What in the hell is wrong with this crazy-ass greedy blood-sucking money-grabbing broad???
Guys! If you're serious about finding a loyal chick to have on your side as you level-up and grow your empire, then take the time out to ask the proper questions and observe her behavior and actions.
Ladies! Don't let those hoodrat rascals pull a fast one on you and play you out for your hard-earned cash, self-respect, and sanity. Ask the right questions and let his actions speak louder than his lying-ass words.
It's time for these wannabee players and con-artists to be stopped!
Some of us are just "too nice". Some of us fall in love too easy. And, some of us will tolerate all kinds of stupid shit because we don't want to hurt someone's feelings, put them out in the cold, or deal with conflict.
We put up with all kinds of crap.
But, now it's time to nip that shit in the bud - Especially with these gold-diggers, time wasters, and bums, who just want to try to get a free ride and who contribute nothing to a relationship or to your life.
Watch Out!
- Are they living a pitiful lifestyle?
- Do they waste money on non-essential dumb shit and whine about being broke?
- Do they waste their money on weed, cigarettes, and/or alcohol and whine about being broke?
- Are they asking you for favors early on in the relationship after you've slept together?
- Are you spoiling him or her too early in the relationship with your generosity and not allowing him or her to treat you?
- Is she or he using your transportation less than 3 - 6 months into the relationship or begging for rides all over town and at all times of the day and night?
- What does his or her credit look like? And, is he or she building it and protecting it?
- What kind of work ethic does that rascal have?
- Is he or she delusional and believes that everyone else owes him or her a free ride?
- Is he or she always talking about getting help from Mom and Dad?
- Does the bum even have a job? Or, is he or she lounging around in your house watching TV or surfing the Internet all day???
These are just some of questions you need to ask yourself about your prospect or current boyfriend, girlfriend, or Love Interest. Even a friend with benefits or a side-chick (girl or guy) could make your bank account look like a damn dust bowl if you ain't careful.
Sometimes, you just gotta say "no". Sometimes, you gotta walk away - or run. Disappear. Don't answer your phone. Leave town. Whatever.
These people aren't good with their finances and they will drag you down with them - just like this broad is trying to do to me...
I KNEW I shouldn't have helped her repair her credit!
Her damn greedy non-budgeting-ass has already done ran-up my credit and shot my bank account all to hell. Now, she's online trying to apply for credit cards without a job!
Yeah, I know that she can get a credit card without a job, but she better NOT use my name and employment information or else I'm gonna sue her ass for fraud! And, identity theft!
And, I hope they lock her ass UNDER the jail!
I'm sick of this damn chick!
I've been trying to get her to leave without serving her an eviction notice or being a dick about it, but I'm really getting to the point of just not giving a crap.
Every time I turn around she needs something - or wants something... or, she needs money to go somewhere.
You can't be nice to people. All they do is try to take advantage.
I bought her kids some chromebooks for school one Christmas, and then SHE had to have a new computer. I had to keep my new laptop (that I bought before I let her move in) hid for over a year so that she wouldn't try to claim it or put a virus on it like she did her old "Vista" laptop. She kept asking me about my laptop so much that I finally had to buy her a new one so she'd shut the hell up.
But, was she grateful??? Hell naw! She wasn't happy with it because she wanted one like mine with a touchscreen. So, I bought her a wireless keyboard and mouse to go along with it. She loves it. I love mine. I use it every single day. I'm in bed typing with it right now. And, she's in the family room on hers RIGHT NOW. She's not even thinking about a touchscreen!
Hell, I don't care about a touchscreen. It's just a feature that comes with this particular laptop. But, she still isn't completely satisfied.
Why??? Simply because she wants something else to show-off to her mom, cousins, and friends.
Her nephew visited us last year and he had an Apple Ipad. Those greedy rascals couldn't stand it and they all wanted one. So, I went online to order them as Christmas presents for the kids... and, she had to have one. But, not a regular Ipad. No, She had to have to have the Ipad Pro! I said, "WHAT THE HELL???" I shouldn't have got it, but I did. And, they STILL wanted me to get them Apple Watches! Not the pens that make the Ipads complete, but the pens AND the watches!
Hell Naw! Get y'all asses outta here!
But, she still nickeled and dimed me to damn death.
Every time I damn turn around... Oh my God, I can't stand it!
I had to stop blogging, because every time she sees me on the computer, she wants me to go to some website to look at something. Or, she's looking at me parlay and manage my finances and stocks.
Or, she's trying to see how much money is in my Paypal account... damn greedy ass.
But, she doesn't want me blogging about her ass or all of the damn drama she causes. Money (or, her lack of money) is just one aspect of her crazy ass problems that I have to deal with.
I bought her and her girls Samsung smartphones the year before last, and she was mad because she wanted a new flagship Samsung phone. That phone was $800 and some change! Is your ass crazy??? You ain't my damn wife! You'd better get the hell out of here!
I was happy with my Tracfone. I don't talk much on the phone - or, search for anything, or engage in social media - hell, I don't even answer my phone when my manager or job calls - so I didn't need a smartphone. But, she insisted on setting up a T-Mobile account and adding my name to it. This was (about 5 years ago) two months after we started kickin' it. A month and a half later, the phone service was shut-off for non-payment. I still had my Tracfone, but I gave her fifty bucks anyway to get her service back on. A couple of months later, it was off again! And, she had a job at the time. But, the second time, I left that shit turned off.
I wasn't mad. I still had my Tracfone and my original phone number. She was the one walking around looking for wi-fi and shit. And, complaining like hell... And, she wasn't living with me at the time. As big as that red flag was, my poor dumbass still maintained a friendship with that hoodrat. But, we were a few months into knowing each other and we DID have a connection.
We have a connection now, but we are also out of sync. No chemistry. No deep level of understanding. No love. I stopped caring about her thoughts, opinions, and plans years ago.
A connection is easy - and, often in the beginning of a relationship it's a facade or a trick. But, I can confirm that it's real between us. But, so what? Without Love or Understanding or Empathy, a connection ain't worth a damn.
Oh my God, the constant nagging and badgering and false accusations.... I know what it is: She REALLY believes she's a housewife. I think that's what a lot of housewives do. I'm serious. She really believes that she's my wife or fiance or something.
That's why she hasn't looked for a job in the last 5 years! She thinks I'm supposed to suffer and break my back while she sits at home on the couch, talking on the phone, and watching TV all day.
Don't get me wrong. I don't care if my wife didn't work or wanted to work or whatever. It would be totally up to her. But, I NEVER told her SHE was my damn wife. I don't know where she even got the idea from.
If she could manage a budget and run a household, I would be totally fine with this situation. But she can't. She's just a nagging, blood-sucking, worrisome, and intrusive... damn honey badger.
I can't do anything without her loud greedy ass wanting to distract me all the time with some b.s. or asking me a bunch of damn questions - or, telling me about somebody else's problems.
Lord, I keep praying that she would meet someone and just leave.
Unfortunately...
I'm trapped like hell in this dump. Since I'm buying this house, I can't escape like a thief in the night the way I did in my last relationship, so I'm stuck like damn chuck.
All my life, I've dreamed of have a sweet young tender sugar-mama... but, I ended up in a nightmare as a hoodrats sugar-daddy. What the hell going on Lord??? Damn! What the hell???
- loveqna
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