage earlier.
I have another computer. A brand new Toshiba (only about three weeks old) that's faster and better suited for multitasking, but I haven't loaded many programs on it yet. Really, I only plan to use it for creating and editing videos. So, most of my "writing" (if you can call it that) and surfing the Net and downloading apps and watching YouTube is done on this little netbook or my old Dell. But usually, I lay in bed when I'm on the computer so I hate getting up to use the Dell. It's a laptop also but I keep it in the closet and I hate pulling out that heavy-ass tote bag.
Anyway...
Everything is okay now. I got up and went for a walk to the kitchen and outside and got some... (dammit, it's acting up again... The screen keeps damn freezing.... Ohh, one "download complete"...).
So, I got up and went for a walk to the kitchen and outside to get some fresh air and to smoke a cigarette and I thought of something: Man, I was getting so worked up and frustrated with this computer that I was about to give myself a headache. I mean, I was tense as hell. I could feel the stress in my face and my head was about to explode.
But, after I got away from this computer and put my mind on other things, I felt better.
And, it's like that when you're dealing with a stressful relationship.
Sometimes, you just need a break. Or, a trip. Or, a vacation... Just walk away and take some time out. Discuss the situation later. Do something that doesn't make you think about the drama that you're going through. The problem might not go away, but at least you have time to calm down and keep yourself from getting sick - or, cutting somebody's head off.
I felt like throwing this thing against the wall, but then, my movies, apps, music, notes, and everything would be gone. (Just like destroying a relationship.) And, I'd really be upset then.
Also, now I realize the stress I'm putting on this computer by putting such a load on it and running so many applications at once, so I have to look at that reality as well. Maybe I wouldn't be so upset if I wasn't so demanding. I know this little guy has limitations and faults beyond his control. And, I chose it out of the other computers in Best Buy, so I shouldn't be too upset. It can only do what it's capable of.
And, people are the same way. You can only do what you're capable of. And, your partner can only do what he or she is capable of.
If you've been looking high and low for a mate but can't seem to find your match, Don't get frustrated in your search for Love. Take a break. Maybe Love will find you. Or, if you're in a relationship and you and your partner are experiencing drama (and he or she is not crazy as hell), then take a break to calm yourself down. Usually, you'll see everything clearer and your mind will be refreshed and you'll be more relaxed... AND, you two might realize that the issue is not worth getting all worked-up over. Remember: Often understanding and acceptance is the key to a life of love, peace, prosperity, and happiness - within limitations of course. If that scalawag is a fool then run.
Anyway...
The moral is: Don't get upset and break things or break-up. Take a break, clear your mind, and everything will PROBABLY work out fine in the end.
- loveqna
(Now, I can go back to watching "My Sassy Girl". Good movie - if you like romantic comedies and "chick-flicks".)
I have more "RnR" (Research and Review) videos on the way before I continue with some of my other topics but, hell, I might be all day watching the damn screen on this slow-ass thing.
I mean...It's just unreal how slow this computer is behaving right now. It's just pitiful. Talk about a computer that sucks... This is probably the most suckiest of all the computers in the world that suck.
This little gem is actually a low-budget Aspire One netbook, so in all fairness, I guess I can't expect it to handle multiple downloads, surf the Net with eight webpages open, watch a movie (plus, browse videos on YouTube), and blog at the same time - even though I've been able to do it before.... So, I don't know what's going on.
What a piece of crap. Man, Screw Acer.
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(15 or so minutes later...)
Okay, I've had a chance to settle down.
It took me about 10 minutes just to get onto Blogger that's why I was in such a rage earlier.
I have another computer. A brand new Toshiba (only about three weeks old) that's faster and better suited for multitasking, but I haven't loaded many programs on it yet. Really, I only plan to use it for creating and editing videos. So, most of my "writing" (if you can call it that) and surfing the Net and downloading apps and watching YouTube is done on this little netbook or my old Dell. But usually, I lay in bed when I'm on the computer so I hate getting up to use the Dell. It's a laptop also but I keep it in the closet and I hate pulling out that heavy-ass tote bag.
Anyway...
Everything is okay now. I got up and went for a walk to the kitchen and outside and got some... (dammit, it's acting up again... The screen keeps damn freezing.... Ohh, one "download complete"...).
So, I got up and went for a walk to the kitchen and outside to get some fresh air and to smoke a cigarette and I thought of something: Man, I was getting so worked up and frustrated with this computer that I was about to give myself a headache. I mean, I was tense as hell. I could feel the stress in my face and my head was about to explode.
But, after I got away from this computer and put my mind on other things, I felt better.
And, it's like that when you're dealing with a stressful relationship.
Sometimes, you just need a break. Or, a trip. Or, a vacation... Just walk away and take some time out. Discuss the situation later. Do something that doesn't make you think about the drama that you're going through. The problem might not go away, but at least you have time to calm down and keep yourself from getting sick - or, cutting somebody's head off.
I felt like throwing this thing against the wall, but then, my movies, apps, music, notes, and everything would be gone. (Just like destroying a relationship.) And, I'd really be upset then.
Also, now I realize the stress I'm putting on this computer by putting such a load on it and running so many applications at once, so I have to look at that reality as well. Maybe I wouldn't be so upset if I wasn't so demanding. I know this little guy has limitations and faults beyond his control. And, I chose it out of the other computers in Best Buy, so I shouldn't be too upset. It can only do what it's capable of.
And, people are the same way. You can only do what you're capable of. And, your partner can only do what he or she is capable of.
If you've been looking high and low for a mate but can't seem to find your match, Don't get frustrated in your search for Love. Take a break. Maybe Love will find you. Or, if you're in a relationship and you and your partner are experiencing drama (and he or she is not crazy as hell), then take a break to calm yourself down. Usually, you'll see everything clearer and your mind will be refreshed and you'll be more relaxed... AND, you two might realize that the issue is not worth getting all worked-up over. Remember: Often understanding and acceptance is the key to a life of love, peace, prosperity, and happiness - within limitations of course. If that scalawag is a fool then run.
Anyway...
The moral is: Don't get upset and break things or break-up. Take a break, clear your mind, and everything will PROBABLY work out fine in the end.
- loveqna
(Now, I can go back to watching "My Sassy Girl". Good movie - if you like romantic comedies and "chick-flicks".)
Saturday, June 16, 2012
RnR: Height Lengthening Procedure with Dr. Shahab Mahboubian, D.O.
I stand by what I've said before: Your height is not a factor in you meeting other people for dates. Hell, last week, while I was at work I saw a couple of fine babes walking around holding hands and hugging some cute little "teddy bears". One of those couples must've had about thirty thousand children with them (or at least four)! I said "Damn! What the hell - all of these damn kids running around all over the place???" He needs to be neutered.
Anyway...
If you REALLY think it would make you happier to be a few inches taller - and, of course, it does boost some people's self-esteem - then, here is a start for you to research and review the process.
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Video provided by - smahboubian
- loveqna
Anyway...
If you REALLY think it would make you happier to be a few inches taller - and, of course, it does boost some people's self-esteem - then, here is a start for you to research and review the process.
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Height Lengthening Surgery- Alex's Story Part II
Video provided by - smahboubian
- loveqna
RnR: Limb Lengthening with Dr. Rozbruch: A Documentary
This short documentary film explains Ingrid's story of recovery from leg
deformities under the care of her surgeon, Dr. S. Robert Rozbruch, Director
of the Institute for Limb Lengthening and Reconstruction at Hospital
for Special Surgery in New York City
Video provided by - Mendelson
- loveqna
Video provided by - Mendelson
- loveqna
RnR: Dental Implant Horror Story- NY Medical Malpractice Lawyer Explains
Check out this video about how a scam artist quack dentist almost ruined a man's life by improperly installing dental implants in his mouth and sinus.
Don't take short-cuts or take the cheap way out. Be skeptical, ask questions, and watch out those damn quacks!
Get second and third opinions if you have to. And, don't always trust hook-ups told to you by your friends either! If it's too good to be true, it's more than likely a lie and a damn scam.
Get references. Do your due diligence and research before you buy, or something like this could happen to you.
Get second and third opinions if you have to. And, don't always trust hook-ups told to you by your friends either! If it's too good to be true, it's more than likely a lie and a damn scam.
Get references. Do your due diligence and research before you buy, or something like this could happen to you.
Video provided by - lawmed1
- loveqna
RnR: Dental Implants - Reasons to Replace Missing Teeth
If you don't like your smile (or eating certain foods) due to missing teeth, here's a possible solution that can also help restore your confidence, self-security, peace of mind, and self-esteem.
Video provided by - denvilledentist
- loveqna
Video provided by - denvilledentist
- loveqna
Wednesday, June 13, 2012
RnR: Megan's Teeth Straightening Video
If you're thinking about getting your teeth straightened, listen to these good tips from Megan's experience.
Video provided by - amiclubwear
- loveqna
Video provided by - amiclubwear
- loveqna
RnR: Lifestyle Lift Internet Myths Exposed
Lifestyle Lift Internet Myths Exposed
For research and review purposes only. I'm not "for" or "against" Lifestyle Lift. Remember to do your own due diligence.Video provided by - NEXUSNEWSNOW
- loveqna
RnR - Research and Review (New Videos Added)
If the site of blood and surgery makes you queasy, you may need a sedative before you proceed....
If you are prissy and prude, you may not want to proceed either.
If you don't know what the hell this section is about after reading the heading and feel you might misunderstand its purpose, then close your eyes and turn around (hit the "back" button). Proceed no further.
If you are looking for some adult flicks or arousing pics, this is the wrong site for you also - although, I'm not totally against adult flicks and arousing pics.
This section is strictly for people who are considering some type of plastic surgery or physical enhancements to their body. It's for research and review only. Don't let a quack operate on you, then blame me when something goes wrong.
RnR: Cosmetic Surgery Results
RnR: Lifestyle Lift Internet Myths Exposed
RnR: Megan's Teeth Straightening Video
RnR: Body Hair Removal: Laser (Beauty & Grooming Guru)
RnR: Breast Augmentation
RnR: Buttock Augmentation Video
RnR: Buttock Augmentation By Fat Transfer (Video)
Butt Implants Gone Wrong
I'm not trying to help or persuade or suggest that anyone turn to (or away from) plastic surgery to improve their physical appearance, confidence, or self-esteem - or to attract a date. Only you know what is best for you and/or what might make you happy.
I've heard a lot of people suggest to those who are shy, depressed, and unhappy with themselves that true beauty is on the inside and how a person can never be happy with what's on the outside until they're happy on the inside, and so forth. But sometimes, no matter how much you care for yourself on the inside, there still may be something you'd like to change on the outside if you could.
You might want to improve your smile, or your breasts, or eliminate facial hair, or remove a mole, or remove an old tattoo, or whatever. Maybe you want to reduce scars from an accident. Everyone has their own reason for wanting or needing some type of surgery. It's not all about trying to impress the world on the outside. Some people just want to improve something about themselves or get rid of something they're sick and tired of looking at or dealing with.
Think about it... Just because a woman exercises and diets to get rid of fat and cellulite doesn't mean she doesn't love herself. Or, just because she wears a pound of make-up on her face doesn't mean she hates herself. She may hate that fat and those dark circles under her eyes but she may love herself to death and have high self-esteem. Hell, she might even be one of those so-called "strong women".
Hell, a man may hate his height or the fact that he's losing his hair, but that doesn't stop him from being confident, loving himself, and dating. Hell no. He's still gonna believe in himself and chase that booty left and right.
