Be Careful Of What You Wish For - Law Of Attraction

Allan Filipe Santos Dias

I don't know if "The Law Of Attraction" is real or not, but I've had some strange enough events to make me believe it's true... Then again, it's been years and my million dollars still ain't showed up...


But, you know what they say: "Be careful of what you wish for because you just might get it." That's a warning that some things that you wish for can make your life a living hell - especially when it comes to love and money.

Sometimes it pays to pass on those golden opportunities, because sometimes those golden opportunities can end up being paths to misery. Like the old saying goes: "Everything that glitters isn't gold."

Trust me. If you often use the law of attraction or prayer or meditation or hypnotism and positive thinking, it would behoove you to be extra-careful.

Why? Because, there are people who have a knack for attracting the wrong kind of partner. They always get into relationships with liars, cheaters, deceivers, self-centered folks, boring people, etc. They can't help it.

No matter who they meet, they end up dating the same kind of person as before - a jerk.

Why does this happen?

Are they attracting those types of partners, or are they Attracted to those types of people?

I have the same problem.

I'm not 100% sure, but I think I'm attracted to hoodrat women... I'm serious. I believe I am. Don't get me wrong, I don't have a preference for any certain type of woman, but I think I'm attracted to hoodrats. I don't know how it happened. You know me, I'm on the borderline of hating hoodrats and feeling sympathy for their poor dumbasses. I try to avoid them, but somehow or another, I always end up in a relationship with one ovem. Loud and haughty women. Oh my God... I can't stand it.

Low energy level or misguided energy. Untrustworthy. Always in some drama or bullshit - or, snooping her nose in it...

I had to make a change. I had to do something different. I tried The Law Of Attraction. I went deep into a meditative state until I could focus only on the qualities of the woman that were important to me.

Then, I focused on what I wanted the relationship to be like.

A few months passed, and the next thing you know, I'm kickin' with this thick luscious-booty chick at the crib... pardon my "french". But, it happened. The Law Of Attraction worked!

Almost everything I envisioned this woman to be came to fruition. Even the approach.

I was checking out at a register at work, when a few of the employees (especially cashiers that I often flirted with or were cool and cordial with) were chatting me up and saying "hello" and making small-talk, when out of the blue, this chick boldly walked up on me and asked: "So, when are we going out for drinks?"

What the hell??? I was stunned. And, I had an uneasy feeling all over.

I had been looking at that luscious booty off and on for a while, but I wasn't going to make a move so soon... I wanted to consider my options and see if there was something else out there a little more compatible and - to be honest - better. But, I felt I was being rushed.

In fact, I felt an unnerving vibe from this chick before that.

Although she had all the qualities I was looking for: the hair color and length, buttery smooth skin, sex-appeal, a perfect booty, a well-proportioned body, confidence, spiritual, etc., I still took my time because I wanted to make sure she wasn't crazy or something.

I responded to the drink question with: "Let me know when you're free, and we can get together and do somethin' - hang-out, whatever."

She immediately turned, pushed a button on the register, and a strip of receipt paper came out. "Take my number." She sat it down on the counter and wrote her name and number on it.

I said to myself: Oh hell, this chick is gangsta'. I likes dat.

"All right." I responded. But, I was still feeling like: what the hell... damn! Now, I can't go back to those registers for a while.

She was perfect, but I was trying to chill and enjoy life. I wanted to remain single and relax for a while.

To make a long story short...

Unfortunately, three months after she approached me at the register, she moved in.

And, a few months after that, I was ready for her ass to move right back out.

omg... That broad almost drove me up the wall. Fussin'. Cussin'. Threatening me. Won't listen. Twisting my words. Falsely accusing me of shit...

She damn near drove me crazy... And, is still trying to drive me crazy almost everyday!

She ain't happy unless she can find something to fuss about.

And, Loves to spend money she doesn't have and refuses to save money - driving me straight through hell and right into the poor house.

I knew my Male Instincts and Intuition was right! Something told me this was not the girl for me, but a few weeks later, I made a mistake and wasn't paying attention - and, I went to check out near that register again.

That's when she ran up on me and asked: "Why haven't you called me?"

Hell, it happened so fast, I didn't know what to say...

But, I didn't stutter or stammer, "I've been so busy with work and fixing up my house, I haven't had time to do anything lately."

The other truth is: I'm just not a phone person. I don't look at apps, play games, or cupcake on the phone for hours at time. And, I don't have time to be watching out for texts or looking at my phone every time it vibrates. I just don't want to live like that. I'm focused on "trying to elevate my life".

"Here's my number again." She rolled off some receipt paper and started writing, and before I could get the paper in my hand good, she asked: "What's your number so I can put it in my phone."

On the outside, I was smiling as I took her number. On the inside, I was saying: "Damn!"

It was painful, but I spoke each number clear and with intent.

And, that's how my whole life turned to crap.

I want to run away from this "dump" so bad I can hardly stand it. But, unfortunately, I own this dump, and have to come up with a super-master-plan to escape this time.

Oh my God...

Lord have mercy. Please God... Please help me out here Lord. I've learned my lesson. Set me free.

Amen.

Okay...

So, I know there are some non-believers, and I still can't say if the Law Of Attraction is 100% real or not. But, just to be on the safe side - because I've experienced quite a few "Attraction" things I still can't explain - I'll tell anybody: Just be careful when you pray for Love or use The Law Of Attraction to find a mate. It could be the worst mistake of your life.

