Girlfriend's Feet Stink, What To Do - Boyfriend's Feet Smell Also

I love funk... but, only on certain music. Quite a few people don't like funk at all. They don't want it on their music, and they especially don't want it on their loved-ones feet.

They'll cuss, scream, and make demands all day long for those rascals to do something about the smell of their feet... but, to no avail.

The truth is: A lot of those folks don't know WHAT to do.

They'll wash their feet with soap and water, powder them, rub deodorant all over'em, pray over those bad-boys, and try all KINDS of home remedies. But, the funk will STILL keep coming back.

People with fresh smelling feet don't realize it, but those stinking-foot rascals are living in a world of hell.

Both of them are living in a world of hell - the person with the stinking feet and the person who has to put up with the person with stinking feet.

You could damn near go bankrupt trying to buy incense, candles, and air freshener to keep that funk back. But, then you'll have to worry about choking yourself to death. It's like a catch 22 - you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.

A friend of mind once told me that she was on the hunt for a new boyfriend because of how bad her boyfriend's feet were stinking up her house. I asked the girl if she talked to him about it and she said, "He knows his damn feet stank. I don't have to tell him."

She probably should've told him about this:

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But, here's a crazy fact: A lot of people who have feet that smell like sour armpits or unwashed chitlins' don't realize it. ??? I'm serious.

If you're having to deal with this, I know you're probably saying "BULLSHIT! I've told him (or her) a thousand times those feet stink! So, he (or she) knows it!"

In that case, you're right. 

But, how many times have you been around a stinking-foot person who had their shoes off and walked around (or laid around with his or her shoes off) like they had the freshest smelling feet in the world? It happens all the time.

Those poor sapsuckers don't know their feet smell like chemical weapons of mass destruction.

Some of those folks wash their feet morning, noon, and night, and STILL can't get the funk off of those bad-boys.

They think their feet are clean and fresh because that soap covers up the smell for about 15 minutes. So, they think it's all good. They don't know that after about 30 minutes to an hour the bacteria on their feet is in an UPROAR again - and causing all kinds of ruckus inside their shoes.

Clean dry socks help to soak-up some of the funk too, but they don't realize those socks can only hold back so much funk. Those socks are just like levies and will bust at the seams once those feet start to sweat.

So, they only think they have a problem with sweaty feet. They don't realize that feet are just like armpits and every other personal space on their body. When body parts sweat they get sticky and eventually start to stink.

I must admit, like a lot of athlete's I had a problem with stinky feet. My mom and dad would yell at me and my brothers all the time about washing our feet and opening up the room windows. lol...

It got to the point that I was so self-conscious that I would rarely take off my shoes whenever I was at a girlfriend's house - unless I had been wearing flip-flops or sandals all day.

Most girls/women don't like guys with stinky feet just as much as many guys don't like girls with stinky feet. It's a turn-on for some people who have that fetish for foot odor, but most people don't like it.

A lot of guys are turned on by pretty fresh-smelling feet. Some people love kissing feet and massaging feet. So, especially ladies, you have to keep those feet sexy and fresh if you want to enjoy having them kissed and massaged.

Anyway...

I had a revelation while packing my bags to go to Myrtle Beach...

I knew I was going to be chasing chicks - and I wasn't going to be wearing sandals all the time - so, I grabbed a tube of athlete's foot cream.

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That was one of the best investments I've ever made in my life. (And it's top-rated on Amazon right now.)

I cleaned my feet and rubbed a little of that cream on my feet and between my toes... and, when I put my socks and shoes on, I felt like I was walking on cloud nine. My feet were feeling buttery-smooth and fresh as a damn daisy. I was walking tall and feeling like a Champ!

That stuff started working right away. It suppressed the funk and within a week the funk was gone altogether. After I used that tube of cream up, I continued using this cream for a week every two months.

But, I slipped up.

I got over-confident and stop using that cream for a long long while - which I shouldn't have done because of the type of work I did.

My job required me to wear steel-toe boots and to be on my feet at least 8 hours a day - walking around on hot asphalt and concrete. When you work like that your feet are bound to sweat. I'd hear my co-workers complain about their feet aching all the time. Some of those rascals sounded like they walking around in a damn swamp because they had so much sweat in their shoes. I said "damn!"

Anyway, over a two-week period, my feet started aching. Then, they started burning. Then, they started itching. I felt like I had razor blades between my toes! I said, "Good God Almighty, What The Hell???"

It was the first time I had serious athlete's foot! I had never experienced anything like it before in my life, so I thought my feet were just aching from work. There was no loud odor or anything. But, the pain and aggravation was almost unbearable at times. I instinctively knew it had to be athlete's foot, and I rushed to Wal-Mart right after work and got that cream.