So, physical enhancing surgery is not necessarily a bad thing. It's only bad when a person's mind is really sick and he or she is dealing with some other deep-seeded issue inside.
And we all know some people get addicted to that "stuff", so just be aware that "too much of a good thing - like plastic surgery - can ruin the hell out of you."
I don't wanna call out any celebrity's name, but just remember to do your due diligence and research and ask questions and consider your options. You honestly may not need anything done. You're probably fine just the way you are. But, only you know what will ease your mind and make you happy.
If you are prissy and prude, you may not want to proceed either.
If you don't know what the hell this section is about after reading the heading and feel you might misunderstand its purpose, then close your eyes and turn around (hit the "back" button). Proceed no further.
If you are looking for some adult flicks or arousing pics, this is the wrong site for you also - although, I'm not totally against adult flicks and arousing pics.
This section is strictly for people who are considering some type of plastic surgery or physical enhancements to their body. It's for research and review only. Don't let a quack operate on you, then blame me when something goes wrong.
RnR: Cosmetic Surgery Results
RnR: Lifestyle Lift Internet Myths Exposed
RnR: Megan's Teeth Straightening Video
RnR: Body Hair Removal: Laser (Beauty & Grooming Guru)
RnR: Breast Augmentation
RnR: Buttock Augmentation Video
RnR: Buttock Augmentation By Fat Transfer (Video)
Butt Implants Gone Wrong
I'm not trying to help or persuade or suggest that anyone turn to (or away from) plastic surgery to improve their physical appearance, confidence, or self-esteem - or to attract a date. Only you know what is best for you and/or what might make you happy.
I've heard a lot of people suggest to those who are shy, depressed, and unhappy with themselves that true beauty is on the inside and how a person can never be happy with what's on the outside until they're happy on the inside, and so forth. But sometimes, no matter how much you care for yourself on the inside, there still may be something you'd like to change on the outside if you could.
You might want to improve your smile, or your breasts, or eliminate facial hair, or remove a mole, or remove an old tattoo, or whatever. Maybe you want to reduce scars from an accident. Everyone has their own reason for wanting or needing some type of surgery. It's not all about trying to impress the world on the outside. Some people just want to improve something about themselves or get rid of something they're sick and tired of looking at or dealing with.
Think about it... Just because a woman exercises and diets to get rid of fat and cellulite doesn't mean she doesn't love herself. Or, just because she wears a pound of make-up on her face doesn't mean she hates herself. She may hate that fat and those dark circles under her eyes but she may love herself to death and have high self-esteem. Hell, she might even be one of those so-called "strong women".
Hell, a man may hate his height or the fact that he's losing his hair, but that doesn't stop him from being confident, loving himself, and dating. Hell no. He's still gonna believe in himself and chase that booty left and right.
So, physical enhancing surgery is not necessarily a bad thing. It's only bad when a person's mind is really sick and he or she is dealing with some other deep-seeded issue inside.
And we all know some people get addicted to that "stuff", so just be aware that "too much of a good thing - like plastic surgery - can ruin the hell out of you."
I don't wanna call out any celebrity's name, but just remember to do your due diligence and research and ask questions and consider your options. You honestly may not need anything done. You're probably fine just the way you are. But, only you know what will ease your mind and make you happy.
RnR: Body Hair Removal: Laser (Beauty & Grooming Guru)
Body Hair Removal: Laser (Beauty & Grooming Guru)
A superb informative video on laser hair removal versus other types of hair removal. If you're thinking about hair removal, this video is definitely worth your time.
Video provided by - illumistream
- loveqna
A superb informative video on laser hair removal versus other types of hair removal. If you're thinking about hair removal, this video is definitely worth your time.
Video provided by - illumistream
- loveqna
Sunday, June 10, 2012
VIDEO - Funny Surprise Wedding Vows
I found this video on YouTube a few months ago but wanted to transcribe it before I linked it here. But, my life is full of work and a multitude of other distractions (external and internal), so I haven't done it yet. Maybe the couple has something... ??? Later.
Anyway, this is a superb example of how one can find love anywhere no matter what he or she looks like or how tall or short you are or how long the distance may be or how shy you are or skeptical or whatever.
This video is from November 10, 2009... And, they're still together.
Maybe there's hope for us single lonely bums of the world. Check out their YouTube Channel for the latest episode in their fairytale. What an inspiration.
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Video provided by - cherylrampton
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- loveqna
Anyway, this is a superb example of how one can find love anywhere no matter what he or she looks like or how tall or short you are or how long the distance may be or how shy you are or skeptical or whatever.
This video is from November 10, 2009... And, they're still together.
Maybe there's hope for us single lonely bums of the world. Check out their YouTube Channel for the latest episode in their fairytale. What an inspiration.
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Funny Surprise Wedding Vows
Video provided by - cherylrampton
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2011: Our year in review
Video provided by - cherylrampton
- loveqna
Sunday, May 27, 2012
just be cool (notes)
(notes)
** just jotting down some thoughts for a possible post on confidence and conversation.
If you still feel uneasy about socializing and talking to people, just remember to be cool...
Cool, Calm, and Collected.
There's no need to over-think the situation.
Ask questions and offer input relevant to the subject or situation.
If you hate standing around with your hand in your pocket, offer to help.
Whatever you do, enjoy the moment. Mix, Mingle, and just be cool...
The great thing about being cool, calm, and collected, is that it's like you're in an active meditative state like being in The Zone. You're fully awake and your brain is "clicking on all cylinders". Your thoughts are precise. Your actions are precise. And everything you do is done with ease.
This is the way you want to live your life when you're out engaging in social events and meeting new romantic prospects.
Being cool and calm doesn't mean you can't laugh, joke, and have a good time, but you don't want to get too "crunk" (hyper) for too long and make a spectacle of yourself - Or, miss out on a good opportunity.
Have some dignity about your self.
You want that cutie-pie to admire you for your confidence, style, class, and your ability to have fun. But, you also want to show that you're "balanced" and level-headed.
Have you ever seen how some people can't go out and have a good time because they're worried, pessimistic, and/or doubtful they'll have a good time. They ain't thinking right. Those people aren't cool and calm. There are dark clouds swarming around all in their skulls and they can't be cool and relaxed and let their hair down to enjoy life and precious moments.
You can be cool and have a good time.
When you are cool and calm, you are more focused and aware and can offer good responses and input. If you're talking to a romantic prospect, this can mean more intimate levels of mental interaction (deeper intellectual conversations). If you're in negotiations and doing business (and know what you're doing) then being cool and calm can help you attain more win-win situations - or come out on top (whichever you prefer).
being cool, calm, and collected will help you see things and evaluate decisions (before you make them) more clearly. reduce irrational behavior, actions, and decisions - haste makes waste
being cool, calm, and collected will help you avoid jumping to conclusions and over-reacting.
If you're impulsive like me (I'm an Aries) then you know that being cool and calm can save you a ton of money. This is extremely good for compulsive shoppers and impulsive shoppers who will spend and spend and spend their paychecks on knick-knacks, meaningless trinkets, and junk food, instead of saving for more larger more important products and social experiences like traveling, dining out with your boo, or buying a special gift.
It can also help you avoid confusion, misunderstandings, and drama - especially if you're hasty with words or have a tendency to say whatever comes to your mind.
you will appear more confident in the eyes of others - even if you are NOT confident because you're relaxed and NOT distracted by people or events or situations that can cause drama, doubt, or worry. You cast aside everything that's trivial and you prioritize and deal with issues that actually affect your life or work or relationships.
being cool and calm will help you draw from experience easier - during this time you will have a sharper memory and therefore, you will be wiser in your relationships, business dealings, work, conversations
your instincts will become sharper because your mind is not flooded with emotions
Don't start worrying and trippin' before you go out.
Remember to stay in constant practice with improving your conversation skills and social skills.
If you don't practice and engage, that's the only reason why you should worry. Other than that, you should be having a good time.
So, Practice... and, just be cool.
- loveqna
Friday, May 18, 2012
The Big Payback: I Want Revenge!
James Brown - The Payback
Video provided by - OldSchoolChibani
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So, this bitch led me on and broke my heart. She pretended to care about me and to be interested in me romantically. Every time she invited me out - whether it was with her friends or if we were alone - she'd have her arm around me or she'd be nudged against me with her head on my shoulder almost as if we were cuddling. And we HAVE cuddled and flirted with each other at times and even talked about dating, but I now I see it was all B.S.
And, I never initiated the conversation! Hell, I thought she was grieving over a recent break-up.
But...
She kept flirting with me and eventually we shared a kiss.
It was nice. I didn't feel any sparks or fireworks, but her lips were very soft and the kiss was cool. As a matter of fact, I could never get tired of kissing a girl with lips as sweet and as soft as hers.
But, I had to break away because she started that boolshit and began playing mind games earlier. And, I was a little leery about getting too intimate with a "player" (a hoe), although I wanted to tap that ass.
First, she talked all of this shit about being together but then said she was still pissed about me getting drunk at a party and going into a rage about wanting to go home.
Me and this bitch were laying in bed (just talking) and she was all over me - in my face, arm around me, talking sweet, and getting personal, and all of that. Then, LATER, she's flirting around with another guy (in her group of friends) and hugging all over him. THEN, that same night (the SAME day) the bitch was hugged up all on ANOTHER dude and getting cozy with him! This is the night she claimed that I got drunk and "went into a rage about going home".
It had a bit to do with the fact that she was flirty as hell and basically a player, but I had a few beers because some of my friends were at the bar and I was bored as hell with her and her entourage. They were bowling and although I WILL go bowling, I'm not interested in bowling. And, I don't like going out to venues where you just sit and drink and sit and drink and talk and sit and drink - HELL, I CAN DO THAT AT HOME! wtf???
So, I wanted to go home since neither she nor any of her friends wanted to go out dancing or something besides bowling. We could've at least walked around uptown and checked out the scene.
So, anyway, she said she "had a change of heart" because SHE said I flipped-out.
A few weeks later, she was all over me again but I kept her arms and hands off of me and played it cool. Whenever she tried that "hugging b.s.", I intercepted her hand and clasped it for a brief moment before letting go. I didn't want her to touch me. I wasn't pouting. I just didn't want her on me like that. She'll especially do stuff like that in front of other people - and I don't know why - but, "Don't play with me. Run that game on those suckers."
Don't you hate it when someone tries to play with your emotions like that? Or, when they flirt and tease a lot. Or, when they send mixed signals? Or, when they can't make up their mind about dating exclusively, being in a relationship, or being friends? After awhile you get tired of their crap and want them to move on and leave you alone.
I know it's hard to avoid the scalawag, but if possible, just stay away. Don't accept their phone calls. Don't respond to their text messages. Don't go out on dates with the bum. Just keep busy. Find a hobby or something and Keep your mind off of him or her and let the emotions die down. If you don't, you're just gonna be constantly frustrated and pissed off because they'll keep toying with you as long as you allow it.
Keep reading.
So, anyway, she comes to my job - being flirty and invading my personal space. She got close and realized that I had been smoking. She wants me to quit. And, when she smelled the smoke she said, "That's why we could never be together."
This dumbass broad. I wrote her off a long time ago. I don't give a fat baby's bottom if she knows I smoke! Good riddens...
Time passes and we're chillin' (as friends or whatever) and she's bringing me food at work, and giving me rides to and from work, and cooking for me, and wanting to go out, and we're grocery shopping together, and having semi-deep conversations, and she's asking for and receiving massages from me and giving me back rubs, and we're kickin' it exclusively for a few weeks, so I'm thinking: "okay, we're making progress."
