Be Careful Of What You Wish For - Law Of Attraction

Allan Filipe Santos Dias

I don't know if "The Law Of Attraction" is real or not, but I've had some strange enough events to make me believe it's true... Then again, it's been years and my million dollars still ain't showed up...


But, you know what they say: "Be careful of what you wish for because you just might get it." That's a warning that some things that you wish for can make your life a living hell - especially when it comes to love and money.

Sometimes it pays to pass on those golden opportunities, because sometimes those golden opportunities can end up being paths to misery. Like the old saying goes: "Everything that glitters isn't gold."

Trust me. If you often use the law of attraction or prayer or meditation or hypnotism and positive thinking, it would behoove you to be extra-careful.

Why? Because, there are people who have a knack for attracting the wrong kind of partner. They always get into relationships with liars, cheaters, deceivers, self-centered folks, boring people, etc. They can't help it.

No matter who they meet, they end up dating the same kind of person as before - a jerk.

Why does this happen?

Are they attracting those types of partners, or are they Attracted to those types of people?

I have the same problem.

I'm not 100% sure, but I think I'm attracted to hoodrat women... I'm serious. I believe I am. Don't get me wrong, I don't have a preference for any certain type of woman, but I think I'm attracted to hoodrats. I don't know how it happened. You know me, I'm on the borderline of hating hoodrats and feeling sympathy for their poor dumbasses. I try to avoid them, but somehow or another, I always end up in a relationship with one ovem. Loud and haughty women. Oh my God... I can't stand it.

Low energy level or misguided energy. Untrustworthy. Always in some drama or bullshit - or, snooping her nose in it...

I had to make a change. I had to do something different. I tried The Law Of Attraction. I went deep into a meditative state until I could focus only on the qualities of the woman that were important to me.

Then, I focused on what I wanted the relationship to be like.

A few months passed, and the next thing you know, I'm kickin' with this thick luscious-booty chick at the crib... pardon my "french". But, it happened. The Law Of Attraction worked!

Almost everything I envisioned this woman to be came to fruition. Even the approach.

I was checking out at a register at work, when a few of the employees (especially cashiers that I often flirted with or were cool and cordial with) were chatting me up and saying "hello" and making small-talk, when out of the blue, this chick boldly walked up on me and asked: "So, when are we going out for drinks?"

What the hell??? I was stunned. And, I had an uneasy feeling all over.

I had been looking at that luscious booty off and on for a while, but I wasn't going to make a move so soon... I wanted to consider my options and see if there was something else out there a little more compatible and - to be honest - better. But, I felt I was being rushed.

In fact, I felt an unnerving vibe from this chick before that.

Although she had all the qualities I was looking for: the hair color and length, buttery smooth skin, sex-appeal, a perfect booty, a well-proportioned body, confidence, spiritual, etc., I still took my time because I wanted to make sure she wasn't crazy or something.

I responded to the drink question with: "Let me know when you're free, and we can get together and do somethin' - hang-out, whatever."

She immediately turned, pushed a button on the register, and a strip of receipt paper came out. "Take my number." She sat it down on the counter and wrote her name and number on it.

I said to myself: Oh hell, this chick is gangsta'. I likes dat.

"All right." I responded. But, I was still feeling like: what the hell... damn! Now, I can't go back to those registers for a while.

She was perfect, but I was trying to chill and enjoy life. I wanted to remain single and relax for a while.

To make a long story short...

Unfortunately, three months after she approached me at the register, she moved in.

And, a few months after that, I was ready for her ass to move right back out.

omg... That broad almost drove me up the wall. Fussin'. Cussin'. Threatening me. Won't listen. Twisting my words. Falsely accusing me of shit...

She damn near drove me crazy... And, is still trying to drive me crazy almost everyday!

She ain't happy unless she can find something to fuss about.

And, Loves to spend money she doesn't have and refuses to save money - driving me straight through hell and right into the poor house.

I knew my Male Instincts and Intuition was right! Something told me this was not the girl for me, but a few weeks later, I made a mistake and wasn't paying attention - and, I went to check out near that register again.

That's when she ran up on me and asked: "Why haven't you called me?"

Hell, it happened so fast, I didn't know what to say...

But, I didn't stutter or stammer, "I've been so busy with work and fixing up my house, I haven't had time to do anything lately."

The other truth is: I'm just not a phone person. I don't look at apps, play games, or cupcake on the phone for hours at time. And, I don't have time to be watching out for texts or looking at my phone every time it vibrates. I just don't want to live like that. I'm focused on "trying to elevate my life".

"Here's my number again." She rolled off some receipt paper and started writing, and before I could get the paper in my hand good, she asked: "What's your number so I can put it in my phone."

On the outside, I was smiling as I took her number. On the inside, I was saying: "Damn!"

It was painful, but I spoke each number clear and with intent.

And, that's how my whole life turned to crap.

I want to run away from this "dump" so bad I can hardly stand it. But, unfortunately, I own this dump, and have to come up with a super-master-plan to escape this time.

Oh my God...

Lord have mercy. Please God... Please help me out here Lord. I've learned my lesson. Set me free.

Amen.

Okay...

So, I know there are some non-believers, and I still can't say if the Law Of Attraction is 100% real or not. But, just to be on the safe side - because I've experienced quite a few "Attraction" things I still can't explain - I'll tell anybody: Just be careful when you pray for Love or use The Law Of Attraction to find a mate. It could be the worst mistake of your life.

The stars might align and your vibe may be perfect to manifest something you'll later regret.

I'm saying this because I'm a prime example.

I've been praying for over 3 years and trying to envision what "being free" looks like, but so far, ain't nothing happening.

- Loveqna

Sometimes The Grass Is Greener On The Other Side

Now, while the saying: "The grass isn't always greener on the other side," is true, we must also realize that the flip side of this proverb is: "Sometimes, the grass IS greener on the other side."

And, I believe that many of the people who use this phrase use it as a psychological weapon to raise doubt (or awareness) in their cheating or waning lover.

Again, I'm not saying that this is the case all the time - or even most of the time - I'm saying that many of us know of a situation where a friend or family member has gotten out of a toxic or stale relationship and into another relationship and has done a lot better for themselves.

I'm also saying you never know if the relationship you're in is going to prosper or fail or if you should jump-ship and become the co-pilot or pilot on another prospect's magic carpet. You just don't know.

You may be giving up the best thing you'll ever have, or you might be saving yourself from disaster. You just don't know.

You can use your instincts and experience to somewhat see where things are headed, but you still don't know for sure.

People change and situations change.

But, what about those who don't feel a romantic connection? Or, those who are fed up with being ignored and feeling unloved? Many of these people couldn't wait for things to change. They had to get out. Some of them did well for themselves; Some of them got into more of a mess than they were in when they got out of the previous toxic relationship.

Sometimes, we must realize, the fault isn't always on ONE of the partners. It takes two tango. And, maybe the couple just isn't compatible.

These days, we're moving into relationships too fast without really getting to know each other. People aren't asking the important questions. Girls would rather giggle than to know a guys character, work ethic, and fortitude. Guys would rather date a chick with sex appeal than to find out about her work ethic, honesty, and credit score.

Now, I'm not saying that anyone should divulge all of their personal information on a couple of dates, but you do have to get at least a good idea about the quality of your prospects and what they are REALLY like. Have fun, but be aware of your prospect's habits, manners, and conversations. Ask questions that are important to you and your culture and lifestyle.

This is how you avoid that weak grass and get on the side where all of that luscious green grass is.

And, from there, you just follow that yellow-brick road to the land of milk and honey, and live happily ever after.


- LoveQnA