I was going to post notes on "being misunderstood because of shyness" but, somehow, I got side-tracked and ended up talking about "hot chicks" who are misunderstood because of their beauty. If I figure out what I was trying to say, I'll update this post later.
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If you lack confidence when meeting, dating, and/or socializing with "hot" and sexy prospects, it may be because you're putting them on too high of a pedestal.
I know some guys who'll take one look at a beautiful girl and immediately think she's out of their league.
And, the brave few who will attempt to approach this girl will often do so half-heartedly because they feel they're going to be rejected once she gets a good look at them.
They'd have a better chance if they would just simply relax and enjoy the moment.
In their minds, they've already predicted gloom and doom before they've even made a move.
Of course you're gonna be rejected if your weird-ass approaches a girl like you're freakin' Frankenstein's monster - mumbling and dragging your heels.
You've got to approach that babe with confidence.
Be cool about it. Give yourself a chance. Give her a chance.
many people think that hot chicks are conceited and focus only on their good looks but that's not always true. Some of those girls are sweet as pie.
even hot sexy chicks are shy and afraid of rejection.
hell, they have a hard time finding dates too
they are misunderstood all the time
people think all hot chicks are the same or have the same opinions of themselves - that all these fine babes out here are super-proud of their looks and use their beauty as a weapon to get whatever they want. But, average men and women do this as well. Hell, if the right fool comes along, ANYONE could milk him or her out of anything they wanted.
The truth is: SOME of these "hot chicks" don't realize how beautiful they are.
Some of them are self-conscious about how they look and consider themselves "average" - or even, BELOW average.
i see them come in the store all the time dressed like bums and looking sloppy as hell. they don't know they're being admired or swooned over by all of those eyeballs in there. they could care less about how they look. they aren't concerned with their appearance or impressing anyone. some of my Exes had similar attitudes.
many women - whether they're hot or not - want to be appreciated for what they are on the "inside". and for what they have to offer to another besides good looks.
you might think a lot of these sweet dumplings are cold-blooded but many of these hot chicks out here have a heart. they participate in fundraising, they fight for human rights, they are scientists and activists who want to make the world a better place for all people, and they are teachers.
I've seen mud-ducks who have worse attitudes than hot chicks.
No class whatsoever. And, arrogant as hell. It's disgusting.
Anyway...
every hot chick isn't looking to be a model or an actress or someone's trophy wife.
all of them don't want to be put on a pedestal and admired for their beauty. some of them don't care about beauty. some of these babes want the world to know that they're intelligent and goodhearted
the reality is: many of these hot chicks out here are lonely and feel inadequate in their lives without a true purpose in their lives or Love or the ability to make a difference in the world.
really, it's society and everyone else who's putting so much emphasis on how hot these chicks are because most of us love and appreciate beauty and eye-candy.
Hell, I know I'm guilty. I've dated all types of chicks but it took me a while to appreciate a chick for more than just her beauty.
we're the ones who are making these "average girls" live up to certain ideas and philosophies we have about "hot chicks" and how they should act, walk, and talk
so, of course many of them are concerned about their style and "fitting in" with their friends and peers or living up to the expectations of their parents, relatives, or to society.
but they're like everyone else...
some are crazy as hell
some are nerds
some like to act silly or goofy and make people laugh
some like to get dirty and build things, or fix things, or work in a garden
some of them are worried that they're not interesting enough
some hot chicks are introverts
some of them are socially clumsy and this makes them shy because they feel anxious about striking up a conversation or sharing their thoughts or opinions
all of them aren't stuck-up or uppity or self-centered or prissy
all of them aren't narcissistic
all of them aren't like these so-called "strong women" with attitudes and high opinions of themselves
quite a few of them are "down-to-earth" and they're looking for a nice "down-to-earth" prospect to date and get to know on a deeper level
some of them are begging and praying to find a sweet guy.
Why, this past year, I've seen some of the prettiest girls come into the store with some real gorillas. I mean these guys looked so beastly they could give Shrek or King Kong a run for their money.
I've seen short guys in there walking hand-in-hand with some fine tenderonies as well. So, don't be so quick to negatively judge these hot chicks. All of them are interested in guys based on their looks.
true, some of them are still picky as hell but most people are picky as hell too. So, you still just have to go for it if you're "feeling" her and want to get to know her on a deeper level.
sometimes, they let their friends influence them or guide them about who they should choose to date or what they should strive for in a mate - or, what their relationship goals and life goals should be
and this is what gives many hot chicks a bad reputation. many of them allow their friends or relatives to think for them instead of thinking for themselves
sometimes their friends or some "match-maker" will takeover and pick a prospect for them based on how much money the prospect has or how attractive the prospect is. this could leave you out in the cold if you don't make your move quickly
some hot chicks have no preference or concerns about dating a super-hot buff guy with major cash. she's looking for someone who's honest, respectful, kind, and sweet. all of them aren't superficial.
so your chances are just as good as anyone as long as you're not shy also - or overwhelmed by her looks
give the girl a chance. don't be so quick to judge or to think negative. find a way to approach her so that she knows you're interested and interesting.
don't sit back and let a scrub or a drunkard make a move before you do! that bum will ruin it for everybody! she'll think she's surrounded by losers and clam-up! or, even worse, she'll think that drunkard is funny and exciting and fall in love with him! or HER!
and, it could be days, weeks, months, or years, before that babe realizes her mistake! in the meantime, you're still single and lonely because you've let that opportunity walk right out of your life...
don't be afraid of rejection. you can't win them all but you can't win AT ALL if you don't play. it never hurts to ask. how else could you stand a chance of meeting her?
wouldn't it be funny if both of you were interested in each other but were too shy to approach? it's happened to me before. And, I've missed out on a good thing because of it. Don't let that happen to you.
- loveqna
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Short Men and Tall Women Relationships (video clips included)
Dwarf Man Weds Tall Girl
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It's surprising these days that you still hear so many guys discouraged about being short and not being able to find a good woman of quality.
Man, at work (and I'm full-time now) I see so many couples come in there where the woman is a few inches taller than the man that it's unbelievable!
I haven't seen any extreme differences but I have seen some guys waltz in there that stand no higher than their woman's chin. And, these ain't no "run-of-the-mill" babes that these bums are walking in there with. These are some fine-ass top-shelf A-Plus type of chicks!
Sunday, there was a guy in the store carrying a baby and when he and his wife came over to inquire about some merchandise we had on display, I know she stood at least a good two or three inches over his head. And, the chick looked like a model - long legs, long blonde hair, great body, cute face... And they had on their wedding bands, so I didn't check the man's woman out for too long.
Even at the Transit Center uptown I see quite a few short guys walking hand-in-hand with taller chicks.
And, speaking of uptown, when I'm cruising up and down those streets and seeing hundreds and hundreds of people, you know I'm bound to spot a few couples like that out of the crowd...
I don't think I've ever been amazed by this reality until now.
It had me so curious the other day, I thought I was missing out on some new trend or something and had to mention it to a friend who's opinion I got about men and women being too picky. I found out her baby-daddy is more than a few inches shorter than her. I said, "Damn!"
Was there any reason for this?
No. The guy is just cute and has a nice personality according to her.
At my last job, this little bastard had two hot (and I mean HOT) babes! He couldn't been no more than 4' 11" (152cm) if that. And they were both at least two inches taller than he was.
He was married to one and the other was one of the finest chicks working there! His wife had no ass but she had a face you could never get tired of looking at and a bosom you could melt right off to sleep in. Mmph!
And, his chick on the side was a little cutie-pie as well. If I hadn't been in a relationship with "Big Mouth", I sure as hell would've put my bid in on that little fox. Especially after he moved across the country.
Confidence: That's what it's all about.