I was thinking maybe she's trying to change her "player" ways.
Then, BAM! The bitch goes on a trip out of town with some scumbag.... lol. wtf??
You talk about playing with a guy's emotions... lol. I wanted to cuss that bitch out.
Then, a couple of days later, she had the nerve to try and sip some of my coffee. I said, "AHHT! Don't put your lips on my cup and you've had that guy's dick and balls in your mouth!"
I may have overreacted, but I was serious. I didn't want that bastards balls on my cup. And, I don't like drinking after people - especially women who spend the night with other men. Ain't no telling where the guy's dick and balls have been. Or, where the woman's mouth has been.
She just gave me this weird look. She was probably shocked at my reaction, but she knew I was telling the truth.
I said to myself: This has got to be the devil - or, bad karma - for all the times I've been a jerk in my relationships.
Whatever. It's still b.s.
So, here's the last straw... the end of the story...
We're supposed to be platonic friends but she called me over twice a couple of weeks ago. We talked and cuddled and whatnot (No sex or kissing), and I spent the night with her. The next day (or night rather - since I'm still on 3rd shift), she cooked and brought me lunch. She's always asking me if I want her to bring me lunch or if I need anything because she's a sweet girl.
And, I hate that I work at night because she's always telling me she's lonely and wished I could be home with her at night. And, it makes me feel bad because I hate the fact that's she's lonely.
But, that broad wasn't lonely for too long!
A few nights after that, she had another friend spend the night in there cuddling with her! I said "DAMN!" wtf??? lol... This bitch will drive a man insane. lol... She TOLD me she was cuddling with the dude.
I said, "What's wrong with this chick? Does she have a cuddling fetish?"
What would you do if a girl (or a guy) kept playing with you like that? Some people would snap. It's situations and events like this that turn nice guys into O. J. Simpson.
But, that's not even the "kicker"...
Two or three days after that, she tells me she was introduced to some guy and they're "officially" boyfriend and girlfriend... "OFFICIALLY".
Now, what does that mean???
Did she consummate the relationship???
I don't know what "officially" means and I don't think I care to know. But, I DO know this:
It'll be a cold day in Hell before I let that bitch fuck with my mind again.
And, I'm not a vengeful person but you have to admit: Sometimes revenge is sweet as hell. And, I plan on paying her back for all the times she's led me on and kept me involved in her craziness.
I don't care about that old saying "you never miss a good thing until it's gone". I don't want her to miss me.
And, I don't want her to have any regrets about NOT giving me the opportunity to be her man.
What I want is for that bitch to see me and beg and plead for the chance just to be acknowledged by me.
I want her to be desperate for me and yearn for the chance just to be near me.
And, she's still not gonna get an immediate invitation. Eventually, she's gonna have to have an appointment.
I hate to say it like that.
But, if you've ever been in a situation like this or ever been played with emotionally and mentally by these scumbag wannabee players, then I'm sure you know how I feel. And, if you don't, I'll tell you right now...
I'm mad as Hell.
- loveqna
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Video provided by - OldSchoolChibani
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So, this bitch led me on and broke my heart. She pretended to care about me and to be interested in me romantically. Every time she invited me out - whether it was with her friends or if we were alone - she'd have her arm around me or she'd be nudged against me with her head on my shoulder almost as if we were cuddling. And we HAVE cuddled and flirted with each other at times and even talked about dating, but I now I see it was all B.S.
And, I never initiated the conversation! Hell, I thought she was grieving over a recent break-up.
But...
She kept flirting with me and eventually we shared a kiss.
It was nice. I didn't feel any sparks or fireworks, but her lips were very soft and the kiss was cool. As a matter of fact, I could never get tired of kissing a girl with lips as sweet and as soft as hers.
But, I had to break away because she started that boolshit and began playing mind games earlier. And, I was a little leery about getting too intimate with a "player" (a hoe), although I wanted to tap that ass.
First, she talked all of this shit about being together but then said she was still pissed about me getting drunk at a party and going into a rage about wanting to go home.
Me and this bitch were laying in bed (just talking) and she was all over me - in my face, arm around me, talking sweet, and getting personal, and all of that. Then, LATER, she's flirting around with another guy (in her group of friends) and hugging all over him. THEN, that same night (the SAME day) the bitch was hugged up all on ANOTHER dude and getting cozy with him! This is the night she claimed that I got drunk and "went into a rage about going home".
It had a bit to do with the fact that she was flirty as hell and basically a player, but I had a few beers because some of my friends were at the bar and I was bored as hell with her and her entourage. They were bowling and although I WILL go bowling, I'm not interested in bowling. And, I don't like going out to venues where you just sit and drink and sit and drink and talk and sit and drink - HELL, I CAN DO THAT AT HOME! wtf???
So, I wanted to go home since neither she nor any of her friends wanted to go out dancing or something besides bowling. We could've at least walked around uptown and checked out the scene.
So, anyway, she said she "had a change of heart" because SHE said I flipped-out.
A few weeks later, she was all over me again but I kept her arms and hands off of me and played it cool. Whenever she tried that "hugging b.s.", I intercepted her hand and clasped it for a brief moment before letting go. I didn't want her to touch me. I wasn't pouting. I just didn't want her on me like that. She'll especially do stuff like that in front of other people - and I don't know why - but, "Don't play with me. Run that game on those suckers."
Don't you hate it when someone tries to play with your emotions like that? Or, when they flirt and tease a lot. Or, when they send mixed signals? Or, when they can't make up their mind about dating exclusively, being in a relationship, or being friends? After awhile you get tired of their crap and want them to move on and leave you alone.
I know it's hard to avoid the scalawag, but if possible, just stay away. Don't accept their phone calls. Don't respond to their text messages. Don't go out on dates with the bum. Just keep busy. Find a hobby or something and Keep your mind off of him or her and let the emotions die down. If you don't, you're just gonna be constantly frustrated and pissed off because they'll keep toying with you as long as you allow it.
Keep reading.
So, anyway, she comes to my job - being flirty and invading my personal space. She got close and realized that I had been smoking. She wants me to quit. And, when she smelled the smoke she said, "That's why we could never be together."
This dumbass broad. I wrote her off a long time ago. I don't give a fat baby's bottom if she knows I smoke! Good riddens...
Time passes and we're chillin' (as friends or whatever) and she's bringing me food at work, and giving me rides to and from work, and cooking for me, and wanting to go out, and we're grocery shopping together, and having semi-deep conversations, and she's asking for and receiving massages from me and giving me back rubs, and we're kickin' it exclusively for a few weeks, so I'm thinking: "okay, we're making progress."
I was thinking maybe she's trying to change her "player" ways.
Then, BAM! The bitch goes on a trip out of town with some scumbag.... lol. wtf??
You talk about playing with a guy's emotions... lol. I wanted to cuss that bitch out.
Then, a couple of days later, she had the nerve to try and sip some of my coffee. I said, "AHHT! Don't put your lips on my cup and you've had that guy's dick and balls in your mouth!"
I may have overreacted, but I was serious. I didn't want that bastards balls on my cup. And, I don't like drinking after people - especially women who spend the night with other men. Ain't no telling where the guy's dick and balls have been. Or, where the woman's mouth has been.
She just gave me this weird look. She was probably shocked at my reaction, but she knew I was telling the truth.
I said to myself: This has got to be the devil - or, bad karma - for all the times I've been a jerk in my relationships.
Whatever. It's still b.s.
So, here's the last straw... the end of the story...
We're supposed to be platonic friends but she called me over twice a couple of weeks ago. We talked and cuddled and whatnot (No sex or kissing), and I spent the night with her. The next day (or night rather - since I'm still on 3rd shift), she cooked and brought me lunch. She's always asking me if I want her to bring me lunch or if I need anything because she's a sweet girl.
And, I hate that I work at night because she's always telling me she's lonely and wished I could be home with her at night. And, it makes me feel bad because I hate the fact that's she's lonely.
But, that broad wasn't lonely for too long!
A few nights after that, she had another friend spend the night in there cuddling with her! I said "DAMN!" wtf??? lol... This bitch will drive a man insane. lol... She TOLD me she was cuddling with the dude.
I said, "What's wrong with this chick? Does she have a cuddling fetish?"
What would you do if a girl (or a guy) kept playing with you like that? Some people would snap. It's situations and events like this that turn nice guys into O. J. Simpson.
But, that's not even the "kicker"...
Two or three days after that, she tells me she was introduced to some guy and they're "officially" boyfriend and girlfriend... "OFFICIALLY".
Now, what does that mean???
Did she consummate the relationship???
I don't know what "officially" means and I don't think I care to know. But, I DO know this:
It'll be a cold day in Hell before I let that bitch fuck with my mind again.
And, I'm not a vengeful person but you have to admit: Sometimes revenge is sweet as hell. And, I plan on paying her back for all the times she's led me on and kept me involved in her craziness.
I don't care about that old saying "you never miss a good thing until it's gone". I don't want her to miss me.
And, I don't want her to have any regrets about NOT giving me the opportunity to be her man.
What I want is for that bitch to see me and beg and plead for the chance just to be acknowledged by me.
I want her to be desperate for me and yearn for the chance just to be near me.
And, she's still not gonna get an immediate invitation. Eventually, she's gonna have to have an appointment.
I hate to say it like that.
But, if you've ever been in a situation like this or ever been played with emotionally and mentally by these scumbag wannabee players, then I'm sure you know how I feel. And, if you don't, I'll tell you right now...
I'm mad as Hell.
- loveqna
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Thursday, May 17, 2012
Why It's So Hard To Let Go
Nelly Furtado - I'm Like A Bird
Video provided by - NellyFurtadoVEVO
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I've lost my will to live. I feel like I just want to lay in this bed and die for the rest of my life...
Having a broken heart is hell.
Although... I don't know if my heart is really broken. Maybe it's just disappointment... I don't know...
I'm just de-motivated.
Or, un-motivated.
Hell, I just don't have any energy. My desire to blog and write has left me.
I feel like a deflated balloon... drifting, falling, rising, wandering aimlessly looking for a place to die.
I've never realized it before, but one of the worst feelings in the world is to be in a close relationship with someone you know in your heart is "perfect" for you as a partner or lover and to be rejected by him or her romantically, although, the BOTH of you are looking for someone to love.
Here you are willing to give all of yourself completely to this person - to be honest, faithful, devoted, supportive, and everything else, and he or she is looking past you still searching for something else like you have no value. Or, like you're just uninteresting.
The bum is getting used, abused, rejected, stood-up, cussed-out, and kicked to the damn curb and he or she STILL won't take a chance with you. ??? Like: wtf??? Am I a leper or something???
And, it's not that the only thing you have to offer is a great personality. You may be cute, attractive, or have your finances and life essentials (like your car, home, and job) in order, and you might have some style and class about yourself, yet and still, it's not good enough for more than a friendship.
And, the craziest thing about all of this is: You could do better.
It's not like this douchebag is top-shelf. But... he (or she) has all of the qualities (or that one unique quality) you like and admire, so you can't resist and it's driving you insane.
What do you do about a situation like that?
I've always said it's not always easy to just pick yourself up and move on from a relationship. Sometimes, you can easily walk away, sometimes you can't. Some people can't leave a relationship no matter how heart-breaking and/or stressful it is.
