hot chicks: they're simple girls looking for love too - notes

I was going to post notes on "being misunderstood because of shyness" but, somehow, I got side-tracked and ended up talking about "hot chicks" who are misunderstood because of their beauty. If I figure out what I was trying to say, I'll update this post later.

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If you lack confidence when meeting, dating, and/or socializing with "hot" and sexy prospects, it may be because you're putting them on too high of a pedestal.

I know some guys who'll take one look at a beautiful girl and immediately think she's out of their league.

And, the brave few who will attempt to approach this girl will often do so half-heartedly because they feel they're going to be rejected once she gets a good look at them.

They'd have a better chance if they would just simply relax and enjoy the moment.

In their minds, they've already predicted gloom and doom before they've even made a move.

Of course you're gonna be rejected if your weird-ass approaches a girl like you're freakin' Frankenstein's monster - mumbling and dragging your heels.

You've got to approach that babe with confidence.

Be cool about it. Give yourself a chance. Give her a chance.

many people think that hot chicks are conceited and focus only on their good looks but that's not always true. Some of those girls are sweet as pie.

even hot sexy chicks are shy and afraid of rejection.

hell, they have a hard time finding dates too

they are misunderstood all the time

people think all hot chicks are the same or have the same opinions of themselves - that all these fine babes out here are super-proud of their looks and use their beauty as a weapon to get whatever they want. But, average men and women do this as well. Hell, if the right fool comes along, ANYONE could milk him or her out of anything they wanted.

The truth is: SOME of these "hot chicks" don't realize how beautiful they are.

Some of them are self-conscious about how they look and consider themselves "average" - or even, BELOW average.

i see them come in the store all the time dressed like bums and looking sloppy as hell. they don't know they're being admired or swooned over by all of those eyeballs in there. they could care less about how they look. they aren't concerned with their appearance or impressing anyone. some of my Exes had similar attitudes.

many women - whether they're hot or not - want to be appreciated for what they are on the "inside". and for what they have to offer to another besides good looks.

you might think a lot of these sweet dumplings are cold-blooded but many of these hot chicks out here have a heart. they participate in fundraising, they fight for human rights, they are scientists and activists who want to make the world a better place for all people, and they are teachers.

I've seen mud-ducks who have worse attitudes than hot chicks.

No class whatsoever. And, arrogant as hell. It's disgusting.

Anyway...

every hot chick isn't looking to be a model or an actress or someone's trophy wife.

all of them don't want to be put on a pedestal and admired for their beauty. some of them don't care about beauty. some of these babes want the world to know that they're intelligent and goodhearted

the reality is: many of these hot chicks out here are lonely and feel inadequate in their lives without a true purpose in their lives or Love or the ability to make a difference in the world.

really, it's society and everyone else who's putting so much emphasis on how hot these chicks are because most of us love and appreciate beauty and eye-candy.

Hell, I know I'm guilty. I've dated all types of chicks but it took me a while to appreciate a chick for more than just her beauty.

we're the ones who are making these "average girls" live up to certain ideas and philosophies we have about "hot chicks" and how they should act, walk, and talk

so, of course many of them are concerned about their style and "fitting in" with their friends and peers or living up to the expectations of their parents, relatives, or to society.

but they're like everyone else...

some are crazy as hell

some are nerds

some like to act silly or goofy and make people laugh

some like to get dirty and build things, or fix things, or work in a garden

some of them are worried that they're not interesting enough

some hot chicks are introverts

some of them are socially clumsy and this makes them shy because they feel anxious about striking up a conversation or sharing their thoughts or opinions

all of them aren't stuck-up or uppity or self-centered or prissy

all of them aren't narcissistic

all of them aren't like these so-called "strong women" with attitudes and high opinions of themselves

quite a few of them are "down-to-earth" and they're looking for a nice "down-to-earth" prospect to date and get to know on a deeper level

some of them are begging and praying to find a sweet guy.

Why, this past year, I've seen some of the prettiest girls come into the store with some real gorillas. I mean these guys looked so beastly they could give Shrek or King Kong a run for their money.

I've seen short guys in there walking hand-in-hand with some fine tenderonies as well. So, don't be so quick to negatively judge these hot chicks. All of them are interested in guys based on their looks.

true, some of them are still picky as hell but most people are picky as hell too. So, you still just have to go for it if you're "feeling" her and want to get to know her on a deeper level.

sometimes, they let their friends influence them or guide them about who they should choose to date or what they should strive for in a mate - or, what their relationship goals and life goals should be

and this is what gives many hot chicks a bad reputation. many of them allow their friends or relatives to think for them instead of thinking for themselves

sometimes their friends or some "match-maker" will takeover and pick a prospect for them based on how much money the prospect has or how attractive the prospect is. this could leave you out in the cold if you don't make your move quickly

some hot chicks have no preference or concerns about dating a super-hot buff guy with major cash. she's looking for someone who's honest, respectful, kind, and sweet. all of them aren't superficial.