Stop worrying about whether or not the girl or guy likes you or is going to like you or reject you. Relax. Have fun. Enjoy Life. "Life Is Good". Just strike up a conversation. If the conversation goes nowhere, so be it. If it does, so be it. Just enjoy the moment.
Let me ask you a question...
What do you think you bring to the table in a relationship? Are you a fun person to be around? Are you a deep thinker? Do you like to have a good time? Are you a good friend? Do you have interesting things to talk about? That's what most people are looking for. If you're honest, loyal, supportive, and dependable, that's the icing on the cake!
Consider your good qualities and show them when you're interacting with people. Don't put yourself down and worry about whether or not you'll be accepted or not. That's what destroys your confidence in the first place. And no one wants to be around someone who lacks confidence and who is afraid to have a good time.
I know a lot of you guys out there see these women on TV, and on the radio, and in these magazines talking about they don't like short guys and blah, blah, blah. The hell with that crap. Don't listen to those broads! Those media are only putting out what they want the world to see and what they want to influence people to believe.
Long-legged sexy women and shorty-studs are everywhere!
True, you're gonna be rejected by some women because of your height. Even these short "dwarf" women will reject you. Maybe some of those women have a "dwarf complex" themselves or want to impress their friends or "compete" with taller girls. Who knows why they might reject a guy who's more in line with their height... But, don't be discouraged by it. Keep on approaching those fine mamacitas no matter what size they are!
Don't turn your back those tall women either. Most of them definitely prefer taller men. Some of those tall women would prefer being shorter because many tall men are intimidated by them. These guys lose a bit of confidence and manliness because they really believe that their height is a major plus in life. And, a woman who's taller turns that plus into a minus and takes a notch out of their esteem. Those guys are trippin'! Only a few are brave enough to take on a whole lot of legs. Well, I can't say that for certain because now that I think about it, I DO see some tall guys in there with women just as tall as they are on a regular basis. But, still, there are some tall men out there who feel insecure when they run across a long-legged woman and they need to stop worrying about being shorter and hollah at those fine-ass Amazonian Babes.
Anyway...
It never hurts to start up a conversation. Whether the chick or guy is the same height - or taller or shorter, you have to make your move. You tall ladies can't stand around waiting either. You have to woman-up and quit being shy as well. Stop being so picky.
Why are you sweet sensuous babes so concerned about height anyway?
- Some women say it's because being with a taller guy makes them feel more like a woman
- Some say they prefer a taller guy because they like to be able to where high heel shoes and still look like a "normal" couple
- Some women look to a taller guy for "safety" reasons
- Some women prefer a taller guy because they want their children to be tall
- Some women like taller guys because their friends like taller guys
- Some say that taller guys look more manly and that's why they prefer them
We all have romantic preferences though.
Some chicks don't date guys who are more than several inches taller because they feel it looks awkward and that kissing guys who are too tall is awkward.
Some guys don't date women who are short because of similar reasons. Or, because the woman looks like a child standing next to them.
What's wrong with everybody? If you're compatible with the person on deeper levels, or even on a friendly level, at least have a conversation with that person to see what he or she may have to offer. Don't sit and wait and wait and wait on a man or woman who is "perfect", then hook-up with that person only to end up in a relationship full of drama!
The World is a screwy place about size and height but it's like that for a reason and all we can do is accept it and deal with whatever is thrown our way in the game of Love.
But, I don't think this has anything to do with "sexual selection". At least not all the time. I believe many people have a "god complex" where they're amazed by (and praise) things that are big or that seem a lot more powerful than they are. Or, they have a "dwarf complex" where they have to prove that they're just as capable or can compete at least with average size or taller people.
Get over it. Just be You. Don't worry about all of this size nonsense. What can't you do now that you would be able to if you were taller or shorter?
You know my philosophy: If you're attracted to the guy or girl, go for it. Get to know the one you're interested in because you never know how great things could work out.
- loveqna
World's Tallest Married Couple
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It's surprising these days that you still hear so many guys discouraged about being short and not being able to find a good woman of quality.
Man, at work (and I'm full-time now) I see so many couples come in there where the woman is a few inches taller than the man that it's unbelievable!
I haven't seen any extreme differences but I have seen some guys waltz in there that stand no higher than their woman's chin. And, these ain't no "run-of-the-mill" babes that these bums are walking in there with. These are some fine-ass top-shelf A-Plus type of chicks!
Sunday, there was a guy in the store carrying a baby and when he and his wife came over to inquire about some merchandise we had on display, I know she stood at least a good two or three inches over his head. And, the chick looked like a model - long legs, long blonde hair, great body, cute face... And they had on their wedding bands, so I didn't check the man's woman out for too long.
Even at the Transit Center uptown I see quite a few short guys walking hand-in-hand with taller chicks.
And, speaking of uptown, when I'm cruising up and down those streets and seeing hundreds and hundreds of people, you know I'm bound to spot a few couples like that out of the crowd...
I don't think I've ever been amazed by this reality until now.
It had me so curious the other day, I thought I was missing out on some new trend or something and had to mention it to a friend who's opinion I got about men and women being too picky. I found out her baby-daddy is more than a few inches shorter than her. I said, "Damn!"
Was there any reason for this?
No. The guy is just cute and has a nice personality according to her.
At my last job, this little bastard had two hot (and I mean HOT) babes! He couldn't been no more than 4' 11" (152cm) if that. And they were both at least two inches taller than he was.
He was married to one and the other was one of the finest chicks working there! His wife had no ass but she had a face you could never get tired of looking at and a bosom you could melt right off to sleep in. Mmph!
And, his chick on the side was a little cutie-pie as well. If I hadn't been in a relationship with "Big Mouth", I sure as hell would've put my bid in on that little fox. Especially after he moved across the country.
Confidence: That's what it's all about.
Stop worrying about whether or not the girl or guy likes you or is going to like you or reject you. Relax. Have fun. Enjoy Life. "Life Is Good". Just strike up a conversation. If the conversation goes nowhere, so be it. If it does, so be it. Just enjoy the moment.
Let me ask you a question...
What do you think you bring to the table in a relationship? Are you a fun person to be around? Are you a deep thinker? Do you like to have a good time? Are you a good friend? Do you have interesting things to talk about? That's what most people are looking for. If you're honest, loyal, supportive, and dependable, that's the icing on the cake!
Consider your good qualities and show them when you're interacting with people. Don't put yourself down and worry about whether or not you'll be accepted or not. That's what destroys your confidence in the first place. And no one wants to be around someone who lacks confidence and who is afraid to have a good time.
I know a lot of you guys out there see these women on TV, and on the radio, and in these magazines talking about they don't like short guys and blah, blah, blah. The hell with that crap. Don't listen to those broads! Those media are only putting out what they want the world to see and what they want to influence people to believe.
Long-legged sexy women and shorty-studs are everywhere!
True, you're gonna be rejected by some women because of your height. Even these short "dwarf" women will reject you. Maybe some of those women have a "dwarf complex" themselves or want to impress their friends or "compete" with taller girls. Who knows why they might reject a guy who's more in line with their height... But, don't be discouraged by it. Keep on approaching those fine mamacitas no matter what size they are!
Don't turn your back those tall women either. Most of them definitely prefer taller men. Some of those tall women would prefer being shorter because many tall men are intimidated by them. These guys lose a bit of confidence and manliness because they really believe that their height is a major plus in life. And, a woman who's taller turns that plus into a minus and takes a notch out of their esteem. Those guys are trippin'! Only a few are brave enough to take on a whole lot of legs. Well, I can't say that for certain because now that I think about it, I DO see some tall guys in there with women just as tall as they are on a regular basis. But, still, there are some tall men out there who feel insecure when they run across a long-legged woman and they need to stop worrying about being shorter and hollah at those fine-ass Amazonian Babes.