The bum may not be all that attractive or kind or thoughtful - or even useful - but, when he or she has all of the qualities you've ever wanted and hoped for in a man or woman, it's like they've been put here especially for you... Like a blessing from God... And, you feel like you have to make the most of it (this blessing) before it's too late. Like you can't let this opportunity pass you by or you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
So, your mind churns and turns. Anxiety takes hold. You're restless. You can't focus... All you can do is hope and wait and pray that he or she finally opens his or her eyes and recognize this opportunity also. And the more time that passes by, the more anxious and grief-stricken you feel.
It's even worse when you're close friends, because you're around this person often and he or she is running around pursuing prospects and dates and smooching or having sex with various scumbags and not giving you the chance to make love, or show your love, or sway his or her opinion before some worthless jerk (or chickenhead) comes into the picture and ruins everything.
It just takes everything out of you... Drains your spirit. And, there's not much you can do about it.
I ain't too proud to beg, but I'd have to be at my wits end before I started that crap.
So, I'm just laying here... waiting to die before I have to get up and go to work.
If she wasn't a "ride-or-die" chick, I could care less. But a woman with those qualities are hard to come by. And, she has them all. Intelligence. Drive. Courage. Determination. Devotion. Supportive. Sex-Appeal. Charm.... I could run down the entire list, but you know what I mean.
With a girl like that on your side it's like being involved in the Ultimate Relationship: like "Bonnie and Clyde".
That's what most guys want. AND, what a lot of women out there want. Even THIS chick! Ever since I've known her, that's been one of the most important ideals on her mind - to have a "Bonnie and Clyde" type of relationship.
That dumb broad... We have so much in common.
Anyway...
Now, you can get an idea of why I'm going crazy and why it's hard for me to simply move on.
I only hope she opens her eyes soon so that we can pursue and conquer our dreams together before she throws herself away on some jerk who only wants her to be a submissive handmaid.
I don't know... I thought it was a blessing, but it could also be the devil tormenting me.
- loveqna
Video provided by - NellyFurtadoVEVO
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I've lost my will to live. I feel like I just want to lay in this bed and die for the rest of my life...
Having a broken heart is hell.
Although... I don't know if my heart is really broken. Maybe it's just disappointment... I don't know...
I'm just de-motivated.
Or, un-motivated.
Hell, I just don't have any energy. My desire to blog and write has left me.
I feel like a deflated balloon... drifting, falling, rising, wandering aimlessly looking for a place to die.
I've never realized it before, but one of the worst feelings in the world is to be in a close relationship with someone you know in your heart is "perfect" for you as a partner or lover and to be rejected by him or her romantically, although, the BOTH of you are looking for someone to love.
Here you are willing to give all of yourself completely to this person - to be honest, faithful, devoted, supportive, and everything else, and he or she is looking past you still searching for something else like you have no value. Or, like you're just uninteresting.
The bum is getting used, abused, rejected, stood-up, cussed-out, and kicked to the damn curb and he or she STILL won't take a chance with you. ??? Like: wtf??? Am I a leper or something???
And, it's not that the only thing you have to offer is a great personality. You may be cute, attractive, or have your finances and life essentials (like your car, home, and job) in order, and you might have some style and class about yourself, yet and still, it's not good enough for more than a friendship.
And, the craziest thing about all of this is: You could do better.
It's not like this douchebag is top-shelf. But... he (or she) has all of the qualities (or that one unique quality) you like and admire, so you can't resist and it's driving you insane.
What do you do about a situation like that?
I've always said it's not always easy to just pick yourself up and move on from a relationship. Sometimes, you can easily walk away, sometimes you can't. Some people can't leave a relationship no matter how heart-breaking and/or stressful it is.
The bum may not be all that attractive or kind or thoughtful - or even useful - but, when he or she has all of the qualities you've ever wanted and hoped for in a man or woman, it's like they've been put here especially for you... Like a blessing from God... And, you feel like you have to make the most of it (this blessing) before it's too late. Like you can't let this opportunity pass you by or you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
So, your mind churns and turns. Anxiety takes hold. You're restless. You can't focus... All you can do is hope and wait and pray that he or she finally opens his or her eyes and recognize this opportunity also. And the more time that passes by, the more anxious and grief-stricken you feel.
It's even worse when you're close friends, because you're around this person often and he or she is running around pursuing prospects and dates and smooching or having sex with various scumbags and not giving you the chance to make love, or show your love, or sway his or her opinion before some worthless jerk (or chickenhead) comes into the picture and ruins everything.
It just takes everything out of you... Drains your spirit. And, there's not much you can do about it.
I ain't too proud to beg, but I'd have to be at my wits end before I started that crap.
So, I'm just laying here... waiting to die before I have to get up and go to work.
If she wasn't a "ride-or-die" chick, I could care less. But a woman with those qualities are hard to come by. And, she has them all. Intelligence. Drive. Courage. Determination. Devotion. Supportive. Sex-Appeal. Charm.... I could run down the entire list, but you know what I mean.
With a girl like that on your side it's like being involved in the Ultimate Relationship: like "Bonnie and Clyde".
That's what most guys want. AND, what a lot of women out there want. Even THIS chick! Ever since I've known her, that's been one of the most important ideals on her mind - to have a "Bonnie and Clyde" type of relationship.
That dumb broad... We have so much in common.
Anyway...
Now, you can get an idea of why I'm going crazy and why it's hard for me to simply move on.
I only hope she opens her eyes soon so that we can pursue and conquer our dreams together before she throws herself away on some jerk who only wants her to be a submissive handmaid.
I don't know... I thought it was a blessing, but it could also be the devil tormenting me.
- loveqna
Wednesday, April 25, 2012
Why It's Hard For A Booty-Call To Develop Into Something More
There's an old saying that goes: "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"
This is the philosophy of the men and women who appreciate "friends with benefits" relationships or "a relationship of convenience" with a man or woman who is strictly a "booty-call".
It's difficult to get emotionally involved with a person who is simply a "booty-call" because the only reason a man or woman needs a person like that is for sex. They may not care who else the person is dating or sleeping with or what they do with their free time. All they care about is satisfying their sexual desires or fetishes.
Unlike a "friends with benefits" relationship, you don't take a "booty-call" or "sexual partner" out on dates or go to social events with them. You don't necessarily go out in public or chill together. They are in your life only to help you with your sexual needs.
So, although they might have "fun" together and enjoy each other sexually, they fight their emotions so as not to get attached to one another.
They may even have an "understanding" about their relationship and never contact each other on a regular basis. Sometimes, it's "just business".
The only time they might meet is at a nightclub, a hotel, or a bar - if they're not hooking-up in a local park or parking lot after work.
In fact, these two "booty-calls" may already BE in relationships. Sometimes long-term relationships. But, they use each other to get what they're not getting at home sexually. They're getting all of the other "benefits" but good loving ain't one of them.
Maybe their partner is boring in bed. Or, too small. Or, unable to perform. Or, too prudish. Sometimes, the man or woman just wants "something different". Every cheater has their own reasons for straying.
But, a booty-call is not limited to people who are in "committed relationships". Single folks enjoy booty-calls as well. Sometimes, these single folks are just sex addicts plain and simple. They're like "free spirits". They go out looking for action. Their goal in life is to have fun and to have sex. They don't want a commitment. They enjoy having booty-calls. You can go on some of these adult dating websites and find the pages packed with profiles of those looking for quick romp.
And, I hate to say it, but some people are booty-calls and don't even know it.
(I'm not going to put anybody on blast because discussion of some situations may make some people have second thoughts about their relationships, or falsely judge the circumstances of their relationship.)
Now, personally, I've never seen or heard of a long-term booty-call developing into anything more than what it is in the beginning. I've known some people to get attached and want more, but usually, the other "partner" doesn't want to take things any further because they're either married, involved in a long-term relationship, or enjoy being single. It causes a little bit of drama (sometimes "break-ups") but usually the booty-calls continue - at least for a while.
And, that's how most booty-calls remain - strictly business. No love. No promises. No commitments.
But, there are some relationships that have Started Off as a booty-call and have developed into more than just a "relationship of convenience".
When this happens, usually one of the "partners" is waiting to get out of relationship or get a "break" from a relationship so that he or she can fully commit to the booty-call, or at least, become "a friend with benefits".
I know in one case where a crackhead kept taking his (non-druggie) friend home with him and the friend got to know the wife pretty well. And one night, while the crackhead was out on the hunt for a score of crack, his friend was at his house "getting jiggy" with his wife. Well, a few booty-calls later and they were living together. A few years later, and they were married. And, even before they got married, they were buying a home and starting a family. So, they're probably still together.
Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn't.
That's why some cheaters break-up with the booty-call they cheated with or end up getting cheated on BY the booty-call they cheated with. Emotions get involved. They try to date or start a relationship, and it just doesn't work out.
The cheater thinks he or she has found love and all the while the booty-call has another booty-call on the side or, he or she doesn't want to be in a committed relationship. Maybe because the booty-call is a "free spirit". Maybe it's because the booty-call enjoys the benefits of his or her present life or lifestyle.
So, they may or may not have more than a "sexual connection". But, when one or both "partners" are free to date, that's when they find out if there is more to be discovered between each other.
It's a gamble like almost everything else in life.
All I can say is: If you don't want to be a booty-call, get to know the person and know what you're getting into before you give up the booty.
Don't lose your mind and go in with great expectations right off the bat. Use your good instincts and Intuition and take heed to the game, because all the sweet-talk and begging later on ain't gonna change the situation or the person's mind if a booty-call is all he or she wants.
And that reminds me of another saying: "You can lead a horse to water and make him drink. But, watch out when he starts pissing because he might piss on you."
- loveqna
This is the philosophy of the men and women who appreciate "friends with benefits" relationships or "a relationship of convenience" with a man or woman who is strictly a "booty-call".
It's difficult to get emotionally involved with a person who is simply a "booty-call" because the only reason a man or woman needs a person like that is for sex. They may not care who else the person is dating or sleeping with or what they do with their free time. All they care about is satisfying their sexual desires or fetishes.
Unlike a "friends with benefits" relationship, you don't take a "booty-call" or "sexual partner" out on dates or go to social events with them. You don't necessarily go out in public or chill together. They are in your life only to help you with your sexual needs.
So, although they might have "fun" together and enjoy each other sexually, they fight their emotions so as not to get attached to one another.
They may even have an "understanding" about their relationship and never contact each other on a regular basis. Sometimes, it's "just business".
The only time they might meet is at a nightclub, a hotel, or a bar - if they're not hooking-up in a local park or parking lot after work.
In fact, these two "booty-calls" may already BE in relationships. Sometimes long-term relationships. But, they use each other to get what they're not getting at home sexually. They're getting all of the other "benefits" but good loving ain't one of them.
Maybe their partner is boring in bed. Or, too small. Or, unable to perform. Or, too prudish. Sometimes, the man or woman just wants "something different". Every cheater has their own reasons for straying.
But, a booty-call is not limited to people who are in "committed relationships". Single folks enjoy booty-calls as well. Sometimes, these single folks are just sex addicts plain and simple. They're like "free spirits". They go out looking for action. Their goal in life is to have fun and to have sex. They don't want a commitment. They enjoy having booty-calls. You can go on some of these adult dating websites and find the pages packed with profiles of those looking for quick romp.
And, I hate to say it, but some people are booty-calls and don't even know it.
(I'm not going to put anybody on blast because discussion of some situations may make some people have second thoughts about their relationships, or falsely judge the circumstances of their relationship.)
