just be cool (notes)
(notes) ** just jotting down some thoughts for a possible post on confidence and conversation. If you still feel uneasy about socializing and talking to people, just remember to be cool... Cool, Calm, and Collected. There's no need to over-think the situation. Ask questions and offer input relevant to the subject or situation. If you hate standing around with your hand in your pocket, offer to help. Whatever you do, enjoy the moment. Mix, Mingle, and just be cool... The great thing about being cool, calm, and collected, is that it's like you're in an active meditative state like being in The Zone. You're fully awake and your brain is "clicking on all cylinders". Your thoughts are precise. Your actions are precise. And everything you do is done with ease. This is the way you want to live your life when you're out engaging in social events and meeting new romantic prospects. Being cool and calm doesn't mean you can't laugh, joke,...