It started working after a couple of days that time. That was years ago, and I've never had to deal with that situation since then.

I use that cream for at least a week every three months, and my feet are still smelling fresh, so I highly recommend this routine to anyone.

 Lotrimin Ultra Cream, 30 Gram 

If you have stinky feet - or, work a job that can lead to sweaty stinky feet, get some athlete's foot cream. Even if you don't feel like you have athlete's foot, get it for prevention from athlete's foot or foot fungus.

And, don't wait for someone to tell you that your feet stink. Check your feet 15 to 30 minutes after you wash them. If they stink, now you know what to do.

Your boyfriend or girlfriend might not tell you that your feet smell like hell. But, if you want to help your relationship or save yourself from possibly being dumped or kicked to the curb, get that cream ASAP.

Stop wasting your time with those home remedies! Try that stuff out later. Right now, that funk is putting your relationship in jeopardy. Get the cream...

If you're a person at your wits end dealing with someone who has stinking-ass feet, go out and get them that cream ASAP. Or, tell him or her to go buy some.

Give that rascal a foot massage with it. She'll be glad (or he'll be glad) that you did it. And, after a week, you'll be glad you did it too.

Save your nose, save your children (if you have any), and save your relationship. Get that foot cream before all hell breaks loose!

- loveqna

Bride Kidnapping (Video) - Culture Shock And Strange Courtship / Relationship / Marriage Customs

Now, I don't want you to think I'm advocating "bride kidnapping" by posting these videos. Hell, I believe if the girl doesn't want to give you the time of day, why bother? There are plenty of fish in sea, right?

Some people are making light of "bride kidnapping" because sometimes these things are planned. And sometimes, the kidnapper will honor the girl's wishes if she says she doesn't want to marry and wants to return home. But, some of those young women don't know how to handle that kind of situation and things have turned tragic as you'll see in some of these videos. 

And, it's not just happening in these few places. It's going on all over the world as some of these scumbags aren't even making these girls wives. They're just using them for sex and/or money.

Bride Kidnapping in Kyrgyzstan

 


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- loveqna

Even If You're A Single Woman Turning 30 Or Over 30, Don't Let Your Insecurities Stop You From Dating

There are a lot of single 25 to 30 year-old women out there in the world living with all types of insecurity issues and going through a mid-life crisis.

We all have insecurities about one thing or another, so it would be wrong for me to say their insecurities aren't valid. And, being a guy, it would be completely ignorant of me to claim that they shouldn't be insecure about things as a woman that I will never experience and that I don't even have a clue about.

But, I believe that women who are worried about getting back onto the dating scene because of their looks, age, or status, COULD take notes from some of the more adventurous women out there who are meeting and dating quality prospects left and right.

These women who are easily able to get dates and meet quality men aren't hiding themselves or shuffling along with their shoulders slumped and their heads hanging low; feeling like their lives suck.

These ladies are out having fun and enjoying their lives!

Even with a house full of rugrats, these women are meeting people and going out on dates.

Even after a separation, break-up, or divorce, these women have been able to meet better and more compatible partners. You can too!

Your 30th birthday is just a step to becoming wiser not "over the hill". Hell, there are 40 and 50 year-old women out there who are sexy as hell and STILL Hot!

I see guys checkin' those babes out and flirting with them all time. Hell, I flirt with'em too!

Yeah, you may have put on a little weight, acquired a few wrinkles, and feel out of sync with the "new" social circles, but there's no doubt in my mind that you are desirable and attractive. SOMEONE is checking you out.

Half the time, women just aren't aware of guys that have taken an interest in them.

When you hear guys whistling or tootin' their car horns, that ought to tell you something. You still got it! You just need to know how to work it!

You may not be as "fresh" as you once were, but you're fresh to those who have never met you AND to those who appreciate more mature women. You just need to step out and make some friendly connections.

Many women have to remember one important fact: Just as you have insecurity issues, there are many men with insecurity issues as well. And, they are just as nervous about dating and being accepted as you are - even more so.

That's one of the main reasons why good prospects aren't approaching you. It's because they're shy and afraid of rejection. Another reason is because many men out here don't want to be accused of "harassment". It's not always because the woman is unattractive or because she has kids. Hell, some of these rascals out here are "claim-jumpers" and will make a move on another man's babymama in a heartbeat. Quite a few of them don't have any problems dating a woman with kids.

Many of these Cougars out here can attest to that. They have kids and they ain't having any problems attracting YOUNG men or MATURE men.

These M.I.L.Fs out here have "no shame in their game" either! Some of these guys are approaching these MILFs for one-night stands and are ending up falling in love! Damn!

It's a fact that many men prefer older women. Why? The bottom line is this:

Some of these old broads are just as attractive as these younger women. Older women have a sophisticated swagger and sex-appeal that 95% of these young girls can't match. Most of those young fillies won't have that kind of style and swagger UNTIL they reach the age of 30 or so.