Now, personally, I've never seen or heard of a long-term booty-call developing into anything more than what it is in the beginning. I've known some people to get attached and want more, but usually, the other "partner" doesn't want to take things any further because they're either married, involved in a long-term relationship, or enjoy being single. It causes a little bit of drama (sometimes "break-ups") but usually the booty-calls continue - at least for a while.
And, that's how most booty-calls remain - strictly business. No love. No promises. No commitments.
But, there are some relationships that have Started Off as a booty-call and have developed into more than just a "relationship of convenience".
When this happens, usually one of the "partners" is waiting to get out of relationship or get a "break" from a relationship so that he or she can fully commit to the booty-call, or at least, become "a friend with benefits".
I know in one case where a crackhead kept taking his (non-druggie) friend home with him and the friend got to know the wife pretty well. And one night, while the crackhead was out on the hunt for a score of crack, his friend was at his house "getting jiggy" with his wife. Well, a few booty-calls later and they were living together. A few years later, and they were married. And, even before they got married, they were buying a home and starting a family. So, they're probably still together.
Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn't.
That's why some cheaters break-up with the booty-call they cheated with or end up getting cheated on BY the booty-call they cheated with. Emotions get involved. They try to date or start a relationship, and it just doesn't work out.
The cheater thinks he or she has found love and all the while the booty-call has another booty-call on the side or, he or she doesn't want to be in a committed relationship. Maybe because the booty-call is a "free spirit". Maybe it's because the booty-call enjoys the benefits of his or her present life or lifestyle.
So, they may or may not have more than a "sexual connection". But, when one or both "partners" are free to date, that's when they find out if there is more to be discovered between each other.
It's a gamble like almost everything else in life.
All I can say is: If you don't want to be a booty-call, get to know the person and know what you're getting into before you give up the booty.
Don't lose your mind and go in with great expectations right off the bat. Use your good instincts and Intuition and take heed to the game, because all the sweet-talk and begging later on ain't gonna change the situation or the person's mind if a booty-call is all he or she wants.
And that reminds me of another saying: "You can lead a horse to water and make him drink. But, watch out when he starts pissing because he might piss on you."
- loveqna
Tuesday, April 17, 2012
Teacher leaves family for teen student
Teacher leaves wife and kids for teen student (couple's interview and video clips included)
The mom of an 18 year old girl who has moved in with her 41 year old former teacher speaks exclusively to Nancy Grace.
Click Here for the ABC News YouTube link with the couple's interview of how they met and began their relationship.
Click Here for the ABC News YouTube link with the couple's interview of how they met and began their relationship.
Video provided by - HLN
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Dr. Phil- Ripped From The Headlines (Part 1)
Video provided by - razinehelal
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Dr. Phil- Ripped From The Headlines (Part 2)
Video provided by - razinehelal
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Dr. Phil- Ripped From The Headlines (Part 3)
Video provided by - razinehelal
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- loveqna
Leave A Bad Relationship And Be Free To Be You
They have second thoughts about the break-up or regret that they ever left.
That's why a lot of couples who aren't good for each other keep getting back together.
One of them or both feel lonely as hell or one of them feels like he or she can't make it alone (not financially, but socially, emotionally, and physically).
Usually, it's the woman because sometimes, especially at night, she wants to be held, or cuddled, or feel that she is loved, safe, and cared for. And, some men need that affection and companionship too.
Not to mention people who are newly single and need someone talk to. For many of them, sometimes, hours upon hours alone can seem like torture.Or, at least extreme boredom.
But, if you've tried everything and the relationship still sucks, and you have left, and you don't want to ever go back..., but you still feel lonely and out of sorts about your new life..., consider the blessings and options you've been given...
You're feeling awkward because you're not sure what to do next.
You just have to get used to your new territory and environment.
If you're a "home-body" go out and get some magazines or books and think about how you would like to make your new place more like the Home you want it to be. If you have cable you can watch HGTV for ideas (or some other "do it yourself home show").
Think about getting some indoor plants or something to enhance your personal space, inner energy, and vibe, since you don't have any human energy around. Start a garden. The experience of shopping will take your mind off of the boredom and feelings of being out of sync.
If you like being "out and about", get out of the house. Go out on a date or hang out with friends for a few days until you get tired of hanging out.
Clean up your wardrobe. Throw that old stuff out. New place. New clothes. New attitude.
And a new lease on life.
Change your style. Break some habits. Meditate. Become Fierce. It's a New Beginning for you.
Be whomever (and whatever) you want to be. Or, simply be who you really are. Spread your wings, but don't change. That's cool.
For those of you looking for more ideas...
Read a novel.
Write a book.
Make a video.
Work out.
Dance.
Learn Astrology.
Help organize an event.
Learn more about the benefits and options offered to men and women in your situation.
Play online poker.
Plan a house-warming party with friends. Let some of them chip-in and bring some new gifts, food, and drink for you. Did you ever see that movie "My Fake Fiance'"? Same concept.
Get some cookbooks (or watch Food Network) and improve your cooking skills. You could share your food and recipes with friends.
Just keep moving forward with your life.
Remember now that you have the power to be and do whatever you want! It's a New Adventure!
And, if you don't like being stuck in the house, plan a trip or a vacation.
You're a self-made man/woman now. You're your own boss. Revel in the fact that you can do whatever the heck you want to do!
You can be as outlandish and/or creative as you like. You can explore many more options.
You can start learning to paint. Or, you can learn how to play a musical instrument. Or, you can focus on writing reviews - whatever you want.
This transition - this new chapter in your life - doesn't have to be a "drift" in your life. It shouldn't be. It should be like a rocket-ship taking you to the Moon - or, as far out as you want go.
You have so much more control over your life and destiny now.
Focus on moving forward. Enjoy the moment. Consider your new power of independence.
You can do whatever you like.
You don't need anyone's permission to do anything. You can be as lazy as you like without feeling guilty about it.
You can do what you want without someone looking over your shoulder.
You don't have to explain anything to anybody!
You don't need that sweaty bum's approval. You don't have to listen to that loud-mouth broad complaining all day.
You can lay in bed on the computer all day watching "Bad Girls Club" if you want to.
You have all the time in the world to do whatever YOU want to do.
There's this guy I work with who makes me sick to my stomach.
The Boy is 22 years old and he acts as timid as a nine year-old rugrat.
He's always complaining that his step-mom yells at him and makes him clean his bathroom or room - or, makes him save a certain percentage of his money. Or, that she often belittles him. Or, if he makes a decision to do something, SHE changes his plans and tells him that he can't do it.
Yesterday, he said he was going to hang out with some relatives and a friend and that THEY would probably MAKE him wear a suit or dress casual for the occasion.
I looked at this fucking jerk like he was a damned fool...
I said, "Dawg... You're 22 years old. You're a grown fucking man. Stop acting like a kid."
Then, he said, "Yeah, it's just hard to do that when she keeps making me do whatever she wants me to do."
She tells the man when to go out and get fresh air! Like she has to keep up with his breathing for him.
He and one of his close friends were going to get an apartment together and he backed out because SHE told him it would be too expensive.
He got accepted into the military and is supposed to be leaving in a few months and she berates him about how bad he sucks in his physical training exercises. "She got angry when I told her I didn't pass on my run time."
His step-mom and dad will go out and get food and not even ask him if he wants anything even if he's going to pay for it himself. They'll cook and won't leave the man a scrap of meat or even the dust from the crumbs. Shaking my head, I said, "damn... That's pitiful."
I was really talking about him.
This fool is the real life water boy from the movie "Waterboy".
And, the guy is not stupid or "slow". He's just been treated like a little boy for so long that he still thinks he's a little boy. I think the only thing that can help him now is a damn therapist - or a hypnotist.
Once those sergeants in the military get a hold of his ass, his goofy Gomer Pyle ass will straighten up. They'll make a man out of him.
I know I shouldn't get so angry about another person's life or lifestyle, but it irritates me when some people are so timid about life and allow other people to treat them like a doormat.
Why be afraid to live and enjoy life and not take control of your destiny?
Some people will stay in an abusive relationship because they're afraid of struggling, or failing, or making mistakes and being stuck for a while.
Why???
That's how you learn.
The World isn't Perfect. Life isn't perfect. You're gonna make mistakes. You're gonna face difficulty and run into problems. You're gonna have second thoughts about your decisions and the choices you make. But, you can't let that stop you from taking chances in life or growing as a person.
You can't let that stop you from getting out of these bad relationships with people who enjoy making your life a living hell.
Accept the challenge. Embrace your new adventure.
The bottom line is: Just be as wise as you can be about it.
Read a novel.
Write a book.
Make a video.
Work out.
Dance.
Learn Astrology.
Help organize an event.
Learn more about the benefits and options offered to men and women in your situation.
Play online poker.
Plan a house-warming party with friends. Let some of them chip-in and bring some new gifts, food, and drink for you. Did you ever see that movie "My Fake Fiance'"? Same concept.
Get some cookbooks (or watch Food Network) and improve your cooking skills. You could share your food and recipes with friends.
Just keep moving forward with your life.
Remember now that you have the power to be and do whatever you want! It's a New Adventure!
And, if you don't like being stuck in the house, plan a trip or a vacation.
You're a self-made man/woman now. You're your own boss. Revel in the fact that you can do whatever the heck you want to do!
You can be as outlandish and/or creative as you like. You can explore many more options.
You can start learning to paint. Or, you can learn how to play a musical instrument. Or, you can focus on writing reviews - whatever you want.
This transition - this new chapter in your life - doesn't have to be a "drift" in your life. It shouldn't be. It should be like a rocket-ship taking you to the Moon - or, as far out as you want go.
You have so much more control over your life and destiny now.
Focus on moving forward. Enjoy the moment. Consider your new power of independence.
You can do whatever you like.
You don't need anyone's permission to do anything. You can be as lazy as you like without feeling guilty about it.
You can do what you want without someone looking over your shoulder.
You don't have to explain anything to anybody!
You don't need that sweaty bum's approval. You don't have to listen to that loud-mouth broad complaining all day.
You can lay in bed on the computer all day watching "Bad Girls Club" if you want to.
You have all the time in the world to do whatever YOU want to do.
There's this guy I work with who makes me sick to my stomach.
The Boy is 22 years old and he acts as timid as a nine year-old rugrat.
He's always complaining that his step-mom yells at him and makes him clean his bathroom or room - or, makes him save a certain percentage of his money. Or, that she often belittles him. Or, if he makes a decision to do something, SHE changes his plans and tells him that he can't do it.
Yesterday, he said he was going to hang out with some relatives and a friend and that THEY would probably MAKE him wear a suit or dress casual for the occasion.
I looked at this fucking jerk like he was a damned fool...
I said, "Dawg... You're 22 years old. You're a grown fucking man. Stop acting like a kid."
Then, he said, "Yeah, it's just hard to do that when she keeps making me do whatever she wants me to do."
She tells the man when to go out and get fresh air! Like she has to keep up with his breathing for him.
He and one of his close friends were going to get an apartment together and he backed out because SHE told him it would be too expensive.
He got accepted into the military and is supposed to be leaving in a few months and she berates him about how bad he sucks in his physical training exercises. "She got angry when I told her I didn't pass on my run time."
His step-mom and dad will go out and get food and not even ask him if he wants anything even if he's going to pay for it himself. They'll cook and won't leave the man a scrap of meat or even the dust from the crumbs. Shaking my head, I said, "damn... That's pitiful."