Anyway...
It never hurts to start up a conversation. Whether the chick or guy is the same height - or taller or shorter, you have to make your move. You tall ladies can't stand around waiting either. You have to woman-up and quit being shy as well. Stop being so picky.
Why are you sweet sensuous babes so concerned about height anyway?
- Some women say it's because being with a taller guy makes them feel more like a woman
- Some say they prefer a taller guy because they like to be able to where high heel shoes and still look like a "normal" couple
- Some women look to a taller guy for "safety" reasons
- Some women prefer a taller guy because they want their children to be tall
- Some women like taller guys because their friends like taller guys
- Some say that taller guys look more manly and that's why they prefer them
We all have romantic preferences though.
Some chicks don't date guys who are more than several inches taller because they feel it looks awkward and that kissing guys who are too tall is awkward.
Some guys don't date women who are short because of similar reasons. Or, because the woman looks like a child standing next to them.
What's wrong with everybody? If you're compatible with the person on deeper levels, or even on a friendly level, at least have a conversation with that person to see what he or she may have to offer. Don't sit and wait and wait and wait on a man or woman who is "perfect", then hook-up with that person only to end up in a relationship full of drama!
The World is a screwy place about size and height but it's like that for a reason and all we can do is accept it and deal with whatever is thrown our way in the game of Love.
But, I don't think this has anything to do with "sexual selection". At least not all the time. I believe many people have a "god complex" where they're amazed by (and praise) things that are big or that seem a lot more powerful than they are. Or, they have a "dwarf complex" where they have to prove that they're just as capable or can compete at least with average size or taller people.
Get over it. Just be You. Don't worry about all of this size nonsense. What can't you do now that you would be able to if you were taller or shorter?
You know my philosophy: If you're attracted to the guy or girl, go for it. Get to know the one you're interested in because you never know how great things could work out.
- loveqna
World's Tallest Married Couple
Video provided by - MOXNEWSd0tCOM
Sometimes, A Break-Up Is A Good Thing
Breaking-up is hard to do, but it's often not the end of the world.
I AM lonely without a woman. It would be nice to have a sexy "sweet potato pie" to be smoochin' with right now. Or, at least someone of my own to admire, flirt with, and fantasize about.
Yeah, I guess I AM thinking of my old "battle-axe" ex-girlfriend right now. Mmmmph! Those sexy legs and pretty feet. The way she walks. And, she loves walking around in her panties and a t-shirt. Damn, that used to turn me on.
Good gracious...
And she's a little "freaky-deaky" too. A real wildcat (if you know what I mean).
Oh, Let me stop.
I don't miss that broad THAT much.
I'll take this big plush-ass bedroom, this big bed, my walk-in closet, and my full-size bathroom, over that loud-mouth witch ANY day.
I thought I'd be struggling - desperately trying to make ends meet without that broad in my life, but here I am in peaceful surroundings with more than six hundred bucks in the bank and my stock investments (which have almost doubled) blowing up like damn nitro.
I'm riding a bike to work but at least I don't have to ask anyone for a ride or wait on the bus...
I can talk to other chicks and give out my phone number (to female friends/co-workers) and not feel guilty or worry about it...
And, you know what the BEST part about all of this is?
NO DARK CLOUDS HANGING OVER MY HEAD.
That's right, ain't no dark clouds hangin' over My head.
I'm not angry anymore when I'm "Home".
I'm not irritated.
I'm not grouchy or grumpy when I'm here.
I don't have to listen to anybody screamin' and fussin' and complaining about anything.
I don't have to hear any stupid-ass sarcastic remarks and name-calling.
Ain't nobody trying to tear me down and bring down my self-esteem either. lol - which, that poor dizzy broad couldn't do it anyway. lol. She'd get angry because she could never say anything to break me down: "You got a smart answer for everything."
Damn right.
I could care less about the negative sh*t people like that say about me. Any ovem can kiss my ass. I don't care about their opinions, their outlook on Life and people, or what they think or believe or any of that sh*t.
I may hear some of the stuff those haters and hypocrits say, but usually, my mind is someone else, because I really don't care. I just keep it movin'.
And, now that I'm moved out, I done moved on, and I'm movin' up.
That's the way to do it, baby...
If you're in a bad relationship or a relationship that's NOT going in a positive direction, don't stress yourself out and worry about that bull-sh*t.
Let that sh*t GO.
Life is full of good days and bad days, but better days are always coming, and you got to grab a hold of them when you can.
Sometimes a break-up is THE Opportunity for you to enjoy the best in life or at least, better things in life.
It's an Opportunity for you to clear your Mind - and LIFE - of all the "Clutter" and "MESS" that's holding you down and keeping you from focusing and moving ahead.
Sometimes you need a Break away from all the madness so that you can evaluate your life and get on the proper course to getting what you REALLY want.
I'm Single, BUT, I'm "getting myself together".
With the experience I've gained and the improvements I'm making in my finances and "inner Self" (as far as being more peaceful and less stressed), when my NEXT relationship rolls around, I'll ready for it. I'll be able to put more into it and I'll be able to enjoy it more.
I wasn't ready for all of that Madness. I couldn't deal with such a fiery woman. I could "tune her out", but I couldn't keep her ass from raging.
That wench was stark raving mad...
If you're EVER in that position, take you a break. You probably need one and don't even know it.
I hear "fruit-cakes" and religious folks all the time say "Everything happens for a reason."
Hell, I don't know WHAT The Reason is...
But, I know I'm gonna enjoy this Blessing while I can...
And, if you should happen to get YOURS, (your Blessing)...
Don't let it pass you by.
You'd better Jump on it and ride it 'til the wheels fall off.
- loveqna
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FREE MAN IN THE MORNING
From a movie called "A Face In The Crowd"
I don't know if this movie is any good or not, but I found a clip from it that explains how I feel about my previous relationship...
Video provided by - mrdumpcrap
- loveqna
I AM lonely without a woman. It would be nice to have a sexy "sweet potato pie" to be smoochin' with right now. Or, at least someone of my own to admire, flirt with, and fantasize about.
Yeah, I guess I AM thinking of my old "battle-axe" ex-girlfriend right now. Mmmmph! Those sexy legs and pretty feet. The way she walks. And, she loves walking around in her panties and a t-shirt. Damn, that used to turn me on.
Good gracious...
And she's a little "freaky-deaky" too. A real wildcat (if you know what I mean).
Oh, Let me stop.
I don't miss that broad THAT much.
I'll take this big plush-ass bedroom, this big bed, my walk-in closet, and my full-size bathroom, over that loud-mouth witch ANY day.
I thought I'd be struggling - desperately trying to make ends meet without that broad in my life, but here I am in peaceful surroundings with more than six hundred bucks in the bank and my stock investments (which have almost doubled) blowing up like damn nitro.
I'm riding a bike to work but at least I don't have to ask anyone for a ride or wait on the bus...
I can talk to other chicks and give out my phone number (to female friends/co-workers) and not feel guilty or worry about it...
And, you know what the BEST part about all of this is?
NO DARK CLOUDS HANGING OVER MY HEAD.
That's right, ain't no dark clouds hangin' over My head.
I'm not angry anymore when I'm "Home".
I'm not irritated.
I'm not grouchy or grumpy when I'm here.
I don't have to listen to anybody screamin' and fussin' and complaining about anything.
I don't have to hear any stupid-ass sarcastic remarks and name-calling.
Ain't nobody trying to tear me down and bring down my self-esteem either. lol - which, that poor dizzy broad couldn't do it anyway. lol. She'd get angry because she could never say anything to break me down: "You got a smart answer for everything."
Damn right.