so your chances are just as good as anyone as long as you're not shy also - or overwhelmed by her looks

give the girl a chance. don't be so quick to judge or to think negative. find a way to approach her so that she knows you're interested and interesting.

don't sit back and let a scrub or a drunkard make a move before you do! that bum will ruin it for everybody! she'll think she's surrounded by losers and clam-up! or, even worse, she'll think that drunkard is funny and exciting and fall in love with him! or HER!

and, it could be days, weeks, months, or years, before that babe realizes her mistake! in the meantime, you're still single and lonely because you've let that opportunity walk right out of your life...

don't be afraid of rejection. you can't win them all but you can't win AT ALL if you don't play. it never hurts to ask. how else could you stand a chance of meeting her?

wouldn't it be funny if both of you were interested in each other but were too shy to approach? it's happened to me before. And, I've missed out on a good thing because of it. Don't let that happen to you.

- loveqna

50 Reasons Why Men (AND Women) Cheat

I won't lead you on. I'm not posting this list in this post so if you want to keep steppin', step on. I know you're probably busy.

But, if you have time to hang around, let me tell you right quick why I'm about to post this info...

Well, I mentioned that I would post something like this sooner or later. After all, it IS a blog about relationship drama. But, I have another reason too.

Yesterday, at work, I got deathly sick. I think I almost overdosed on energy drinks. I'm serious. I didn't eat anything all day except....

Well, I DID have a couple of sausage and egg biscuits for breakfast. Then, later that day - around 1AM - I had a muffin and some chips. I know: "I need to eat some "real" food. I'm a "junk-food" addict. I can't help it. I love my sweets and snacks. So, anyway...

I drank about three or four energy drinks within an 9 hour period. From the time I clocked-in for work at 9PM until about 3AM, I drank at least three "Monsters".

I was very jittery at first. Then I felt like I had to "earl" (throw-up). Then, I got weak because I tried to fight my way through it. And, I had gas like hell. I was walking around fartin' and pootin' everywhere. The only thing that came out was steam from the energy drinks.

I kept working but got really dizzy to the point of almost passing out.

I finished most of my work (with the help of two co-workers) but I couldn't ride home.

I had to close my eyes and rest in the breakroom for a while. I woke-up almost an hour later.

I felt better but not 100%.

To be honest - and I feel embarrassed to tell you this but - I didn't think I was going to make it home on my bike. I thought about calling my roommate or getting someone to take me home.

Now, that's some real sucker-ass sh*t. I ought to know better. I should've already bought a car by now so I could take myself home in case of emergencies like that.

Nevertheless, I hopped on my bike and was on my way.

Once I got going, I felt even better. I think I sweated some of that energy drink out.

After that episode, Today, I almost got hit four(?) (or five) times by people not paying attention while they were driving. I rode my bike to the mall to pick up a 16 gigabyte flash drive that was on sale and one guy almost hit me because he was turning right and STARING left as he turned out of the parking lot. He was busy yappin' with the lady in the car. And instead of checking the intersection before he drove out into it, he was already looking left before entered the intersection and just drove right out into the street.

Then, some fool cut me off at a right hand turn and almost hit me with his or her mirror. I couldn't see who or what was driving because the windows on the BMW were tinted. That REALLY doesn't make a difference anyway.

Then, I almost got ran down by a dude in a Cadillac who decided at the last minute that he didn't want to go straight anymore and made a left hand turn with no signal on. That S.O.B. turned right towards me while I coming through the intersection! I had to hit the brakes or else that jackass would've ran me down.

So, just in case I don't make it here one day, you'll have this information which will not only TELL you WHY men (and women) cheat, but it will help you use your experience and instincts to help some of your buddies and friends so that they can reduce their chances of being used, abused, dumped, and cheated on.

But, let me warn you upfront:

I don't always see cheating as the fault of the cheater because other factors (sometimes strange or abusive situations) can drive a man or woman to cheat.

But, from what I've seen, heard, and know, this is rare. So, I won't be defending cheaters. But, I want to let you know now that there are two sides to every story.

Two wrongs don't make a right, but desperate times call for desperate measures. That's how Some People see it.

Now, the list will be too long and detailed to put in one sitting.

I don't wanna make another long-ass post that will drag on and on. But, I don't want to leave out any details either.

I want you realize what I tell you is all true and HAS happened so that you don't think I'm just pulling bullsh*t-ass excuses from out of thin air.

And, you can ask some of your friends if they consider these things cheating or if they've experienced these situations or heard about them happening to anyone they know.

By all means, get a second or third opinion.

People cheat for many reasons. And, you'll probably hear of some reasons that I ain't never heard of or would even consider. But, the keys to recognizing the lies and secrets from the truth is just listening to clues, paying attention to the signs, observing the realities of the situation, and recalling experiences.

Use your Instinct. It'll be a big help. You'll see.

And, I'll also tell you why - even though women KNOW WHY men cheat (and vice versa) - I'll tell you WHY they keep letting it happen.

Well, let me get my sleep...

I have 2 hours and 45 minutes to get rested before I have to get on the road and make it to work.

Pray fuhmeh...

- loveqna

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