I was really talking about him.
This fool is the real life water boy from the movie "Waterboy".
And, the guy is not stupid or "slow". He's just been treated like a little boy for so long that he still thinks he's a little boy. I think the only thing that can help him now is a damn therapist - or a hypnotist.
Once those sergeants in the military get a hold of his ass, his goofy Gomer Pyle ass will straighten up. They'll make a man out of him.
I know I shouldn't get so angry about another person's life or lifestyle, but it irritates me when some people are so timid about life and allow other people to treat them like a doormat.
Why be afraid to live and enjoy life and not take control of your destiny?
Some people will stay in an abusive relationship because they're afraid of struggling, or failing, or making mistakes and being stuck for a while.
Why???
That's how you learn.
The World isn't Perfect. Life isn't perfect. You're gonna make mistakes. You're gonna face difficulty and run into problems. You're gonna have second thoughts about your decisions and the choices you make. But, you can't let that stop you from taking chances in life or growing as a person.
You can't let that stop you from getting out of these bad relationships with people who enjoy making your life a living hell.
Accept the challenge. Embrace your new adventure.
The bottom line is: Just be as wise as you can be about it.
Prepare yourself.
Ask the right questions when you're researching and making connections. Don't be foolish with your resources. And don't be afraid to speak-up, take control, or stand up for yourself to get what you want and need.
You have the Power to succeed at anything in life. Now, all you need is the balls to use it.
- loveqna
Ask the right questions when you're researching and making connections. Don't be foolish with your resources. And don't be afraid to speak-up, take control, or stand up for yourself to get what you want and need.
You have the Power to succeed at anything in life. Now, all you need is the balls to use it.
- loveqna
Monday, March 26, 2012
Booty Video: Trace Adkins - Honky Tonk Badonkadonk
Trace Adkins - Honky Tonk Badonkadonk
This ain't the only reason why I listen to country music. But it's a damn good reason why every alpha male should. There's some fine lookin' booty in here. Which proves again... It doesn't matter if the man comes from Timbuktu, Tamil, or Tennessee, Most men love watchin' booty!
Don't hate - Elevate. And, Enjoy...
Video provided by - emimusic
- loveqna
This ain't the only reason why I listen to country music. But it's a damn good reason why every alpha male should. There's some fine lookin' booty in here. Which proves again... It doesn't matter if the man comes from Timbuktu, Tamil, or Tennessee, Most men love watchin' booty!
Don't hate - Elevate. And, Enjoy...
Video provided by - emimusic
- loveqna
Wednesday, March 21, 2012
Can You Trust Men (or Women) These Days? Is It Best To Stay Single?
I'm still with my new roommate. Everything is fine.
I'm laying in bed checking out some of the forums on the Net. There's some weird stuff out there. And, funny as hell.
But, there are some sad folks out there too.
Here's a question from Yahoo! Answers.
Now, this chick is saying that she doesn't trust men and wants a dog (or two) for companionship... Now, I may be wrong, but I'm 99% sure that type of relationship is illegal. And, it's just plain crazy.
Ladies (and Guys), I know that trying to find a honest man or woman out here in the dating game is like trying to tap dance through a minefield. Hell, I've said it plenty of times. But, if you keep having bad luck with dates, then maybe it's not the people or prospects out here. Maybe it's You.
And, I don't mean that in a bad way.
I'm just saying that you need to step your game up.
- Improve on you instincts
- Don't rush into love
- Be stronger and don't give-in so easily to any requests or favors
- Be fair to yourself and do what's right for YOUR life (then, after you get to know the bum and commit to each other, then you do things to benefit the BOTH of your lives - but still be fair to yourself)
- Don't allow that hoodrat to talk to you in a demeaning way
- Be strong enough to leave - if you're crazy and can't let go of a toxic relationship - get your crazy-ass some help and get out
The main thing is: Don't think negative and give up so easily. Think positive and step-up your game.
Here's the question:
WIll I be lonely if I don't marry? Will having a roommate help then, if I stay single forever?
I do NOT ever want to have a committed relationship with a man at all. It's wasteful & i do NOT have trust for men. Most imo are self serving and very unreliable. But, living alone isn't easy, so will it be better to get a roommate? WIll I be lonely if I don't marry? I definitely want to get a dog or two. What do u say & Why?
The Answer:
As long as you have that attitude you probably WILL be single forever.
For one, you are walking around with a chip on your shoulder and it will show to the world.
And, if a good man - a man of quality - DOES happen to notice you, you will drive him away or get involved with him and make him miserable... OR, you will ruin your OWN happiness by living your life full of bitterness and pessimism. And, a woman with bad vibes is a terrible thing.
Maybe those dogs will love you, but it's just not right for someone to purposely deprive herself (or himself) of love. That's not living a complete life. Or, enjoying life to the fullest.
I know nuns and priests do it, but that's just weird as hell too. God didn't give them those emotions and feelings to NOT use. That's like buying a car and refusing to take keys. What are you gonna do, walk back to the dealership every once and a while to look at it??? That's Crazy.
And, while some people out there might suggest that you call up friends when you want someone to hang out with or talk to, the truth is: You're still going home alone.
And, unless your roommate is single or a loser, he or she will want to spend time with his or her partner sometimes. Or, they have their own obligations or plans to attend to. They can't come running to your poor pitiful ass every time you feel lonely and need some company. It might be okay for a while but AFTER a while, that crap will get old.
Now, that's not saying that you can't be single and love it. Some people claim that the "single life" is the best lifestyle in the world. But, many of those folks who love that lifestyle still go out on dates. They still mix and mingle. The ones that don't - and who shut the world out because they'd rather have their personal space and don't want to be encroached on are weird as hell and crazy as bat shit. I've seen'em. Those oddballs come into the store on Friday and Saturday nights looking "lost" as hell when they should be out having a good time with friends. Right? But here they are - strolling around (with that blank look on their faces) while we're about to lock the doors. Weirdos.
But, maybe that's what a mid-life crisis will do to some people.
I couldn't imagine getting old and not having someone in my life for companionship as well as for affection. I'd at least date on a regular basis.
Hell, you have to be sucker to deprive yourself of love and affection and want to masturbate your life away. That's weird as hell too.
It's bad enough that most of us will end up being alone when we get old anyway. At least have some fun and enjoy all the pleasures of Life while you can.
Okay, so Yeah, the world is full of hoes and dogs on both sides (men and women) but don't let that stop you getting the love you deserve... Get out and meet people. Stop being so picky. Take your time with dating. Have confidence. Stay cute and Be Sexy. Maintain self control and self-respect. Demand it. And, in the end, you'll find a good guy who wants to love you every way that you want to be loved. I'm sure of it.
- loveqna
I'm laying in bed checking out some of the forums on the Net. There's some weird stuff out there. And, funny as hell.
But, there are some sad folks out there too.
Here's a question from Yahoo! Answers.
Now, this chick is saying that she doesn't trust men and wants a dog (or two) for companionship... Now, I may be wrong, but I'm 99% sure that type of relationship is illegal. And, it's just plain crazy.
Ladies (and Guys), I know that trying to find a honest man or woman out here in the dating game is like trying to tap dance through a minefield. Hell, I've said it plenty of times. But, if you keep having bad luck with dates, then maybe it's not the people or prospects out here. Maybe it's You.
And, I don't mean that in a bad way.
I'm just saying that you need to step your game up.
- Improve on you instincts
- Don't rush into love
- Be stronger and don't give-in so easily to any requests or favors
- Be fair to yourself and do what's right for YOUR life (then, after you get to know the bum and commit to each other, then you do things to benefit the BOTH of your lives - but still be fair to yourself)
- Don't allow that hoodrat to talk to you in a demeaning way
- Be strong enough to leave - if you're crazy and can't let go of a toxic relationship - get your crazy-ass some help and get out
The main thing is: Don't think negative and give up so easily. Think positive and step-up your game.
Here's the question:
WIll I be lonely if I don't marry? Will having a roommate help then, if I stay single forever?
I do NOT ever want to have a committed relationship with a man at all. It's wasteful & i do NOT have trust for men. Most imo are self serving and very unreliable. But, living alone isn't easy, so will it be better to get a roommate? WIll I be lonely if I don't marry? I definitely want to get a dog or two. What do u say & Why?
The Answer:
As long as you have that attitude you probably WILL be single forever.
For one, you are walking around with a chip on your shoulder and it will show to the world.
And, if a good man - a man of quality - DOES happen to notice you, you will drive him away or get involved with him and make him miserable... OR, you will ruin your OWN happiness by living your life full of bitterness and pessimism. And, a woman with bad vibes is a terrible thing.
Maybe those dogs will love you, but it's just not right for someone to purposely deprive herself (or himself) of love. That's not living a complete life. Or, enjoying life to the fullest.
I know nuns and priests do it, but that's just weird as hell too. God didn't give them those emotions and feelings to NOT use. That's like buying a car and refusing to take keys. What are you gonna do, walk back to the dealership every once and a while to look at it??? That's Crazy.
And, while some people out there might suggest that you call up friends when you want someone to hang out with or talk to, the truth is: You're still going home alone.
And, unless your roommate is single or a loser, he or she will want to spend time with his or her partner sometimes. Or, they have their own obligations or plans to attend to. They can't come running to your poor pitiful ass every time you feel lonely and need some company. It might be okay for a while but AFTER a while, that crap will get old.
Now, that's not saying that you can't be single and love it. Some people claim that the "single life" is the best lifestyle in the world. But, many of those folks who love that lifestyle still go out on dates. They still mix and mingle. The ones that don't - and who shut the world out because they'd rather have their personal space and don't want to be encroached on are weird as hell and crazy as bat shit. I've seen'em. Those oddballs come into the store on Friday and Saturday nights looking "lost" as hell when they should be out having a good time with friends. Right? But here they are - strolling around (with that blank look on their faces) while we're about to lock the doors. Weirdos.
But, maybe that's what a mid-life crisis will do to some people.
I couldn't imagine getting old and not having someone in my life for companionship as well as for affection. I'd at least date on a regular basis.
Hell, you have to be sucker to deprive yourself of love and affection and want to masturbate your life away. That's weird as hell too.
It's bad enough that most of us will end up being alone when we get old anyway. At least have some fun and enjoy all the pleasures of Life while you can.
Okay, so Yeah, the world is full of hoes and dogs on both sides (men and women) but don't let that stop you getting the love you deserve... Get out and meet people. Stop being so picky. Take your time with dating. Have confidence. Stay cute and Be Sexy. Maintain self control and self-respect. Demand it. And, in the end, you'll find a good guy who wants to love you every way that you want to be loved. I'm sure of it.
- loveqna
Sunday, March 18, 2012
A Night at the Roxbury (What is Love - Haddaway)
A Night at the Roxbury (What is Love - Haddaway)
Many people say that you can meet a good man or woman at a nightclub, but... who cares. It doesn't matter if you're looking for love, looking for laughs, or looking to "shake a leg", get out, let your hair down, and have a good time! Enjoy Life.
Video provided by - TheDarkFire91
- loveqna
Many people say that you can meet a good man or woman at a nightclub, but... who cares. It doesn't matter if you're looking for love, looking for laughs, or looking to "shake a leg", get out, let your hair down, and have a good time! Enjoy Life.
Video provided by - TheDarkFire91
- loveqna
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
Stay Away From Crybabies And Whining Men And Women
If you want to enjoy a peaceful, PRODUCTIVE, and sane life, stay away from a guy and girl who constantly whines about his or her relationship.