I could care less about the negative sh*t people like that say about me. Any ovem can kiss my ass. I don't care about their opinions, their outlook on Life and people, or what they think or believe or any of that sh*t.
I may hear some of the stuff those haters and hypocrits say, but usually, my mind is someone else, because I really don't care. I just keep it movin'.
And, now that I'm moved out, I done moved on, and I'm movin' up.
That's the way to do it, baby...
If you're in a bad relationship or a relationship that's NOT going in a positive direction, don't stress yourself out and worry about that bull-sh*t.
Let that sh*t GO.
Life is full of good days and bad days, but better days are always coming, and you got to grab a hold of them when you can.
Sometimes a break-up is THE Opportunity for you to enjoy the best in life or at least, better things in life.
It's an Opportunity for you to clear your Mind - and LIFE - of all the "Clutter" and "MESS" that's holding you down and keeping you from focusing and moving ahead.
Sometimes you need a Break away from all the madness so that you can evaluate your life and get on the proper course to getting what you REALLY want.
I'm Single, BUT, I'm "getting myself together".
With the experience I've gained and the improvements I'm making in my finances and "inner Self" (as far as being more peaceful and less stressed), when my NEXT relationship rolls around, I'll ready for it. I'll be able to put more into it and I'll be able to enjoy it more.
I wasn't ready for all of that Madness. I couldn't deal with such a fiery woman. I could "tune her out", but I couldn't keep her ass from raging.
That wench was stark raving mad...
If you're EVER in that position, take you a break. You probably need one and don't even know it.
I hear "fruit-cakes" and religious folks all the time say "Everything happens for a reason."
Hell, I don't know WHAT The Reason is...
But, I know I'm gonna enjoy this Blessing while I can...
And, if you should happen to get YOURS, (your Blessing)...
Don't let it pass you by.
You'd better Jump on it and ride it 'til the wheels fall off.
- loveqna
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FREE MAN IN THE MORNING
From a movie called "A Face In The Crowd"
I don't know if this movie is any good or not, but I found a clip from it that explains how I feel about my previous relationship...
Video provided by - mrdumpcrap
- loveqna
Sex Restrictions Create Global Turmoil
Now... What couples do behind closed doors is their business. But I was mad as hell when I found out that there were so many men and women out there suffering from lack of affection and sexual experiences with their mates.
Let me tell you the reason why it pisses me off... And, I'm sure it will piss you off too once you realize what's been going on and how it affects you.
Think about this... And, I'm 100% sure you'll agree.
To many people, sex is a very important "benefit" in a relationship. Not only does it do your body good, it's also one of the best ways to connect with your partner.
Good Loving helps you get to know More about each other and helps you express your deeper emotions.
It's the deepest form of communication between the mind, body, and spirit of two people - if used properly and with good intentions.
Think about it...
Most of the time, after a good romp or during a romantic interlude, couples are cool, calm, "in the zone", relaxed, and can talk about almost anything - if they don't fall asleep first. So, it's also theraputic.
If there's a deep connection, they might even lay around the house or in bed for hours and hours bonding and it's almost like the first time they ever made love.
It's powerful stuff! And good for the spirit!
Affection and Intimacy helps us develop strong bonds (emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and socially) with the person we love and care about. That's what it's for! It helps to make the love last.
But, when one of those partners aren't getting good love at home or feel stuck in a stagnant relationship with no physical loving communication (affection) and "spiritual love", they can take their frustrations out on the World.
Woe to the people that have to deal with the poor attitudes of those sad people who are stuck in a sexless uninspiring relationship. Those poor devils go to work angry, grumpy, in a daze, moping around, making irrational decisions, or depressed all the time - their minds often distracted by the drama at home. Sometimes you can't even get good service out of them because they lack drive and interest in things outside of the issues of their relationship. they're frustrated and stressed out!
It can even cause poor social relationships between them and the people around them, such as: their children, family members, friends, co-workers, etc. Look at those poor pitiful mean-spirited folks who creep around the Net flaming people - angry and pessimistic. They spend so much time on the Net because they have no love (or sex) in their lives. Those poor lonely scoundrels have nothing to do except make it their mission to attack almost everything in sight.
Haters are the worst because they're so lonely, jealous, envious, and bored with their lives and love life that they have to be devious and instigate trouble just to occupy their time and take their minds off of how bad their lives suck.
And that's the whole point. When the love and loving between two people is not up to par, MANY people suffer - not just one or two. Maybe even an entire Nation! Look at how much drama some of these politicians with their scandalous behavior have caused...
Do you think the World would be so full of trouble and drama if there was more love in it? Of course not! We'd find things to argue or war about, but I doubt things would be this bad.
Let me tell you how this drama affected me recently...
The other day at work, I called customer service about 5 or 6 times (sometimes dialing the number 3 times in succession), and every time I called, no one would pick up the phone. I knew someone was there because the phones have to be manned (or wo-manned) just in case any customers called in for product availability, service questions, billing, or directions. At one point, I called the manager on duty and asked him to go back there and take a look to see what was up - if they were really busy or what - and that jackass responded with: "Call them. There should be someone in there." I said, "I know there should be someone in there. I'm calling and no one is picking up." That fool said, "Just keep trying, okay." And hung up. Lazy-ass jerk.
This guy once talked to me about his marital problems too. I think his kids are the main source of his grief. Anyway...
I got a customer who had a million questions and wanted to place an order to have some product delivered to her home. I had customers piling up. I tried once more to call customer service. I got no answer and had to walk the lady from one end of the building to the other and get back to the other customers in my department. And you know how people (customers) hate to wait around for service. Too bad. I proceeded to walked her to customer service while she yapped on and on about how we should have the product in the store and how she would prefer having it delivered to the store instead of her home and yadda yadda...
When I walked up, I didn't see anyone. So, I took a peek in the back office and was amazed to see this goofy broad on her cellphone with one of her friends talking about the drama she was dealing with in her relationship and some guy who was lying to her, and how she shouldn't have to put up with... Something. I don't know. While I tried to get her attention, I could hear the phone ringing, and she was still just yappin' away like she didn't give a sh*t. After, a few seconds of me standing there, she told the person on the other end that she would call them back. If I was a supervisor, relationship drama or no relationship drama, her ass would've been fired on the spot. I would've gave that chick her pink-slip so fast, it would made her head spin: "Here's your pink-slip trick! Now, Take it and get the hell outta here." On the phone whining like a baby.
I was mad as hell. Inside I was about to explode. I was too busy to be taking all of those repeat calls and running up and down the building when she could've just answered the phone - which was Her job. But, I bit my tongue and held in my frustrations to keep the peace. It was painful.
Now, I don't know if they're NOT having sex - Probably not enough for her. BUT! I KNOW this relationship drama is affecting the quality and efficiency of work and service this girl is supposed to provide. Hence, the saying, "Leave your 'drama at home' AT home, and your 'work' AT work." Whatever. She was interrupting my flow.
Now, don't get me wrong, I feel bad for the girl, but I don't need any work-related drama. I have enough drama at home. And, I don't need customers complaining to me about being left on hold and having to call back, or irate customers on my ass about the service SHE'S supposed to provide. It's bad enough the company slices and dices the schedule and expects one person to do the work of three.
And, this is probably happening almost everywhere you go. You may not see it all the time, but SOMEBODY somewhere is getting the short end of the stick because of these people and their drama.
Have you ever been to a shop or venue to spend your hard-earned money and some poor sap is in a bad mood and providing you with low-class service like you're interrupting them while they're at work trying to chill? 80% of the time it's because their love-life sucks or their supervisor's love-life suck, or their supervisor's boss is in a relationship that sucks.
And that sh*t just rolls down hill and makes everyone's life miserable.
