What If You're Loving And Caring And Your Partner Still Cheats On You?

Beg you sorry rascal! Beg for forgiveness! lol...

What we are REALLY talking about here is Honesty, Trust, And Respect.

We are also talking about people who are weak-minded.

But be warned also: Love is not always a two-way street.

You can love someone and devote yourself to him or her, but that doesn't mean or guarantee that they will even have a second thought about you.

Scam artists and players make unsuspecting suckers - I mean, Good men and women - fall in love with them all the time. They do it so that they can con these good people out of their money, their credit, a place to live, a car, favors, access to something, whatever.

Look at these people who "catfish" people online. Sometimes the "stalker" (or the one doing the catfishing) is in love whereas the good person who THOUGHT they were in love, realize that they weren't in love when they finally meet the person that "catfished" them.

So, Love is not always a two-way street.

Some people try to force their love on another person who could never feel love.

It doesn't matter how good you cook.

It doesn't matter how good you look.

It doesn't matter if you're loving, caring, honest, or faithful and in love, that doesn't mean your romantic interest HAS to feel the same way. They feel the way they feel and that's that.

Sometimes, two people start out on great terms, and feel like they are compatible and that they will be together forever. But...

Sometimes, one partner loses interest. It happens.

Sometimes, a couple gets into a heated argument, say things they don't mean, and one partner never forgives the other partner. They are so ticked off, they don't want to be in the relationship anymore. What was love turns into disgust and they're just hanging around until they can find a way out.

Sometimes, one of the partners may find a true connection with someone else, or BELIEVE that they have a connection or chemistry with someone else and feels compelled to start a relationship with that person.

Unfortunately, nothing ever stays the same. People change. Situations change. Feelings sometimes change. Love can be tested. True feeling can be exposed. And, true character - and motives (as hurtful as they may be) - at some point will be brought to light.

So, if your partner cheats after you have been honest, loving, and caring, your only resolution is going to be how you deal with what has happened.

And, no matter how you deal with it, you still have to learn from it and change.

You might have to change how you interact with your partner - or, your next partner.

You might have to change how you choose your partners.

You might have to change your style, attitude, behavior, or beliefs (if they keep getting you into disagreements with your partners).

You know what you have to do.

But, it's up to the both of you to settle this - IF you want to hold on to the cheater.

Talk to him or her. Only he or she can tell you WHY he or she cheated. No one else. Not me. Not your friends. Not the author of a book. No one. The cheater has to tell you why he or she cheated.

Then, YOU have to decide if it's worth the risk to hang on and involve yourself with this person again or move on.

The deceit has happened. Now, investigate and try to make sense of it all. Don't go berserk because of it. Let the bum speak (or lie) and try to understand what went wrong. Learn from the experience no matter what you do.

But, here's another fact that a lot of people are aware of:

Even if you move on and find someone else, it could happen again. Honest and Faithful people are rare these days so, think it through and look at both sides of the story.

Your friends and counsel can tell you a lot of "feel-good" crap to console you and try to help your self-esteem, but ultimately, you will do what you want to in spite of what they advise.

You're going to go with how you feel and what you believe the future may hold.

But, either way - even if you DID become boring or Un-interesting to this jerk - don't blame yourself. The Truth was brought to light.

You ARE who you are. They ARE who they are. And, they may be weak, deceitful, or lack character.

They may have fetishes or fantasies.

They may get caught-up (emotionally) while talking to an old friend or Ex.

Anything can happen at anytime.

You can only try to find someone who's honest, trustworthy, and devoted, from the start...

But, you STILL don't know!

No one knows what the future holds or what's going to happen except The Supreme. That's just Life.

Meet someone and keep getting to know them as long as you're together. That's the key. Get into their head and stay there. Open up to them and have fun with them. It's a good way to keep them interested.

Once your minds are connected and you believe in each other, you will never ever have Anything to worry about.

Loveqna