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The Mercenary Player vs. The Master Builder  A Woman's Guide to Not Wasting a Good Man (and Her Own Life) Now, before y'all crucify me, just know that I believe there are a lot of great women out there in the World. Some men get lucky and meet one of these luscious dimepieces straight off the bat. But, there are many other great women out there that DON'T SEEM to be worth two cents because they don't have the right man in their life. They are out there stressed-out, angry, and always disappointed because they are playing good men out and settling down with bums who don't give a you-know-what about them.   These women are worthy of a Good Life. They shouldn't have to settle for scraps (scrubs neither)...   But, let's be brutally honest. Many women are raised with a poverty mindset that has nothing to do with money and everything to do with purpose. They are taught, directly or indirectly, to see a man not as a partner to build with, but as a resource to be ex...

Let's get one thing straight. People talk a lot about "female intuition," and for good reason—it's a powerful force. But they often overlook its masculine counterpart: Male Instinct . It's not the same thing. It's a different kind of weapon. While intuition might feel the truth, a man's instinct is designed to hunt it down. And when it's sharp, it's the most powerful tool a man has for choosing his allies, especially the most important ally of all: Mrs. Right.   Now, when I say "Mrs. Right," I'm not just talking about a girlfriend or a wife. I'm talking about your ultimate ride-or-die. She could be your lover, your business partner, or your closest friend. It doesn't matter. Her title is irrelevant; her function is everything. She has your back, unconditionally. She's loyal. She's honest. She's your equal, but she will move heaven and earth to help you win because your success is her success. It's a winning c...

The 'Connection' Isn't Enough: A Brutal Guide to Vetting a Real Relationship You met someone. It clicked. The conversation flows, the laughter is endless, and the chemistry is so strong it feels like a magnetic force. You feel seen. You feel understood. You think, "This is it. I've finally found my person." Stop. That feeling, as incredible as it is, is a drug. It's the dopamine hit of infatuation, and its primary purpose is to make you blind. The biggest mistake people make in modern dating is confusing this initial "entertainment value" with a real foundation for a relationship. You get addicted to the high of the "fun phase" and ignore every single sign that the person you're with is completely incapable of being a real partner. This is your reality check. This is the vetting process you should have been using all along. It’s time to look past the laughter and the good times to see if there's anything real underneath. Stop be...

You have identified the true "silent killer"—it's not just about money, it's about the catastrophic failure to manage a kingdom. This is the practical, boots-on-the-ground intelligence that separates a Player who builds an empire from a lame who lives in a slowly collapsing shack. How to Seize Command of Your Household Introduction: Listen to me. There is a silent killer that is destroying more relationships, more fortunes, and more peace of mind than any external enemy. It is not a lack of love. It is not a lack of ambition. It is the simple, devastating failure to manage your own kingdom. The lame lives in a state of perpetual chaos. Their house is a mess, their finances are a mystery, and their life is a series of preventable fires they are constantly trying to put out. They see a leaking toilet and a sinking floor and turn up the volume on their trash TV, hoping the problem will magically solve itself. They beg for gas money while daylight shines through the crac...

I got too long-winded on that last post. And, as much as I hate to revisit that situation, I have to do it because this chick is online bashing people for "abandoning" her.  Now, I'm not gonna let my ego get the best of me and make me think I'm the only one on her mind that she might say that about. But, I'm ticked-off because she didn't start talking about people abandoning her until I actually abandoned her! I hated to do it, for real. But, once you see how pitiful this broad is - with her neediness and guilt-tripping, then you'll understand why I had to kick her ass to the curb. But, I didn't want to be an enabler either - or, bring her "bad luck" - so I had to dip on her. 🚀 Besides that, she is in a shelter in another state. And, she STILL ain't done jack to advance - besides get her IDs and apply for jobs.  She said she had to get out of "the dirty South" because she didn't feel safe. Now, her goofball-ass is online ta...

This is not how I was able to "break the spell". This jumbled mess is about what I saw that made me say, "the hell with this crap". I wish I could've made it flow better, but if you have stomach for it, read on, forgive me, and I'll do better next time. Okay. Now, check it out:  People run all kinds of game these days... If they ain't pimpin', they're scammin'. If they ain't scammin', they're trying to "influence". And, that bottom dollar is the bottom line in every equation of the hustle.  People are willing to do any-and-everything for a few dollars these days. That's why you have to keep your eyes on that paper, and watch these scandalous mongrels with their bag of tricks. Spend Wisely. Give Wisely. Invest In Quality. And, NEVER be afraid to say "No" - or be too embarrassed to say "No" - when another person mismanages their money and expects you to "be a friend" or "dependable...