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Monday, March 26, 2012

Booty Video: Trace Adkins - Honky Tonk Badonkadonk

Trace Adkins - Honky Tonk Badonkadonk

This ain't the only reason why I listen to country music. But it's a damn good reason why every alpha male should. There's some fine lookin' booty in here. Which proves again... It doesn't matter if the man comes from Timbuktu, Tamil, or Tennessee, Most men love watchin' booty!

Don't hate - Elevate. And, Enjoy...



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Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Can You Trust Men (or Women) These Days? Is It Best To Stay Single?

I'm still with my new roommate. Everything is fine.

I'm laying in bed checking out some of the forums on the Net. There's some weird stuff out there. And, funny as hell.

But, there are some sad folks out there too.

Here's a question from Yahoo! Answers.

Now, this chick is saying that she doesn't trust men and wants a dog (or two) for companionship... Now, I may be wrong, but I'm 99% sure that type of relationship is illegal. And, it's just plain crazy.


Ladies (and Guys), I know that trying to find a honest man or woman out here in the dating game is like trying to tap dance through a minefield. Hell, I've said it plenty of times. But, if you keep having bad luck with dates, then maybe it's not the people or prospects out here. Maybe it's You.

And, I don't mean that in a bad way.

I'm just saying that you need to step your game up.

- Improve on you instincts
- Don't rush into love
- Be stronger and don't give-in so easily to any requests or favors
- Be fair to yourself and do what's right for YOUR life (then, after you get to know the bum and commit to each other, then you do things to benefit the BOTH of your lives - but still be fair to yourself)
- Don't allow that hoodrat to talk to you in a demeaning way
- Be strong enough to leave - if you're crazy and can't let go of a toxic relationship - get your crazy-ass some help and get out

The main thing is: Don't think negative and give up so easily. Think positive and step-up your game.

Here's the question:

WIll I be lonely if I don't marry? Will having a roommate help then, if I stay single forever?

I do NOT ever want to have a committed relationship with a man at all. It's wasteful & i do NOT have trust for men. Most imo are self serving and very unreliable. But, living alone isn't easy, so will it be better to get a roommate? WIll I be lonely if I don't marry? I definitely want to get a dog or two. What do u say & Why?

The Answer:

As long as you have that attitude you probably WILL be single forever.

For one, you are walking around with a chip on your shoulder and it will show to the world.

And, if a good man - a man of quality - DOES happen to notice you, you will drive him away or get involved with him and make him miserable... OR, you will ruin your OWN happiness by living your life full of bitterness and pessimism. And, a woman with bad vibes is a terrible thing.

Maybe those dogs will love you, but it's just not right for someone to purposely deprive herself (or himself) of love. That's not living a complete life. Or, enjoying life to the fullest.

I know nuns and priests do it, but that's just weird as hell too. God didn't give them those emotions and feelings to NOT use. That's like buying a car and refusing to take keys. What are you gonna do, walk back to the dealership every once and a while to look at it??? That's Crazy.

And, while some people out there might suggest that you call up friends when you want someone to hang out with or talk to, the truth is: You're still going home alone.

And, unless your roommate is single or a loser, he or she will want to spend time with his or her partner sometimes. Or, they have their own obligations or plans to attend to. They can't come running to your poor pitiful ass every time you feel lonely and need some company. It might be okay for a while but AFTER a while, that crap will get old.

Now, that's not saying that you can't be single and love it. Some people claim that the "single life" is the best lifestyle in the world. But, many of those folks who love that lifestyle still go out on dates. They still mix and mingle. The ones that don't - and who shut the world out because they'd rather have their personal space and don't want to be encroached on are weird as hell and crazy as bat shit. I've seen'em. Those oddballs come into the store on Friday and Saturday nights looking "lost" as hell when they should be out having a good time with friends. Right? But here they are - strolling around (with that blank look on their faces) while we're about to lock the doors. Weirdos.

But, maybe that's what a mid-life crisis will do to some people.

I couldn't imagine getting old and not having someone in my life for companionship as well as for affection. I'd at least date on a regular basis.

Hell, you have to be sucker to deprive yourself of love and affection and want to masturbate your life away. That's weird as hell too.

It's bad enough that most of us will end up being alone when we get old anyway. At least have some fun and enjoy all the pleasures of Life while you can.