The stars might align and your vibe may be perfect to manifest something you'll later regret.

I'm saying this because I'm a prime example.

I've been praying for over 3 years and trying to envision what "being free" looks like, but so far, ain't nothing happening.

- Loveqna

The Worst Mistake Any Man Or Woman Can Make

There's something I hate to admit but I won't feel good about this post unless I come clean and tell you about it.

The other night, I was severely distraught over a new girl I met. I was almost in tears.

I know this chick is crazy for me. I like her a lot too. But, I can see all the drama looming ahead.

I think she's crazy as hell.

I'm almost sure that one day she's gonna "snap".

And that's too bad because she's an attractive girl with beautiful brown eyes, a great smile, a sweet personality; kind, witty, caring, a great hostess, energetic, hard-working. She has a lot of positive traits.

But... She has a "dark side" too that I've Heard about.

Her zodiac sign is Gemini. And, you know Geminis have split personalities. So, I'm almost sure everything I've heard is true.

People that know her say that she starts arguments and that she lies a lot.

I've already mentioned in an earlier post that she is imposing, stubborn, and won't take "no" for an answer.

I'm starting to wonder if I can trust her emotions.

I've seen how she takes her father's goodwill and generosity for granted and it's not cool at all. I was embarrassed by it. She used his SUV to help move a friend and kept the vehicle way way too long without calling and letting him know that everything was okay. He had to called HER to find out what was going on. And when we returned the vehicle, she barely thanked him. Her only concern was getting rid of the SUV and going home. It was totally disrespectful. I couldn't believe it. Not from her.

But, this girl is so sweet so I don't get it.

And, I'm at a crossroads because I like "bad girls", but at the same time, I want to have a girl who's sweet.

So far, she seems happy whenever she's with me. But, who knows, she could also be just as happy with anyone else. I'm thinking she may be fickle. But, I don't know for sure.

What stresses me out is: I don't want this girl to change. I like her just as she is.

But, what if everything I like is all a facade? Or, a charade? You know how sweet people are when you first meet them, then, later on, they start to change.

I might not know until it was too late and our friendship was ruined. We've already gone too far. We've gotten too close.

I trust my instincts. I believe there will be a lot of drama. But, I'm hoping I'm wrong.

I could still drop everything and just stop talking to this chick and avoid her but, deep down, I feel she needs me.

(have you ever felt like that??? that helping someone with their life or giving them guidance could help their and many other lives in return? like: your words, wisdom, and guidance could change them and have a phenomenal impact on helping them improve and succeed in life. It changes you too. Giving you good vibes inside and improving your spiritual awareness.)

Maybe I'm crazy, but I think I could have a positive impact on her life. And, I think she could help me as well.

This friendship could be a beautiful thing.

But, I'm afraid of the drama.

But, I'm also afraid of letting her go.

The reason I'm afraid of ignoring this potential relationship is because I've let some good girls get away from me before.

For the most part, I'm a nice guy. I try to do the right things and treat people right. But, I've been a terrible love-mate to girls that I was damn lucky to be involved with.

Not only were these good girls some real hotties who were sweet and supportive, but they were Devoted.

They cooked for me. They spent money on me. They treated me out to dinners and movies. They stood up for me when haters tried to sweet-talk Them (or bad-mouth Me).

I had dime-pieces asking me to marry them or to move in with them all the time.

These girls wanted to see me succeed and tried to give me advice or help in one way or the other.

Like many men (and women), I was just a fool.

I didn't realize how good I had it. I didn't realize what a thing I had at the time: A good woman and a good relationship.

But, I was greedy for companionship and sex.

Or, I was afraid of being tied down.

And, I was addicted to partying and having fun.

Plus, I was selfish with my free time.

Most of the time, I was too focused on making money than building a relationship.

My relationships always started out great. But then, after a while, the girl seemed like an intrusion to what I wanted out of life at the time.

I'm not gonna lie. I was a jerk. An asshole.

I'd stand the girl up for dates and lie about why I didn't show up.

Break promises I knew I was going to break before I made them.

I'd ignore her.

I wouldn't call for days (and only when there was nothing better to do).

I'd make fun of her - even if she was hot.

I'd cheat.

I was terrible.

But, through it all - a few years later - I'm still friends with these girls - and women.

I'm not staying in this plush house just because I have pretty face - which I don't...

So, I have to make some kind of decision.

This could be God forgiving me for all of my past sins and giving me my final chance for true love. You never know...

Think about the time (or times) you've had "a good thing" and let it slip away.

I know you would turn back the clock if you could.

You know how hard it is to find something just as good as what you had and how it's almost impossible to find something better.

Only a handful of us are wise enough or lucky enough to hold onto a good man or good woman.

I don't know why but that's just the way it is. Some of us get distracted by the Desires of life and some of us are smart enough to be satisfied with the Blessings we get in life.

I don't plan on continuing my life in circles and going on this merry-go-round of ups and downs.

I'm gonna take advantage of this Blessing - whether it's a friendship or a serious relationship. I know the difference lies within me. Hopefully, I won't have to compromise too much (or FIGHT too much) for it.

Whatever.

If it's "a good thing", I'm not letting it get away from me this time.

- loveqna