How To Survive A Romantic Scammer Attack & Save Your Bank Account | LoveQnA

Watch Out for the Hustler: The Serpent Who Sings a Sweet Song

Let's keep it 100. You're a woman with ambition, a good heart, and you're trying to build something. But you keep running into these slick-talking rascals who seem perfect on the surface, but there's always some "left-handed" boolshit going on. These are the male hustlers, the players, and the romantic con-artists. Your game has to be tight to avoid getting played by these bums.

Now, I'm not talking about a dude who's just down on his luck. I'm talking about the ones who are straight-up psychopaths who will do almost anything for a dollar. They live on the razor's edge and have to be in the mix of something all the damn time—gambling and parlaying with your hard-earned money and ain't gettin' nowhere. Pitiful.

But you have to understand why you're a target. Some of you are lonely. Some are lustful. And some are so caught up in the dream of a power couple that you fall for the "okie-doke" every time. He tells you everything you want to hear, sells you a future you want to believe in, and all the while, he's got another woman on the side that he's sharing your money with. Yea, he might have two or three suckers in rotation, all simpin' and willing to be his "ride or die," catering to his every need and demand.

The only way you get rid of a scandalous con-artist like this is when he disappears after he's gotten everything he wants from you. Don't make the mistake of thinking he'll change. If you keep hanging around, keep giving him everything, he will drain you until you are broke and half-crazy with rage. He will leave you high and dry after you find out he was basically catfishing you the whole time.

So, here's the real. You have to use your Female Intuition. That gut feeling you get is your built-in bullshit detector. It's the only thing that can see through his charm and his lies.

Don't let a dude's sweet words trick you into a relationship. You don't want to get your heart broken, so you try to sway his judgment and seduce him with your resources—your money, your time, your support. That's a sucker's move.

Don't wring his neck when you find out he played you. Let that bum go. It's a hard lesson, but he played himself, because he could've had a good woman. Protect your future. There's definitely a better man out there, one with more sense, who's more compatible. Your game has to be supreme to find him.

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