People who have good relationships are often in a good mood and spread the love wherever they go. They're happy to be in love and to BE loved.
Bad relationships = No sex = Poor attitudes = Poor productivity and poor service.
Get away from that drama and find someone who cares and who wants to love you the way you deserve to be loved!
If there were more people involved in good loving meaningful relationships, the World would be an Excellent Place. We'd have great service and positive social relationships coming out of the "ying-yang"! I'm sure of it.
So, what can we do about it???
I know some people have health issues that prevent them from making love or having sex, and that's too bad. There's not much you can do if the person is deathly ill.
But, if they aren't, there are OTHER things they can do to express their love. There are other ways to be intimate and sexually expressive. They just have to be willing to go the extra mile. It's for the good of their relationship and for the good of Mankind - and Womankind.
Maybe I'm crazy for thinking about this, but I'm dead serious.
I didn't realize that so much of this was going on until I saw so many hot chicks (and suave brothers) out there on the Net asking questions like:
How can i get my husband interested in having sex with me?
What can i do if my wife is unromantic and uninterested in having sex with me?
What does my boyfriend have a lack of interest in sex?
Should I leave my marriage because my wife has a lack of interest in sex?
These questions made me reflect on one of my former supervisors who had been married for 10 years or so. One day he told me that he hadn't had sex with his wife in almost a year. The guy took off his glasses and stared blank right into my eyes. Then he said:
"I don't understand it. She won't even let me touch her. She treats me like I'm some stranger."
Could you blame her? She was hot and he had no style. He dressed like a school teacher from the 70s who was trying to dress like a businessman from 70s. He was also bossy and arrogant.
And, all the guy talked about was sex and what he was going to do to his wife when he got home. She was probably tired of being his sex-toy and in pain from being mashed and tenderized by the extra sixty or so pounds he had put on.
I didn't say anything, but I realized: not only was this guy NOT getting any loving, but he had been lying for almost a year about what he was going home to do to his wife. Or, maybe he just had his hopes up.
Anyway...
They ended up going into counseling with their pastor and things got better.
You could really tell a difference in his attitude the first few months after they went in. He was a lot happier. She seemed a little happier too. Hell, we were all a lot happier.
When he wasn't getting any loving, he was strict as hell - sometimes for no reason. It just seemed as if he wanted to be a tyrant and go strictly by the book with everything. Even if no customers were present, and the place was spotless, he was on our ass to do SOMETHING.
"Count those cups and give me a total."
"Walk the building and let me know if any lights are out."
"If you got time to lean, you got time to clean."
The employees couldn't even talk to each other without him coming over to see what we were talking about. And, if it wasn't work-related, he found something for us to do. That dude sucked.
I had another supervisor - a store manager - who seemed to have a good marriage but he was ALWAYS at work or "passing through", so we always had to be on our toes just in case he'd pop-up to check the store out. His assistant managers would get excited and have us running around doing all kinds of extra sh*t just to make it look like we were very busy and not standing around. You know how it is when the supervisors expect the Big Boss to show up - it's a damn "dog and pony show".
One of the assistant managers he hung out with told me that this guy would cruise some of the "unpopular" neighborhoods looking for hookers and tell his wife he was working late. He wasn't a bad guy. But, you could tell he was a sex-addict. It was on his mind all the time. If he wasn't telling a sexual joke, he was talking about girls with "bubble butts" giving him a blowjob.
Plus, his wife was always calling, so that tells you that something wasn't right between those two. She didn't even seem to have her own life, and he seemed to hate having to take her calls.
I liked the guy. I just wished he would've stayed home more often.
To this day, I don't know what the main issue was with any of those people, but can you imagine living like that?
Having a hot wife you can't touch or a husband who would rather be at work than at home?
You KNOW situations like that are causing drama! And, it's making it hard on people who love life like me and you!
There's no doubt about it! Somebody somewhere is getting the short end of the stick!
These people out here need counseling. Some of them need to swallow their pride and recharge their love-life. Some of them need to get out of these dead-end relationships and find someone new - before the whole world goes to hell in a hand-basket.
- loveqna
Let me tell you the reason why it pisses me off... And, I'm sure it will piss you off too once you realize what's been going on and how it affects you.
Think about this... And, I'm 100% sure you'll agree.
To many people, sex is a very important "benefit" in a relationship. Not only does it do your body good, it's also one of the best ways to connect with your partner.
Good Loving helps you get to know More about each other and helps you express your deeper emotions.
It's the deepest form of communication between the mind, body, and spirit of two people - if used properly and with good intentions.
Think about it...
Most of the time, after a good romp or during a romantic interlude, couples are cool, calm, "in the zone", relaxed, and can talk about almost anything - if they don't fall asleep first. So, it's also theraputic.
If there's a deep connection, they might even lay around the house or in bed for hours and hours bonding and it's almost like the first time they ever made love.
It's powerful stuff! And good for the spirit!
Affection and Intimacy helps us develop strong bonds (emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and socially) with the person we love and care about. That's what it's for! It helps to make the love last.
But, when one of those partners aren't getting good love at home or feel stuck in a stagnant relationship with no physical loving communication (affection) and "spiritual love", they can take their frustrations out on the World.
Woe to the people that have to deal with the poor attitudes of those sad people who are stuck in a sexless uninspiring relationship. Those poor devils go to work angry, grumpy, in a daze, moping around, making irrational decisions, or depressed all the time - their minds often distracted by the drama at home. Sometimes you can't even get good service out of them because they lack drive and interest in things outside of the issues of their relationship. they're frustrated and stressed out!
It can even cause poor social relationships between them and the people around them, such as: their children, family members, friends, co-workers, etc. Look at those poor pitiful mean-spirited folks who creep around the Net flaming people - angry and pessimistic. They spend so much time on the Net because they have no love (or sex) in their lives. Those poor lonely scoundrels have nothing to do except make it their mission to attack almost everything in sight.
Haters are the worst because they're so lonely, jealous, envious, and bored with their lives and love life that they have to be devious and instigate trouble just to occupy their time and take their minds off of how bad their lives suck.
And that's the whole point. When the love and loving between two people is not up to par, MANY people suffer - not just one or two. Maybe even an entire Nation! Look at how much drama some of these politicians with their scandalous behavior have caused...
Do you think the World would be so full of trouble and drama if there was more love in it? Of course not! We'd find things to argue or war about, but I doubt things would be this bad.
Let me tell you how this drama affected me recently...
The other day at work, I called customer service about 5 or 6 times (sometimes dialing the number 3 times in succession), and every time I called, no one would pick up the phone. I knew someone was there because the phones have to be manned (or wo-manned) just in case any customers called in for product availability, service questions, billing, or directions. At one point, I called the manager on duty and asked him to go back there and take a look to see what was up - if they were really busy or what - and that jackass responded with: "Call them. There should be someone in there." I said, "I know there should be someone in there. I'm calling and no one is picking up." That fool said, "Just keep trying, okay." And hung up. Lazy-ass jerk.
This guy once talked to me about his marital problems too. I think his kids are the main source of his grief. Anyway...
I got a customer who had a million questions and wanted to place an order to have some product delivered to her home. I had customers piling up. I tried once more to call customer service. I got no answer and had to walk the lady from one end of the building to the other and get back to the other customers in my department. And you know how people (customers) hate to wait around for service. Too bad. I proceeded to walked her to customer service while she yapped on and on about how we should have the product in the store and how she would prefer having it delivered to the store instead of her home and yadda yadda...