And, forget the fact that some of these women are hotter than their daughters, nieces, and younger friends! Most of these older women are attractive because of various intangible qualities. Qualities that give them Grace and Feminine Power!

- they know what they want
- they handle their business
- they're not loud, wild, and immature
- they're confident
- they're hardworking and focused
- they're more stable
- they don't allow themselves to be pushed around or screwed over by con-artists
- they don't base their decisions on their friends' preferences

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Men (especially younger men) are smitten by the grace and sophistication of an older woman. Initially, they have more respect for a woman with those qualities. * If they are compatible, the man will try his best to hang on to that chick for life.

Some of those women have enough charm and wit to seduce almost any guy without even saying a word! Just a simple look; A soft touch; A little bit of romantic banter and giggling; and, he's ready to run away from home and make that sultry siren his queen.

Not to mention that many mature women have an air of mystery about them - which attracts men, because men want to know what those "mysterious women" are REALLY about.

Some younger women have these qualities too. But, if you're an older woman (a mature woman) struggling with the fear of getting back out into the dating scene, you need to realize your advantages and the feminine powers that you possess. Don't let your insecurities eat you alive and keep you from finding a good high quality mate (or date).

I could go on, but I'm saving the rest of this list for "Why Young Men Are Attracted To Older Women".

Now, I'm not saying that all men - or even most men - prefer older women. We all know that men of all ages love these young fresh cutie-pies. But, men of all ages love fine sophisticated Divas too.

The main thing you have to do is get your confidence up. And, you do that by taking action.

Get out there. Make yourself available. Network.


If you're not the type of person to approach a prospect for a date, then meet him through your contacts - friends, family, co-workers, etc. Remember, it's just a date. You don't have to commit yourself. Ask some of your girls if they know some eligible bachelors that have their head on straight and worth your time.

And, when you're looking good, cute, and foxy when you go out, be open to conversation. Don't always judge a man by his looks. Pay attention to his behavior and how he carries himself. Just because he's dressed like a bum doesn't mean he's a slob with no goals, integrity, or ambition. Talk to him and use your feminine instincts to get an idea of what he's really about.

Find a way to strike up a conversation to get him talking. Keep it casual. Men are hunters (as the saying goes), and if he's not too shy or involved, he'll do all the talking once you get the conversation started. Hell, he'll be more than happy that you're even Breathing in the direction of his personal space.

Another way to get a guy's attention is to be a woman in distress. How many times has this tactic worked for women???  This tactic is so famous, it's repeated in movies and books over and over again. And, you don't have be stranded on the side of road for this to work. You can ask for help or advice with anything and a man's "handy-man" instincts will kick-in quick as lightning. And, even if he can't help you with that issue at that time, you can still strike up a conversation about the issue the next time you meet. You can use this tactic at parties, work, social gatherings, wherever.

If you know the guy well, offer him a job to do some repair work around your house. How do you think these rich cougars land some of these young studs??? They hire them for housework!

You can also meet guys at a local college. Take a short course in something fun or creative. Take a course in carpentry, creative writing, how to make apps, landscaping, whatever.

Do some volunteer work. Join a gym. Go to social events.

Work in a high traffic retail store for a season. I know that's extreme, but you can definitely meet some guys that way.

Home Improvement stores and shops are always full of handy-men. Keep your eyes open the next time you're in a Home Depot or Lowes (or some place similar).

You can also meet some ambitious guys at these multi-level marketing seminars.... I know that stooping pretty low to find a date, but some of those all-day suckers probably feel the same way you do about MLM. They just HAD to be there because their brother, cousin, co-worker, or friend, just kept hounding them and hounding them until they finally just said "what the hell, I'll go." So, don't sleep on Multi-Level-Marketing. There are some single guys in there also.

(Just for the record, I have nothing against MLM. I believe MLM works if the company has products or services with value that can be measured.)

Match.com

A lot of men have dating profiles on the Net. Try your search there. Just be careful.

It's amazing how many beautiful single older women there are on the Net looking for dates and partners.

I think what makes finding a good partner so difficult for a lot of women (and men) is pickiness.

Too damn picky.

Some of those women are past middle-age and they are still living off the HOPE of finding some fantasy guy they conjured up in their head when they were 14. What the hell... Stop being so picky and just go out on a date to have fun. You don't have to commit yourself to the guy. Just get out of the house and live a little.

Keep it casual. If the first date leads to a second date or a romance, then fine. If not, at least you're out enjoying life instead of sitting around the house getting old and rusty as time passes by.

Have fun. Go to new places. Experience new things. Hell, that's what it's all about.


- loveqna

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