Okay, so Yeah, the world is full of hoes and dogs on both sides (men and women) but don't let that stop you getting the love you deserve... Get out and meet people. Stop being so picky. Take your time with dating. Have confidence. Stay cute and Be Sexy. Maintain self control and self-respect. Demand it. And, in the end, you'll find a good guy who wants to love you every way that you want to be loved. I'm sure of it.

- loveqna

Sunday, March 18, 2012

A Night at the Roxbury (What is Love - Haddaway)

A Night at the Roxbury (What is Love - Haddaway)

Many people say that you can meet a good man or woman at a nightclub, but... who cares. It doesn't matter if you're looking for love, looking for laughs, or looking to "shake a leg", get out, let your hair down, and have a good time! Enjoy Life.



Video provided by - TheDarkFire91

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Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Stay Away From Crybabies And Whining Men And Women


If you want to enjoy a peaceful, PRODUCTIVE, and sane life, stay away from a guy and girl who constantly whines about his or her relationship.

I mean, there's nothing wrong with helping people (you SHOULD try to help if you can) - but, when you have a friend who asks for your advice EVERYDAY about the SAME SITUATION, and the SAME PERSON... and, complains time and time again about the bum mistreating him or her and doing him or her wrong, and you give the best advice, suggestions, and opinions that you can give, and yet they STILL WON'T LISTEN... that's when you just have to "throw in the towel" and say "I give up."

Because...

No matter what you say, they're still gonna whine and complain. And, they're still gonna go back to that bum and put up with all kinds of crap, and get disrespected and abused yet again, and come back running to you yappin about the same damn problems...

Man, I don't want to hear that crap every day... Get the hell out of here with all of that damn whining and those negative vibes...

It's like they've developed appetite for it and can't get enough of it - especially when they see You. They HAVE to talk about how bad their situation and life is - ALL the damn time.

It's like, every time they see you, they come runnin' - ready to tell you what their mean-ass deceitful lying sneaky boyfriend, girlfriend, or husband, or wife, has done wrong within the last fifteen or twenty minutes - if you're lucky.

If they start talking about what happened the day before, you're gonna be stuck for a while since they've had to time to think about the "drama" and come up with all kinds of ideas, fantasies, questions, and opinions as to why their relationship is falling apart or not going the way they think it should.

I swear, it seems like these "crybabies" LOOK for trouble just so they'll have something to talk about. It's like they're not happy unless they HAVE drama in their lives.

Now, I know sometimes when people are going through hard times in their relationships, there are issues that can't be cured overnight or in a week (and maybe even not in a year), But, if these people are not trying to make any progress - or, at least, talking about the progress they're making (or, changes that they're making in their lives), then it's time to "cut the line" and change the subject, because they're not trying to improve their situation.

They talk about how bad they feel and how much they've been neglected, used, and abused, yet they keep going back to the bum for more - and, sucking other people into the drama as well. Causing grief and arguments left and right.

All they have to do is leave.

But, their problems aren't bad enough for them to change. So, why are you so worked up about it? Let it go. Recommend professional help and get on with your life.

You've already given them good advice. They know they're being "played", used, and abused, yet they keep going back for more.

If they're too damn dumb to leave the relationship, just accept the fact that they're crazy as hell or crazy in love and leave it alone.

Don't stress yourself out or get frustrated about it (especially if you're a parent).

Tell them to Get out of the relationship if it's causing that much pain. Or, advise that they talk to a counselor.

But, that's not what they want to do. They want to stick around and constantly fuss and fight with the bum (or suffer the abuse) although the bum they're with is not even trying to improve the relationship or make it work.

And, they're running back to him or her - blabbering their mouth off - and telling that skeezer everything you've said...

Get away from that mess!

Don't let that crybaby drag you into the drama! You don't need the distraction in your life. It can ruin YOUR relationship!

How???

Your relationship might start falling apart because you're spending all of YOUR time on the phone with your friend and neglecting your duties to your partner. He or she needs attention, affection, quality time, and conversation, too.

Your partner doesn't want to sit around twiddling his or her thumbs while you're spending all of your time engaged in some foolish drama. That might cause grief and spite between the both of you.

Then, the next thing you know, you'll be the one carrying around those bad vibes and whining everyday.

Help if you can, but realize when you can't, and let that crap go.

The best way to help someone like that is by letting someone who gets paid to help "troubled couples" take over.

Why continue to waste your time?

If they're not taking heed to your advice, you're just flappin' your gums and yappin' for no reason anyway.

- loveqna

MUSIC: Joss Stone - Al Green - How Can You Mend A BrokenHeart

Joss Stone - Al Green - How Can You Mend A BrokenHeart

This is the Remix. And, it sounds pretty Good.