When I walked up, I didn't see anyone. So, I took a peek in the back office and was amazed to see this goofy broad on her cellphone with one of her friends talking about the drama she was dealing with in her relationship and some guy who was lying to her, and how she shouldn't have to put up with... Something. I don't know. While I tried to get her attention, I could hear the phone ringing, and she was still just yappin' away like she didn't give a sh*t. After, a few seconds of me standing there, she told the person on the other end that she would call them back. If I was a supervisor, relationship drama or no relationship drama, her ass would've been fired on the spot. I would've gave that chick her pink-slip so fast, it would made her head spin: "Here's your pink-slip trick! Now, Take it and get the hell outta here." On the phone whining like a baby.
I was mad as hell. Inside I was about to explode. I was too busy to be taking all of those repeat calls and running up and down the building when she could've just answered the phone - which was Her job. But, I bit my tongue and held in my frustrations to keep the peace. It was painful.
Now, I don't know if they're NOT having sex - Probably not enough for her. BUT! I KNOW this relationship drama is affecting the quality and efficiency of work and service this girl is supposed to provide. Hence, the saying, "Leave your 'drama at home' AT home, and your 'work' AT work." Whatever. She was interrupting my flow.
Now, don't get me wrong, I feel bad for the girl, but I don't need any work-related drama. I have enough drama at home. And, I don't need customers complaining to me about being left on hold and having to call back, or irate customers on my ass about the service SHE'S supposed to provide. It's bad enough the company slices and dices the schedule and expects one person to do the work of three.
And, this is probably happening almost everywhere you go. You may not see it all the time, but SOMEBODY somewhere is getting the short end of the stick because of these people and their drama.
Have you ever been to a shop or venue to spend your hard-earned money and some poor sap is in a bad mood and providing you with low-class service like you're interrupting them while they're at work trying to chill? 80% of the time it's because their love-life sucks or their supervisor's love-life suck, or their supervisor's boss is in a relationship that sucks.
And that sh*t just rolls down hill and makes everyone's life miserable.
People who have good relationships are often in a good mood and spread the love wherever they go. They're happy to be in love and to BE loved.
Bad relationships = No sex = Poor attitudes = Poor productivity and poor service.
Get away from that drama and find someone who cares and who wants to love you the way you deserve to be loved!
If there were more people involved in good loving meaningful relationships, the World would be an Excellent Place. We'd have great service and positive social relationships coming out of the "ying-yang"! I'm sure of it.
So, what can we do about it???
I know some people have health issues that prevent them from making love or having sex, and that's too bad. There's not much you can do if the person is deathly ill.
But, if they aren't, there are OTHER things they can do to express their love. There are other ways to be intimate and sexually expressive. They just have to be willing to go the extra mile. It's for the good of their relationship and for the good of Mankind - and Womankind.
Maybe I'm crazy for thinking about this, but I'm dead serious.
I didn't realize that so much of this was going on until I saw so many hot chicks (and suave brothers) out there on the Net asking questions like:
How can i get my husband interested in having sex with me?
What can i do if my wife is unromantic and uninterested in having sex with me?
What does my boyfriend have a lack of interest in sex?
Should I leave my marriage because my wife has a lack of interest in sex?
These questions made me reflect on one of my former supervisors who had been married for 10 years or so. One day he told me that he hadn't had sex with his wife in almost a year. The guy took off his glasses and stared blank right into my eyes. Then he said:
"I don't understand it. She won't even let me touch her. She treats me like I'm some stranger."
Could you blame her? She was hot and he had no style. He dressed like a school teacher from the 70s who was trying to dress like a businessman from 70s. He was also bossy and arrogant.
And, all the guy talked about was sex and what he was going to do to his wife when he got home. She was probably tired of being his sex-toy and in pain from being mashed and tenderized by the extra sixty or so pounds he had put on.
I didn't say anything, but I realized: not only was this guy NOT getting any loving, but he had been lying for almost a year about what he was going home to do to his wife. Or, maybe he just had his hopes up.
Anyway...
They ended up going into counseling with their pastor and things got better.
You could really tell a difference in his attitude the first few months after they went in. He was a lot happier. She seemed a little happier too. Hell, we were all a lot happier.
When he wasn't getting any loving, he was strict as hell - sometimes for no reason. It just seemed as if he wanted to be a tyrant and go strictly by the book with everything. Even if no customers were present, and the place was spotless, he was on our ass to do SOMETHING.
"Count those cups and give me a total."
"Walk the building and let me know if any lights are out."
"If you got time to lean, you got time to clean."
The employees couldn't even talk to each other without him coming over to see what we were talking about. And, if it wasn't work-related, he found something for us to do. That dude sucked.
I had another supervisor - a store manager - who seemed to have a good marriage but he was ALWAYS at work or "passing through", so we always had to be on our toes just in case he'd pop-up to check the store out. His assistant managers would get excited and have us running around doing all kinds of extra sh*t just to make it look like we were very busy and not standing around. You know how it is when the supervisors expect the Big Boss to show up - it's a damn "dog and pony show".
One of the assistant managers he hung out with told me that this guy would cruise some of the "unpopular" neighborhoods looking for hookers and tell his wife he was working late. He wasn't a bad guy. But, you could tell he was a sex-addict. It was on his mind all the time. If he wasn't telling a sexual joke, he was talking about girls with "bubble butts" giving him a blowjob.
Plus, his wife was always calling, so that tells you that something wasn't right between those two. She didn't even seem to have her own life, and he seemed to hate having to take her calls.
I liked the guy. I just wished he would've stayed home more often.
To this day, I don't know what the main issue was with any of those people, but can you imagine living like that?
Having a hot wife you can't touch or a husband who would rather be at work than at home?
You KNOW situations like that are causing drama! And, it's making it hard on people who love life like me and you!
There's no doubt about it! Somebody somewhere is getting the short end of the stick!
These people out here need counseling. Some of them need to swallow their pride and recharge their love-life. Some of them need to get out of these dead-end relationships and find someone new - before the whole world goes to hell in a hand-basket.
- loveqna
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This ain't "Dancing With The Stars". It's "dirty dancing" gone wild!
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Why Guys Continue To Pursue A Girl (Woman) Even After She Rejects Them
I remember a time when I really wanted to date this chick (only because she was cute and had a BIG LUSCIOUS PERFECT BOOTY) I couldn't keep my eyes off of it! And no matter what I said or promised, she continued to reject me. i couldn't even get a date with this girl. I wasn't a borderline stalker or anything. She was part of our little clique and I would only approach her when we were hanging out or over at one of our friend's house at a party or cook-out or something. Every once and a while we talked on the phone - mostly "business".
We'd always hug when we saw each other or talk or dance if we were at a club or whatever. She was somewhat of a tease. And, on the dancefloor would be the only time I could get a chance to rub on that phat booty - but, I enjoyed it.
I don't know why she kept turning me down, but I guess I kept pursuing because I always felt there was a chance of us "hooking up" - as a couple. But, I didn't really want a relationship. She was cute but I just liked her butt. It was sexy. And, she had a very seductive walk. That girl KNEW how to work it! Whenever I saw her move across a room, I said, "Damn!"
I'm glad she did reject me though - all that ass - I know I wouldn't have been able to handle it.
But, I sure as heck wouldn't have felt bad about trying!
- loveqna
We'd always hug when we saw each other or talk or dance if we were at a club or whatever. She was somewhat of a tease. And, on the dancefloor would be the only time I could get a chance to rub on that phat booty - but, I enjoyed it.
I don't know why she kept turning me down, but I guess I kept pursuing because I always felt there was a chance of us "hooking up" - as a couple. But, I didn't really want a relationship. She was cute but I just liked her butt. It was sexy. And, she had a very seductive walk. That girl KNEW how to work it! Whenever I saw her move across a room, I said, "Damn!"
I'm glad she did reject me though - all that ass - I know I wouldn't have been able to handle it.
But, I sure as heck wouldn't have felt bad about trying!
