Just for the record: I'm the "Dumbass". In fact...
I have to be the dumbest dumbass in the whole wide world to be putting up with this crappy-ass "relationship".
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Notes for an old post that I never published.
I'll have to find the video/audio for this post and listen to it so that I can blog about it later.
I can't remember if this was the time she kept calling me at work while I was loading generators to tell me the power was off, or if this is the time she called me to tell me that someone was walking past the house outside... What the hell??? It's a public street and sidewalk! I don't own it! So, she tried to "threaten" me.
"Well, if you don't come home, I'm calling the police."
"Call them. That's what they get paid for. I'm at work. It would take me more than twenty minutes to take off my gear, clock out, get a manager to unlock the doors and let me out, and ride home. Call the police and let them check it out."
It was 1AM and, she knows I can't see well in minimal light. I'm going blind - which I'll talk about later.
Anyway... I knew she was lying just to get me to leave work so, I finished up early and left around 1:30AM so she'd stop calling me.
She told me about the police coming and not finding anything (or anyone), and began pestering me AGAIN about an alarm system.
She knew damn well she didn't see anyone walking past the house! She had already called my job 3 TIMES trying to get me to come home. It's not because she feels unsafe. Not really. She's been doing this crap ever since she weaseled her way back into my life. She just loves spending my money!
She honestly thinks she's a housewife!
And, she just wants to build a "smart home". We have Alexa in every room that she kept hassling me for. There are "smart lights" and "hubs" and crap everywhere. Then she wanted me to add a thermostat. Now, she wants an alarm system - That I'LL have to pay a monthly bill for - not to mention the initial set-up and equipment.
It's all a sham.
"I told you WE need an alarm system! It's not safe for me and the girls here alone while you're working so late!"
Oh my god, this chick is getting on my nerves...
First of all, I want to be by myself, and I've told her that countless times.
Second, I didn't ask her to come back except to get her stuff, and she moved back in without asking.
Third, I can't afford an alarm system because her ass is always NEEDING money for shit. And, I give it because I try to help people and look-out for people - with my dumbass.
Fourth - should I go on? Fourth... If there WAS an alarm system with cameras, her ass would be calling me every five minutes about what she was seeing on video and worrying half to damn death. I don't have time for that shit.
The worst was when she called me to tell me the power was off at the house, and she wanted me to come home for safety reasons.
I looked down at the phone number again... It was the "house phone" - which is wi-fi or voip (voice over internet protocol). This means that it is connected to the router and wi-fi. Which means it is plugged into a socket. Which means the electricity had to be working in order for her to make the call...
I was pissed off... because she kept calling and calling and calling.
It wasn't the first "hurricane" she'd ever been in.
In fact, it never turned into a hurricane. It was barely a tropical storm in this area.
And, it didn't last long!
I stayed out of the work that day just to keep her quiet.
And, nothing happened. It was very windy for several hours, and on this day the power went out, but was on by 10:30pm.
Being in a relationship is just a nuisance and a headache, damn.
Loveqna
I have to be the dumbest dumbass in the whole wide world to be putting up with this crappy-ass "relationship".
***********
Notes for an old post that I never published.
I'll have to find the video/audio for this post and listen to it so that I can blog about it later.
I can't remember if this was the time she kept calling me at work while I was loading generators to tell me the power was off, or if this is the time she called me to tell me that someone was walking past the house outside... What the hell??? It's a public street and sidewalk! I don't own it! So, she tried to "threaten" me.
"Well, if you don't come home, I'm calling the police."
"Call them. That's what they get paid for. I'm at work. It would take me more than twenty minutes to take off my gear, clock out, get a manager to unlock the doors and let me out, and ride home. Call the police and let them check it out."
It was 1AM and, she knows I can't see well in minimal light. I'm going blind - which I'll talk about later.
Anyway... I knew she was lying just to get me to leave work so, I finished up early and left around 1:30AM so she'd stop calling me.
She told me about the police coming and not finding anything (or anyone), and began pestering me AGAIN about an alarm system.
She knew damn well she didn't see anyone walking past the house! She had already called my job 3 TIMES trying to get me to come home. It's not because she feels unsafe. Not really. She's been doing this crap ever since she weaseled her way back into my life. She just loves spending my money!
She honestly thinks she's a housewife!
And, she just wants to build a "smart home". We have Alexa in every room that she kept hassling me for. There are "smart lights" and "hubs" and crap everywhere. Then she wanted me to add a thermostat. Now, she wants an alarm system - That I'LL have to pay a monthly bill for - not to mention the initial set-up and equipment.
It's all a sham.
"I told you WE need an alarm system! It's not safe for me and the girls here alone while you're working so late!"
Oh my god, this chick is getting on my nerves...
First of all, I want to be by myself, and I've told her that countless times.
Second, I didn't ask her to come back except to get her stuff, and she moved back in without asking.
Third, I can't afford an alarm system because her ass is always NEEDING money for shit. And, I give it because I try to help people and look-out for people - with my dumbass.
Fourth - should I go on? Fourth... If there WAS an alarm system with cameras, her ass would be calling me every five minutes about what she was seeing on video and worrying half to damn death. I don't have time for that shit.
The worst was when she called me to tell me the power was off at the house, and she wanted me to come home for safety reasons.
I looked down at the phone number again... It was the "house phone" - which is wi-fi or voip (voice over internet protocol). This means that it is connected to the router and wi-fi. Which means it is plugged into a socket. Which means the electricity had to be working in order for her to make the call...
I was pissed off... because she kept calling and calling and calling.
It wasn't the first "hurricane" she'd ever been in.
In fact, it never turned into a hurricane. It was barely a tropical storm in this area.
And, it didn't last long!
I stayed out of the work that day just to keep her quiet.
And, nothing happened. It was very windy for several hours, and on this day the power went out, but was on by 10:30pm.
Being in a relationship is just a nuisance and a headache, damn.
Loveqna
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