I mean, there's nothing wrong with helping people (you SHOULD try to help if you can) - but, when you have a friend who asks for your advice EVERYDAY about the SAME SITUATION, and the SAME PERSON... and, complains time and time again about the bum mistreating him or her and doing him or her wrong, and you give the best advice, suggestions, and opinions that you can give, and yet they STILL WON'T LISTEN... that's when you just have to "throw in the towel" and say "I give up."
Because...
No matter what you say, they're still gonna whine and complain. And, they're still gonna go back to that bum and put up with all kinds of crap, and get disrespected and abused yet again, and come back running to you yappin about the same damn problems...
Man, I don't want to hear that crap every day... Get the hell out of here with all of that damn whining and those negative vibes...
It's like they've developed appetite for it and can't get enough of it - especially when they see You. They HAVE to talk about how bad their situation and life is - ALL the damn time.
It's like, every time they see you, they come runnin' - ready to tell you what their mean-ass deceitful lying sneaky boyfriend, girlfriend, or husband, or wife, has done wrong within the last fifteen or twenty minutes - if you're lucky.
If they start talking about what happened the day before, you're gonna be stuck for a while since they've had to time to think about the "drama" and come up with all kinds of ideas, fantasies, questions, and opinions as to why their relationship is falling apart or not going the way they think it should.
I swear, it seems like these "crybabies" LOOK for trouble just so they'll have something to talk about. It's like they're not happy unless they HAVE drama in their lives.
Now, I know sometimes when people are going through hard times in their relationships, there are issues that can't be cured overnight or in a week (and maybe even not in a year), But, if these people are not trying to make any progress - or, at least, talking about the progress they're making (or, changes that they're making in their lives), then it's time to "cut the line" and change the subject, because they're not trying to improve their situation.
They talk about how bad they feel and how much they've been neglected, used, and abused, yet they keep going back to the bum for more - and, sucking other people into the drama as well. Causing grief and arguments left and right.
All they have to do is leave.
But, their problems aren't bad enough for them to change. So, why are you so worked up about it? Let it go. Recommend professional help and get on with your life.
You've already given them good advice. They know they're being "played", used, and abused, yet they keep going back for more.
If they're too damn dumb to leave the relationship, just accept the fact that they're crazy as hell or crazy in love and leave it alone.
Don't stress yourself out or get frustrated about it (especially if you're a parent).
Tell them to Get out of the relationship if it's causing that much pain. Or, advise that they talk to a counselor.
But, that's not what they want to do. They want to stick around and constantly fuss and fight with the bum (or suffer the abuse) although the bum they're with is not even trying to improve the relationship or make it work.
And, they're running back to him or her - blabbering their mouth off - and telling that skeezer everything you've said...
Get away from that mess!
Don't let that crybaby drag you into the drama! You don't need the distraction in your life. It can ruin YOUR relationship!
How???
Your relationship might start falling apart because you're spending all of YOUR time on the phone with your friend and neglecting your duties to your partner. He or she needs attention, affection, quality time, and conversation, too.
Your partner doesn't want to sit around twiddling his or her thumbs while you're spending all of your time engaged in some foolish drama. That might cause grief and spite between the both of you.
Then, the next thing you know, you'll be the one carrying around those bad vibes and whining everyday.
Help if you can, but realize when you can't, and let that crap go.
The best way to help someone like that is by letting someone who gets paid to help "troubled couples" take over.
Why continue to waste your time?
If they're not taking heed to your advice, you're just flappin' your gums and yappin' for no reason anyway.
- loveqna
MUSIC: Joss Stone - Al Green - How Can You Mend A BrokenHeart
Joss Stone - Al Green - How Can You Mend A BrokenHeart
This is the Remix. And, it sounds pretty Good.
Joss Stone hit a few notes that gave me goosebumps! Mmph! And, Al Green is always excellent. Listen and Enjoy.
Video provided by - JCPLMA
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Notting Hill - How Can You Mend A Broken Heart
Great movie starring Hugh Grant and Julia Roberts with original Al Green song.
Video provided by - pat12130
- loveqna
This is the Remix. And, it sounds pretty Good.
Joss Stone hit a few notes that gave me goosebumps! Mmph! And, Al Green is always excellent. Listen and Enjoy.
Video provided by - JCPLMA
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Notting Hill - How Can You Mend A Broken Heart
Great movie starring Hugh Grant and Julia Roberts with original Al Green song.
Video provided by - pat12130
- loveqna
RnR: Cosmetic Surgery Results
If you're thinking about an extreme makeover that includes cosmetic surgery, remind yourself to do your due diligence and research! And, be SURE it's something you need to do.
Repairing Botched Cosmetic Surgeries
Video provided by - johnmartinmd
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Sharon Osbourne Reveals Plastic Surgeries on Dr. Phil
Video provided by - CBS
- loveqna
Repairing Botched Cosmetic Surgeries
Video provided by - johnmartinmd
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Sharon Osbourne Reveals Plastic Surgeries on Dr. Phil
Video provided by - CBS
- loveqna
RnR: Breast Augmentation
RnR (Research and Review)
Breast Augmentation with Silicone Implants
(For research purposes only. No affiliation)
Video provided by - drkimbeverlyhills
-loveqna
Breast Augmentation with Silicone Implants
(For research purposes only. No affiliation)
Video provided by - drkimbeverlyhills
-loveqna
RnR: Buttock Augmentation By Fat Transfer (Video)
RnR (Research and Review)
Buttock Augmentation by Fat Transfer | Dr Ashkan Ghavami
If you're happy with your body (and booty), you may not need to watch this video. It is posted for research purposes only for those who have definitely decided on "buttock augmentation" to help them where diets and exercise have failed.
(For research purposes only. No affiliation)
Video provided by - drghavami
- loveqna
Buttock Augmentation by Fat Transfer | Dr Ashkan Ghavami
If you're happy with your body (and booty), you may not need to watch this video. It is posted for research purposes only for those who have definitely decided on "buttock augmentation" to help them where diets and exercise have failed.
(For research purposes only. No affiliation)
Video provided by - drghavami
- loveqna
RnR: Buttock Augmentation Video
RnR (Research and Review)
This is a response to the "Rogue Doctor" video.
Ladies (and Gentlemen), if you've unsuccessfully tried exercise and toning to shape up your butt and decided that a "butt lift" is the best way to go, then don't forget to do your due diligence and research. Avoid shortcuts.
You've only got one body - don't ruin it.
(For research purposes only. No affiliation)
Buttock Augmentation Video (Brazilian Butt Lift) Beverly Hills-Dr. William Bruno
Video provided by - WilliamBrunoMD
- loveqna
This is a response to the "Rogue Doctor" video.
Ladies (and Gentlemen), if you've unsuccessfully tried exercise and toning to shape up your butt and decided that a "butt lift" is the best way to go, then don't forget to do your due diligence and research. Avoid shortcuts.
You've only got one body - don't ruin it.
(For research purposes only. No affiliation)
Buttock Augmentation Video (Brazilian Butt Lift) Beverly Hills-Dr. William Bruno
Video provided by - WilliamBrunoMD
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Butt Implants Gone Wrong
Alleged "Rogue Doctor" Speaks Out on Accusations Of Injecting Cement and Fix-A-Flat Into Women.
Ladies, the world loves women and booty, but Man cannot live by booty alone.
I'm not "for" or "against" butt implants. You have to do what you need to do - mentally OR physically (or Spiritually) - to make yourself happy. But, do things the right way. Don't take any shortcuts or deal with any "quack" rogue doctors... Or, this could happen to you.
Video provided by - NightwingBMV1
- loveqna
Ladies, the world loves women and booty, but Man cannot live by booty alone.
I'm not "for" or "against" butt implants. You have to do what you need to do - mentally OR physically (or Spiritually) - to make yourself happy. But, do things the right way. Don't take any shortcuts or deal with any "quack" rogue doctors... Or, this could happen to you.
Video provided by - NightwingBMV1
- loveqna
Tuesday, March 6, 2012
How do you figure out what you want in a potential significant other?
I was surfing the Net tonight and came across this question on Yahoo.
Share your opinion anonymously if you like.
Question:
"They say don't date until you know what you want in someone.....But don't you have to date in other to experiment and find out what personality traits work/don't work you in a potential mate?
am i missing something? The only way to figure out is to date people, but they say if you date w/o knowing what you want, you're playing with their mind"
loveqna Answer:
I feel the same way. If you don't date and get to know various personalities, how else can you discover what personality traits work and don't work?
And, that's just part of it...
They might have habits or beliefs you don't agree with. He or she may be an intellectual but have interests you don't agree with. He or she might nag all the time or complain about everything - or, want to fight for causes you don't believe in.
Yeah, some people take these "relationship questionnaires" (online or given by priests) to see if they are compatible, but we all know "actions speak louder than words". And, people who claim to be in love and who love selfishly, WILL lie to get what they want. So, why not date?
Even Prophets of Astrology recommend that "your individual horoscopes blend" in order for you to have a good connection.
So dating is not a bad thing as long as it's respectful and has meaningful purpose. Like dating to find out you want in a potential mate.
BUT!
What you want in a mate sometimes changes. Even when you THINK you know what you want, your preferences might change.
There are people out there who date "prospects" and fall in love with them and don't know how it happened. Usually, they would never consider dating these "losers" because they have absolutely NONE of the qualities the seeker wants, but somehow, they become captivated by these bums and oddballs and can't get their minds off of them.
That being said, all you can do is:
Get to know the guy or girl on a friendship level first to see if there is a connection or a deeper level of interest.
Make sure he/she understands that you don't want to rush things and that you two could still be friends if things don't work out.
Many relationships fail because people don't take the time to get to know themselves and what they want, and what turns them on, and what turns them off, and what they can tolerate, and what they can't tolerate. (And, that's the main point of dating.)
They'll meet a guy or girl, claim they're in love, and three months later, they're bored and looking for something new (more reserved, established, funny, or more exciting). Or, six months later, they're in a toxic relationship full of drama ready to break-up.
Dating also helps you find out who you might be more compatible with. Or, what type of person you have a better connection with. Or, WHO you might have a better connection with.
And, that's another purpose of dating. You get to know them and they get to know you as you also get to know yourself and what you want and need in a mate.
You can't discover this "connection" just by analyzing people. You have to interact with them on various levels - friendship as well as romantic. Even spiritual.
You need to know what you have in common and what you don't. You need to know if this person has the same relationship goals as you do or he/she wants to live in the same area as you. Or, if he/she is family oriented - or if he/she is driven to succeed. You need to know habits, preferences, faults, fetishes, etc.
Now, this may require more dates or taking things to the next level with this person, but if you see potential on the FIRST DATE, then this is a natural step. Go to the next level.
You learn their strengths and weaknesses. They learn your strength and weaknesses...
But, this is ONLY if you're interested in more than just dating.
If you're dating, it doesn't mean that you have to commit yourself. You're still dating to see IF you want to take things to a deeper level.
The downside or disadvantages of dating is:
- love and happiness are NOT guaranteed
- it takes time
- feelings can cloud your judgment and you might rush things
- you might over-analyze and kick a good man or woman to the curb too soon
- you could end up being attracted to two people and can't decide who to choose
Now, I know some people don't date and end up marrying to the first person that comes along - or, someone that they're betrothed to - and have better success in their relationship, but, most people want to get to know WHO they're marrying and discover "love" and "happiness" for themselves.