Joss Stone hit a few notes that gave me goosebumps! Mmph! And, Al Green is always excellent. Listen and Enjoy.



Video provided by - JCPLMA

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Notting Hill - How Can You Mend A Broken Heart

Great movie starring Hugh Grant and Julia Roberts with original Al Green song.



Video provided by - pat12130

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RnR: Cosmetic Surgery Results

If you're thinking about an extreme makeover that includes cosmetic surgery, remind yourself to do your due diligence and research! And, be SURE it's something you need to do.

Repairing Botched Cosmetic Surgeries



Video provided by - johnmartinmd

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Sharon Osbourne Reveals Plastic Surgeries on Dr. Phil



Video provided by - CBS

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RnR: Breast Augmentation

RnR (Research and Review)

Breast Augmentation with Silicone Implants

(For research purposes only. No affiliation)



Video provided by - drkimbeverlyhills

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RnR: Buttock Augmentation By Fat Transfer (Video)

RnR (Research and Review)

Buttock Augmentation by Fat Transfer | Dr Ashkan Ghavami

If you're happy with your body (and booty), you may not need to watch this video. It is posted for research purposes only for those who have definitely decided on "buttock augmentation" to help them where diets and exercise have failed.

(For research purposes only. No affiliation)



Video provided by - drghavami

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RnR: Buttock Augmentation Video

RnR (Research and Review)

This is a response to the "Rogue Doctor" video.

Ladies (and Gentlemen), if you've unsuccessfully tried exercise and toning to shape up your butt and decided that a "butt lift" is the best way to go, then don't forget to do your due diligence and research. Avoid shortcuts.

You've only got one body - don't ruin it.

(For research purposes only. No affiliation)

Buttock Augmentation Video (Brazilian Butt Lift) Beverly Hills-Dr. William Bruno



Video provided by - WilliamBrunoMD

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Butt Implants Gone Wrong

Alleged "Rogue Doctor" Speaks Out on Accusations Of Injecting Cement and Fix-A-Flat Into Women.

Ladies, the world loves women and booty, but Man cannot live by booty alone.

I'm not "for" or "against" butt implants. You have to do what you need to do - mentally OR physically (or Spiritually) - to make yourself happy. But, do things the right way. Don't take any shortcuts or deal with any "quack" rogue doctors... Or, this could happen to you.


Video provided by - NightwingBMV1

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Tuesday, March 6, 2012

How do you figure out what you want in a potential significant other?


I was surfing the Net tonight and came across this question on Yahoo.

Share your opinion anonymously if you like.

Question:

"They say don't date until you know what you want in someone.....But don't you have to date in other to experiment and find out what personality traits work/don't work you in a potential mate?

am i missing something? The only way to figure out is to date people, but they say if you date w/o knowing what you want, you're playing with their mind"

loveqna Answer:

I feel the same way. If you don't date and get to know various personalities, how else can you discover what personality traits work and don't work?

And, that's just part of it...

They might have habits or beliefs you don't agree with. He or she may be an intellectual but have interests you don't agree with. He or she might nag all the time or complain about everything - or, want to fight for causes you don't believe in.

Yeah, some people take these "relationship questionnaires" (online or given by priests) to see if they are compatible, but we all know "actions speak louder than words". And, people who claim to be in love and who love selfishly, WILL lie to get what they want. So, why not date?

Even Prophets of Astrology recommend that "your individual horoscopes blend" in order for you to have a good connection.

So dating is not a bad thing as long as it's respectful and has meaningful purpose. Like dating to find out you want in a potential mate.

BUT!

What you want in a mate sometimes changes. Even when you THINK you know what you want, your preferences might change.

There are people out there who date "prospects" and fall in love with them and don't know how it happened. Usually, they would never consider dating these "losers" because they have absolutely NONE of the qualities the seeker wants, but somehow, they become captivated by these bums and oddballs and can't get their minds off of them.

That being said, all you can do is:

Get to know the guy or girl on a friendship level first to see if there is a connection or a deeper level of interest.

Make sure he/she understands that you don't want to rush things and that you two could still be friends if things don't work out.

Many relationships fail because people don't take the time to get to know themselves and what they want, and what turns them on, and what turns them off, and what they can tolerate, and what they can't tolerate. (And, that's the main point of dating.)