- loveqna
2 Weeks In Lust
I walked to the store the other day to steal a smoke and to purchase some energy drinks. On my way, I decided to stop in at this fast food joint and grab a burger and fries. When I got in line, I saw this foxy chick standing at the counter placing her order. I admired her hair for a second or two. It looked nice and shiny like she had just came from the beauty shop. I didn't want to ogle the girl and look at her booty although I could see from her tight jeans that she was slim but thick in all the right places.
Anyway, her food came and she took a seat at one of tables.
This restaurant I went to is always on point so it didn't take long for me to get my meal and off I went. The place was basically desolate so I grabbed a booth near a window so that I see what was going on outside.
The Fox had taken a seat on the other side of the restaurant near a wall and watched the news on TV. But, we could still see each other very clearly. This made me very uncomfortable.
Have you ever been somewhere and felt someone was staring at you? It makes you uneasy, like: what are they looking at? You, or something else?
I didn't look directly at her but I did catch her a couple of times looking at me in my peripheral vision.
After a few minutes, she was done, thanked the girl behind the counter and left. I had also finished my meal and continued on my journey to the convenient store in hopes of getting a good deal on a couple of energy drinks. My destination was next door. I went in and there was the Fox standing at the counter puchasing some gum and some other knick-knacks. She looked into my face and said, "Don't I know you?"
Now, let me tell you what happened...
I didn't realize it at first but, yes, I had met this girl before at a night club a few years ago. I guess it was a girl's night out and she was with a friend. Anyway, we danced and chatted a little bit, I got her phone number, and a few days later, I ended up over at her crib. It was cool. We laughed, talked, and had a romantic interlude, and before I knew it I dozed on off to sleep. I usually don't spend the night at a stranger's house (for safety reasons) but the previous days, we talked on the phone for hours and hours and got to know each other really well, so I felt comfortable with her. Plus, we both had a few drinks and were kind of tipsy. Anyway, we had a good time. But, when I woke up...
Man, there were kids running around all over everywhere! Three or four of them! I said, "Damn!" What the Hell???
It was like a kiddie-bomb had went off! I said: Where the hell did all of these kids come from??? She never mentioned she had kids! And I guess I was so in lust that I forgot to ask! Anyway...
Me and this chick had fell asleep on the couch, so we were exposed except for a sheet that hid our nakedness. I had my shirt and pants and shoes off - laying somewhere on the floor and those "bay-bay chaps" were just having a ball like I wasn't even there!
I didn't know what to think. All the kids looked like her, so I couldn't tell if they had different daddy's or the same daddy or what. But, I DID know they were used to her bringing different guys over because they didn't acknowledge me, ask questions, or approach me or anything. I kind of felt bad for those kids, but I wasn't about to be their "uncle" or their "daddy", so I got the hell out of there!
I said to myself: Man, ain't no telling how many dudes have done been up in this crib.
AND THIS GIRL WAS FINE! Well, she wasn't THAT fine, but she WAS sexy - and cute.
Now, to be honest, I DID go back a couple of more times, but the girl has it going on in the bedroom. And her body doesn't look like she has had any kids - no stretchmarks, bulges, etc. She was hot, so can you blame me?
Anyway, I think she knew who I was - or maybe not (since she's probably been with a lot of guys) - but I pretended that I didn't recognize her. It was rude, but didn't want to be tempted. There's nothing that would come of it anyway except for memories of two great weeks of sex and good conversation - things we can't really talk about now since I AM involved. And who knows, maybe she is too.
I still think about that chick sometimes - even before I saw her the store the other day.
- loveqna
Anyway, her food came and she took a seat at one of tables.
This restaurant I went to is always on point so it didn't take long for me to get my meal and off I went. The place was basically desolate so I grabbed a booth near a window so that I see what was going on outside.
The Fox had taken a seat on the other side of the restaurant near a wall and watched the news on TV. But, we could still see each other very clearly. This made me very uncomfortable.
Have you ever been somewhere and felt someone was staring at you? It makes you uneasy, like: what are they looking at? You, or something else?
I didn't look directly at her but I did catch her a couple of times looking at me in my peripheral vision.
After a few minutes, she was done, thanked the girl behind the counter and left. I had also finished my meal and continued on my journey to the convenient store in hopes of getting a good deal on a couple of energy drinks. My destination was next door. I went in and there was the Fox standing at the counter puchasing some gum and some other knick-knacks. She looked into my face and said, "Don't I know you?"
Now, let me tell you what happened...
I didn't realize it at first but, yes, I had met this girl before at a night club a few years ago. I guess it was a girl's night out and she was with a friend. Anyway, we danced and chatted a little bit, I got her phone number, and a few days later, I ended up over at her crib. It was cool. We laughed, talked, and had a romantic interlude, and before I knew it I dozed on off to sleep. I usually don't spend the night at a stranger's house (for safety reasons) but the previous days, we talked on the phone for hours and hours and got to know each other really well, so I felt comfortable with her. Plus, we both had a few drinks and were kind of tipsy. Anyway, we had a good time. But, when I woke up...
Man, there were kids running around all over everywhere! Three or four of them! I said, "Damn!" What the Hell???
It was like a kiddie-bomb had went off! I said: Where the hell did all of these kids come from??? She never mentioned she had kids! And I guess I was so in lust that I forgot to ask! Anyway...
Me and this chick had fell asleep on the couch, so we were exposed except for a sheet that hid our nakedness. I had my shirt and pants and shoes off - laying somewhere on the floor and those "bay-bay chaps" were just having a ball like I wasn't even there!
I didn't know what to think. All the kids looked like her, so I couldn't tell if they had different daddy's or the same daddy or what. But, I DID know they were used to her bringing different guys over because they didn't acknowledge me, ask questions, or approach me or anything. I kind of felt bad for those kids, but I wasn't about to be their "uncle" or their "daddy", so I got the hell out of there!
I said to myself: Man, ain't no telling how many dudes have done been up in this crib.
AND THIS GIRL WAS FINE! Well, she wasn't THAT fine, but she WAS sexy - and cute.
Now, to be honest, I DID go back a couple of more times, but the girl has it going on in the bedroom. And her body doesn't look like she has had any kids - no stretchmarks, bulges, etc. She was hot, so can you blame me?
Anyway, I think she knew who I was - or maybe not (since she's probably been with a lot of guys) - but I pretended that I didn't recognize her. It was rude, but didn't want to be tempted. There's nothing that would come of it anyway except for memories of two great weeks of sex and good conversation - things we can't really talk about now since I AM involved. And who knows, maybe she is too.
I still think about that chick sometimes - even before I saw her the store the other day.
- loveqna
Why Single Women Rarely Get Approached By Good Men
There are a lot of good women out there looking for love (or at least a date), but they rarely get approached by men who are truly interested in them - if they get approached at all. Let me tell you why this is happening and why all these good women - and good-looking women - don't get the opportunities for love and romance that some other women get...
I'm going to try to make this as simple as possible because for too long now, women have been kept in the dark about this, but I'm going to reveal a few possible reasons why men don't approach certain women.
It's true that some women are intimidating because of their beauty or sex-appeal. From the guy's perspective, the woman may look like she could be a supermodel. Or, she may be dressed so sexy that he's shocked and flabberghasted by her sex-appeal. After just one look at that woman, he might immediately believe that he wouldn't stand a chance of getting to know her. And even if she would give him a chance, chances are he would hardly know what to say because he would be too afraid of coming on too strong or too afraid of boring the woman to death. He'd make small-talk for hours, days, weeks, or months, before he'd even offer his number or ask her if they could go out for coffee or whatever.
Or, he might look at her and immediately assume that she only dates certain types of guys like: pretty boys, bad boys, big boys, or men with a lot of money.