They want to take time to explore the person's heart and mind to see if there's a connection.
Most people don't want to be "thrown" into a relationship with someone they don't know.
This man or woman could be a monster. Who knows if he or she is sweet or cruel or supportive or lazy as hell?
It's also possible that both people may have good hearts but they're just not good for each other.
In reality, it's all just a crap-shoot. A gamble.
No matter how many dates you go on, dating will never guarantee you will discover someone who's "perfect" for you, because your ideals and preferences may change.
But, you stand a better chance finding true love if you date and take your time to get to know yourself and what you want and need in a relationship and in a mate.
- loveqna
Thursday, March 1, 2012
Conversation Topics - Dealing With Stage Fright
These few notes on dealing with "stage fright" may help you when you have to approach a girl or guy in front of a lot of people - Or, if ever there comes a time when you have to respond in front of a group of people (friends, family members, co-workers).
You might not know how you're going to respond to random questions or requests, but if you practice reading out loud and talking to people more often, you will feel more at ease when the time comes.
Take heed to these notes and search the Web for other ideas. But remember: the key being cool, calm, and collected, is constant "practice".
To deal with stage fright:
- know exactly what you're going to talk about beforehand (refer to "basic topics" such as: employment, breaking news, weird people you've met, good restaurants you been to recently, traffic, crime, movies, fashion, recent good/bad customer service experience, etc.)
- PLAN what you're going to talk about (the lead is very important but you don't have to shock people with your first sentence; tell your listeners about a recent experience that helps to illustrate a point; tell your listeners how you are going to help them solve their problems; start off with a "did you know..." question; tell your listener why you're excited to be talking to them;
- have "the eye of tiger" (focus on doing the job not on how you look or what people think of you - if the presentation is presented well, that's where their focus will shift)
- practice by reading the subject matter often or talking about the subject out loud (visualize your audience) - sometimes, practicing in a mirror helps
- also visualize individual faces in the audience and scan the room as you talk - (left, right, and center) and talk directly to them (do this to "keep the room small and friendly"; remember: you're among friends, so relax.)
- speak in layman terms if you're talking to "average folks"; use technical jargon when talking to fellow tekkies.
- be aware of any questions people might ask and cover them in your presentation or be prepared to respond
- read other books and articles that interest you out loud and get used to having a good time and enjoying the spotlight and hearing the sound of your voice
- focus on giving people the information they need and nothing else. block out all other non-essential thoughts
- make notes and refer to them if you need to - this is a good thing. you should never try to remember everything you want to talk about
- if your style is not telling jokes or stories, don't worry about it. let your words and the situation flow. if a story comes to you - fine. if not, that's fine also.
- try to maintain good posture but don't worry so much about it; practice this well in advance and constantly so that you will be natural
- end of notes
- loveqna
You might not know how you're going to respond to random questions or requests, but if you practice reading out loud and talking to people more often, you will feel more at ease when the time comes.
Take heed to these notes and search the Web for other ideas. But remember: the key being cool, calm, and collected, is constant "practice".
To deal with stage fright:
- know exactly what you're going to talk about beforehand (refer to "basic topics" such as: employment, breaking news, weird people you've met, good restaurants you been to recently, traffic, crime, movies, fashion, recent good/bad customer service experience, etc.)
- PLAN what you're going to talk about (the lead is very important but you don't have to shock people with your first sentence; tell your listeners about a recent experience that helps to illustrate a point; tell your listeners how you are going to help them solve their problems; start off with a "did you know..." question; tell your listener why you're excited to be talking to them;
- have "the eye of tiger" (focus on doing the job not on how you look or what people think of you - if the presentation is presented well, that's where their focus will shift)
- practice by reading the subject matter often or talking about the subject out loud (visualize your audience) - sometimes, practicing in a mirror helps
- also visualize individual faces in the audience and scan the room as you talk - (left, right, and center) and talk directly to them (do this to "keep the room small and friendly"; remember: you're among friends, so relax.)
- speak in layman terms if you're talking to "average folks"; use technical jargon when talking to fellow tekkies.
- be aware of any questions people might ask and cover them in your presentation or be prepared to respond
- read other books and articles that interest you out loud and get used to having a good time and enjoying the spotlight and hearing the sound of your voice
- focus on giving people the information they need and nothing else. block out all other non-essential thoughts
- make notes and refer to them if you need to - this is a good thing. you should never try to remember everything you want to talk about
- if your style is not telling jokes or stories, don't worry about it. let your words and the situation flow. if a story comes to you - fine. if not, that's fine also.
- try to maintain good posture but don't worry so much about it; practice this well in advance and constantly so that you will be natural
- end of notes
- loveqna
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
How to get out of a girl's friend-zone
The first key to getting out of the "friend zone" is to avoid getting stuck in "the friend zone".
You'll laugh and enjoy this video, but, the tips in it aren't bad. Use your instincts and avoid setting yourself up to be rejected and cast into "the friend zone" forever and ever and ever and ever.
Video provided by - Linkinn9
- loveqna
You'll laugh and enjoy this video, but, the tips in it aren't bad. Use your instincts and avoid setting yourself up to be rejected and cast into "the friend zone" forever and ever and ever and ever.
Video provided by - Linkinn9
- loveqna
15 Reasons Why Good Women End Up In "The Friend Zone"
Posted on Y!Answers.
why do men friend zone me?
I've been on a heap of dates since recently ( 4 months ago) becoming single. But every guy seems to call me after a few dates saying 'oh you're lovely but there is no spark, but we should be friends.'
I have no idea why this keeps happening.
I'm quite attractive and constantly have guys asking me out.. it just never seems to go far because of the lack of spark :S
How am I meant to show spark? I'm confident, I flirt.. So ready to give up now though.
Please help :( worried i'm just going to end up as a friend forever :(
loveqna Answer:
People get dumped into the "friend zone" for all types of reasons. So, there could be anything keeping you from making a connection.
You have to take a good look at yourself to discover what could be turning these guys off. It could be your personality, you style, your thinking, your appearance, your attitude, whatever.
Nevertheless, here's a small list of what might be putting you in the friend zone.
- choosing the wrong guys
- may seem too eager; over-zealous; over-excited; overbearing
- talk too much (especially about yourself or your life)
- or, talking too much about your Ex and your last relationship (after awhile, most men would think you're still in love with the guy since you're yappin' on and on about him)
- boring (don't talk enough; boring conversations; not carefree enough; no fun; maybe not shy but too conservative)
- attractive but no sex-appeal or style
- too aggressive or forward (guys may think you're a player - especially if you flirt too much or come on too strong)
- or, it could be that you're rushing, moving too fast, and seem desperate - give the man a chance to get to know you and build a connection with you; don't talk about marriage and/or hanging out all the time on the first date (he'll definitely "friend zone" you - unless he's lonely and desperate too)
- making too many demands early on can run a guy off as well
- appearance not attractive to the type of guys you're attracted to; cute face but not a cute (or sexy) body
- are you being misunderstood? it's possible you may appear to be high maintenance
- it's possible you might seem fake or pompous - that can be a turn-off (although, it's not as bad as these ill-mannered chicks with an attitude)
- if your attitude sucks or you have "delusions of grandeur" about yourself (an overblown ego), you'll lose a good man. A nice guy might stick around - if he's desperate enough
- maybe they believe you're too busy and don't have time for a commitment (so, they've moved on to court someone else)
- and don't forget "timing" (timing affects everything); if your game is off or if there are things going on in your life - baggage - that you need to address, this can have an impact romance, courtship, and how others perceive you
blah, blah, blah... blah, blah, blah...
First, take a good look at yourself - your style, your appearance, your personality, your conversation skills, the types of people you choose to date. Be aware of the overall package.
You don't have to be a "perfect ten", or be charismatic and/or flamboyant. You don't even have to have the sex-appeal of a Diva. But, class, style, a sexy attitude (with natural confidence), neatness, and a clean good-smelling fragrance goes a long way.
And, you know both men and women love eye-candy, so style and appearance counts for a lot. So, when you go out, dress with style.
Now, I'm not saying that you have to dress like a skank. But, you don't have to wear a ball gown either. Take some notes from those Southern Belles down in Georgia. I went down there and damn near lost my mind those women are so fine. Those "Georgia Peaches" make a simple pair of jeans and a tee shirt look heavenly. They wear clothes that fit and look like they just came off the rack. I mean, those women look superb women they go out in public to eat or to an event.
And you know men love a woman's hair so, make sure your hair is looking good and smelling good almost all the time. Turn him on and keep his nose buried in your scalp with that good smelling fragrance.
Make sure you have on just the right amount of makeup if you wear makeup.
Let the way you walk be sexy sometimes - especially in high heels. That catches a man's eye too. Men love high heel shoes so much that some men can't resist having a pair of their own.
Be sure your finger nails are looking cute and sexy. A woman with ugly crusty jacked-up fingernails gives people the impression she's broke, sloppy, and dirty. It's just like a man walking around in old-ass jacked-up shoes that are not work shoes - it looks like his feet stink and like he's dirty and sloppy as hell.
Don't go out on a date with those crusty the clown fingernails. Take it all off or put it all on.
Some men might "friend" you after they find out you have kids. But, some guys don't mind kids. I've dated chicks with kids before. So did Ashton Kutcher. So, kids aren't a deal-breaker all the time.
Get to know the guy upfront as friends and see how things go from there. Most women wouldn't want a new guy around their kids early in the relationship anyway.
If you have be put in the "friend zone" after sex, then it could be that you're boring in bed or not as (fresh-smelling) as you think you are.
If your game is lame in bed, take your time, get to know one person, and be open to experimenting and practice. Learn to take control and have fun. Especially if you're married or engaged. Keep the excitement flowing. Sexual chemistry is often a big deal in making a relationship work.
We all know guys and girls can stink down there. I don't care if you're circumcised or UN-circumcised, I've heard enough stories about smelly men and women that would make a billy goat puke and a baboon gag on a happy meal.
Sometimes, a man or woman needs to get into a tub and soak in warm bubble bath for an hour or two.
I love it.
Try some various techniques for keeping your "personal stuff" smelling fresh and clean until you find what works for you.
You don't have to douche but there's gotta be something out there that works! Something is better than nothing.
Those guys out there that's smelling like cheese and sewage don't have to douche either, but they definitely need something to kill all of that bacteria swarming around between their legs. There are plenty of over-the-counter drugs for those bums so they have no excuse to be smelling like old-ass rotten eggs.
And, wash them feet too! That'll help keep you out of the "friend zone" also.
Did you know that you can turn a man on just by having sexy feet???
I don't know what it is about women with pretty feet and toes but it drives some men crazy! They love it. Hell, I love pretty feet myself and I don't even have a foot fetish. Or, maybe I do and I'm in denial. Hell, I don't know but I know if you put your pretty feet in a man's lap and ask him if he could rub them and massage them for you, he won't say no. If he does, you definitely want to get that area of your life taken care of to get out of the friend zone.
Anyway... (I'm getting off track here. I was saving that stuff for another post.)
Anyway...
There could be any reason a man might put a woman in the "friend zone". But, if you're constantly being blown-off, rejected, and dumped into the "friend zone", stop and take a good long look at yourself - your overall package. More than likely, there's something you're ignoring - or, some "fault" or habit you need to work out.
Even if all of these guys can't see how good you are, it's because you're not radiating how good you are.
You'll have more success and opportunities if you step up your game and work on the overall package. That's a guarantee. And, the time to start improvement is right now.
- loveqna
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