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How To Escape A Bad Relationship (Notes)

I've decided to leave this post "as is"... ------------------------ Sometimes bad situations change. Sometimes people change. So, I won't suggest that you leave your relationship. But, I'm not going to try to convince you stay either. If you're involved with a tyrant, you deserve better. If you're involved with a nagging-ass woman or nick-picking nagging-ass man, you deserve better. If your partner is abusive in ANY way, you should know that you deserve better. If you're involved with a compulsive liar who doesn't respect you or who disrespects you and your relationship, go A.W.O.L. Kick him or her to the curb. If you've thought hard about your situation and can't work things out with your partner, and decided that your best option is to leave the relationship, then here's what you can do... 1. Stack some cash. If you can't save any money for your escape, then you need some good friends who are willing to put up with ...

The Joy And Pain Of Being Single

It's been over 3 months since my Ex kicked me to the curb and I've enjoyed almost every day of my freedom. I've been celebrating like hell and drinking up a damn storm. Gin. Vodka. Wine. 24 ounce cans of beer... Up until the time I moved in with my roommate, I hadn't had a drink in at least 3 years - and only a few times within the last five. The first night I could afford a drink, I bought a big-ass forty ounce Miller High Life. I thought I could take that bad-boy down but it whipped my ass. I was drunk as a damn skunk before I finished that thing. I drunk half of it. The rest of it went to the bad. I fell asleep with bottle opened. I couldn't drink anything when I was with my Ex, although, I kept thinking about it. She's a "Christian Woman" so I didn't want to disrespect her house. Plus, I don't really like to drink unless I'm out dancing, so I kind of lost interest in alcohol. But, all of that is behind me now... Now, I can enjoy...

Eye Candy Denied: No Babes On The Night Shift

Now... For the record: I love where I work. And, I'm not saying that to protect myself just in case my boss reads my blog. She doesn't know about it. NO one at work knows about it. So, I'm keeping it real with you. I love that place. But, it DOES have its drawbacks. For about a year I had been working part time (and mostly on the weekends), but all of that has changed... Now, I'm working full time hours - 3rd shift - in a retail shop. The bad thing about that is: People don't shop at our store in the middle of the night, so it's quiet as hell. What's worse is, only a handful of GUYS work with me on 3rd shift - but, in different departments. We're all basically doing the same thing: restocking the store and cleaning up. Every man is in his own Zone racing AGAINST the clock and trying to spruce up the store before 5am. Time flies. And, That's Good. But, there are no attractive cutie-pies to look at or talk to all night. And, That's Bad. And, ou...

OMG! This girl is sooo hot!

Have you ever felt someone was "out of your league"? Let me tell you why you should never think that way... One of my homeboys (a co-worker actually) has a serious problem. He's suffering from "nice guy syndrome". He's TOO polite and FRIENDLY with women. The real problem is he doesn't realize it. He keeps meeting girls but he keeps having bad luck with them. They seem to think he's a good guy but they only see him as a friend - someone they can talk to. According to him, his latest prospect was playing games. She was giving him ALL the right signals and invitations but when he asked her out for a date, she told him she had a boyfriend. He was angry and broken-hearted. This keeps happening to that poor sap over and over again. He admitted it. I know it's true because it has happened at work too... We have some of the finest chicks that you'd ever want to see working with us. I'm talkin' "Dime Divas". Hotties. Tender...