They'll meet a guy or girl, claim they're in love, and three months later, they're bored and looking for something new (more reserved, established, funny, or more exciting). Or, six months later, they're in a toxic relationship full of drama ready to break-up.

Dating also helps you find out who you might be more compatible with. Or, what type of person you have a better connection with. Or, WHO you might have a better connection with.

And, that's another purpose of dating. You get to know them and they get to know you as you also get to know yourself and what you want and need in a mate.

You can't discover this "connection" just by analyzing people. You have to interact with them on various levels - friendship as well as romantic. Even spiritual.

You need to know what you have in common and what you don't. You need to know if this person has the same relationship goals as you do or he/she wants to live in the same area as you. Or, if he/she is family oriented - or if he/she is driven to succeed. You need to know habits, preferences, faults, fetishes, etc.

Now, this may require more dates or taking things to the next level with this person, but if you see potential on the FIRST DATE, then this is a natural step. Go to the next level.

You learn their strengths and weaknesses. They learn your strength and weaknesses...

But, this is ONLY if you're interested in more than just dating.

If you're dating, it doesn't mean that you have to commit yourself. You're still dating to see IF you want to take things to a deeper level.

The downside or disadvantages of dating is:

- love and happiness are NOT guaranteed
- it takes time
- feelings can cloud your judgment and you might rush things
- you might over-analyze and kick a good man or woman to the curb too soon
- you could end up being attracted to two people and can't decide who to choose

Now, I know some people don't date and end up marrying to the first person that comes along - or, someone that they're betrothed to - and have better success in their relationship, but, most people want to get to know WHO they're marrying and discover "love" and "happiness" for themselves.

They want to take time to explore the person's heart and mind to see if there's a connection.

Most people don't want to be "thrown" into a relationship with someone they don't know.

This man or woman could be a monster. Who knows if he or she is sweet or cruel or supportive or lazy as hell?

It's also possible that both people may have good hearts but they're just not good for each other.

In reality, it's all just a crap-shoot. A gamble.

No matter how many dates you go on, dating will never guarantee you will discover someone who's "perfect" for you, because your ideals and preferences may change.

But, you stand a better chance finding true love if you date and take your time to get to know yourself and what you want and need in a relationship and in a mate.

- loveqna

Thursday, March 1, 2012

VIDEO - Sheryl Crow - Summer Day



Video provided by - SherylCrowVEVO

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Conversation Topics - Dealing With Stage Fright

These few notes on dealing with "stage fright" may help you when you have to approach a girl or guy in front of a lot of people - Or, if ever there comes a time when you have to respond in front of a group of people (friends, family members, co-workers).

You might not know how you're going to respond to random questions or requests, but if you practice reading out loud and talking to people more often, you will feel more at ease when the time comes.

Take heed to these notes and search the Web for other ideas. But remember: the key being cool, calm, and collected, is constant "practice".

To deal with stage fright:

- know exactly what you're going to talk about beforehand (refer to "basic topics" such as: employment, breaking news, weird people you've met, good restaurants you been to recently, traffic, crime, movies, fashion, recent good/bad customer service experience, etc.)

- PLAN what you're going to talk about (the lead is very important but you don't have to shock people with your first sentence; tell your listeners about a recent experience that helps to illustrate a point; tell your listeners how you are going to help them solve their problems; start off with a "did you know..." question; tell your listener why you're excited to be talking to them;

- have "the eye of tiger" (focus on doing the job not on how you look or what people think of you - if the presentation is presented well, that's where their focus will shift)

- practice by reading the subject matter often or talking about the subject out loud (visualize your audience) - sometimes, practicing in a mirror helps

- also visualize individual faces in the audience and scan the room as you talk - (left, right, and center) and talk directly to them (do this to "keep the room small and friendly"; remember: you're among friends, so relax.)

- speak in layman terms if you're talking to "average folks"; use technical jargon when talking to fellow tekkies.

- be aware of any questions people might ask and cover them in your presentation or be prepared to respond

- read other books and articles that interest you out loud and get used to having a good time and enjoying the spotlight and hearing the sound of your voice

- focus on giving people the information they need and nothing else. block out all other non-essential thoughts

- make notes and refer to them if you need to - this is a good thing. you should never try to remember everything you want to talk about

- if your style is not telling jokes or stories, don't worry about it. let your words and the situation flow. if a story comes to you - fine. if not, that's fine also.

- try to maintain good posture but don't worry so much about it; practice this well in advance and constantly so that you will be natural

- end of notes

- loveqna
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