Then, there are some women who are intimidating because of their demeanor or attitude. These "strong women" are just unapproachable. They may want a good conversation or date with a gentleman but their demeanor says otherwise. These women want to display confidence and grace, but they really appear to be arrogant, anti-social, and grumpy as hell. These women might have everything a good man wants - beauty, brains, ambition, confidence, and goals, but if her facial expressions and body language says, "don't invade my space" or "don't F with me", then she is not going to be sought after by too many men and possibly miss out on the "high quality man" she seeks. They're gorgeous, but who needs the drama?
Then there's the woman with status and grace - usually a mature woman. This woman intimidates some men because most of these women are all business almost all the time - whether they're working, gardening, socializing, or shopping. And men either think she's already married, or involved, or too busy for romance. Men are shy when it comes to this type of woman because they feel in order to get the woman's attention or to break whatever spell she's under and get to know her, he has to be very witty or somewhat "successful". The average blue-collar man won't approach this type of woman as fast as a middle-class man would. More than likely, she'd have to ask either of them out on a date before they'd have the courage to ask her.
Let's speed this up. Here's a quick list you can read.
Other reasons why men don't approach good single women:
* The guy is too shy (and doesn't know what to say)
* The guy doesn't want to appear desperate
* The guy doesn't want to risk the embarrassment and heartbreak of rejection
* The guy doesn't know HOW to approach women or flirt (not sure what to say - or do)
* The guy doesn't want to come on too strong and be charged with sexual harrassment
* The guy may feel that the woman wouldn't date a guy his age (too old or too young)
* The guy may have been in a long-term relationship and now that he's single, he's nervous about dating and shy about meeting new women (these guys may only have a chance of meeting a woman through a mutual friend, or work, or church. The only other way would be if the woman finds a way to arrange a date)
* The guy assumes that he would not be what the woman is looking for
* The guy is turned-off by the woman's personality or style
* The guy is not attracted
* The guy only sees the woman as a friend
* The guy doesn't feel he and the woman would be a good match or compatible
* The guy isn't sure if he wants to date or be single
* The guy is interested in the woman's friend
* The guy believes the woman may want a long term relationship
* The guy believes the woman may be a player
* The guy believes the woman is immature (or is still loves to party)
* The guy believes the woman may be High Maintenance
* The guy doesn't want to date a woman with children (wants his "own" family or a "fresh" start)
* The guy doesn't want to date a woman who has been married or recently separated (the woman may have a psycho boyfriend or obsessed ex-husband)
And there could be other reasons. These are the most common that I know of.
But hold up! Remember! This list doesn't apply to every guy! All of this depends on the type of guy, the guy's perspective, and the situation. Some guys need a little push or help from a friend to get a date with the woman. Some guys - especially badboys, pick-up artists, and players will approach a woman no matter What the situation. These are the guys who usually have a main squeeze and one or two babes on the side.
And, I didn't want to leave out "Nice Guys"...
Here's something you probably didn't know about Nice Guys.
Nice Guys aren't going to approach unless they KNOW the woman or unless the timing is right... MAYBE. Most Nice Guys will talk and talk and talk and never get around to asking a girl out. They're almost always late to the punch!
Most Nice Guys approach women who are already DATING someone else! It's true.
Approaching a woman is like a roll of the dice for those guys. Those types of guys live on the hope that they'll get lucky. They make so much small-talk that they don't even know if the woman they're talking to is "Available" or not. They've probaby been checking out a certain lady for days, weeks, or months - dreaming about her, thinking about her, fantasizing about their future together - and have turned a simple request for a phone number or a date into an event they're afraid won't turn out positive. Their main concern is to be respectful and nice and take things slow. But, they're so respectful and nice that they're stagnant!
I know some women believe that a man who's afraid to approach women ain't a real man, but those women either don't have a man - or, in their relationship - they ARE the "Man". Don't let them talk you into missing out on some good men. If you're interested in a guy and have the courage or connections to arrange a date with him, then do it. He may be interested in you and simply don't know what to say.
- loveqna
I'm going to try to make this as simple as possible because for too long now, women have been kept in the dark about this, but I'm going to reveal a few possible reasons why men don't approach certain women.
It's true that some women are intimidating because of their beauty or sex-appeal. From the guy's perspective, the woman may look like she could be a supermodel. Or, she may be dressed so sexy that he's shocked and flabberghasted by her sex-appeal. After just one look at that woman, he might immediately believe that he wouldn't stand a chance of getting to know her. And even if she would give him a chance, chances are he would hardly know what to say because he would be too afraid of coming on too strong or too afraid of boring the woman to death. He'd make small-talk for hours, days, weeks, or months, before he'd even offer his number or ask her if they could go out for coffee or whatever.
Or, he might look at her and immediately assume that she only dates certain types of guys like: pretty boys, bad boys, big boys, or men with a lot of money.
Then, there are some women who are intimidating because of their demeanor or attitude. These "strong women" are just unapproachable. They may want a good conversation or date with a gentleman but their demeanor says otherwise. These women want to display confidence and grace, but they really appear to be arrogant, anti-social, and grumpy as hell. These women might have everything a good man wants - beauty, brains, ambition, confidence, and goals, but if her facial expressions and body language says, "don't invade my space" or "don't F with me", then she is not going to be sought after by too many men and possibly miss out on the "high quality man" she seeks. They're gorgeous, but who needs the drama?
Then there's the woman with status and grace - usually a mature woman. This woman intimidates some men because most of these women are all business almost all the time - whether they're working, gardening, socializing, or shopping. And men either think she's already married, or involved, or too busy for romance. Men are shy when it comes to this type of woman because they feel in order to get the woman's attention or to break whatever spell she's under and get to know her, he has to be very witty or somewhat "successful". The average blue-collar man won't approach this type of woman as fast as a middle-class man would. More than likely, she'd have to ask either of them out on a date before they'd have the courage to ask her.
Let's speed this up. Here's a quick list you can read.
Other reasons why men don't approach good single women:
* The guy is too shy (and doesn't know what to say)
* The guy doesn't want to appear desperate
* The guy doesn't want to risk the embarrassment and heartbreak of rejection
* The guy doesn't know HOW to approach women or flirt (not sure what to say - or do)
* The guy doesn't want to come on too strong and be charged with sexual harrassment
* The guy may feel that the woman wouldn't date a guy his age (too old or too young)
* The guy may have been in a long-term relationship and now that he's single, he's nervous about dating and shy about meeting new women (these guys may only have a chance of meeting a woman through a mutual friend, or work, or church. The only other way would be if the woman finds a way to arrange a date)
* The guy assumes that he would not be what the woman is looking for
* The guy is turned-off by the woman's personality or style
* The guy is not attracted
* The guy only sees the woman as a friend
* The guy doesn't feel he and the woman would be a good match or compatible
* The guy isn't sure if he wants to date or be single
* The guy is interested in the woman's friend
* The guy believes the woman may want a long term relationship
* The guy believes the woman may be a player
* The guy believes the woman is immature (or is still loves to party)
* The guy believes the woman may be High Maintenance
* The guy doesn't want to date a woman with children (wants his "own" family or a "fresh" start)
* The guy doesn't want to date a woman who has been married or recently separated (the woman may have a psycho boyfriend or obsessed ex-husband)
And there could be other reasons. These are the most common that I know of.
But hold up! Remember! This list doesn't apply to every guy! All of this depends on the type of guy, the guy's perspective, and the situation. Some guys need a little push or help from a friend to get a date with the woman. Some guys - especially badboys, pick-up artists, and players will approach a woman no matter What the situation. These are the guys who usually have a main squeeze and one or two babes on the side.
And, I didn't want to leave out "Nice Guys"...
Here's something you probably didn't know about Nice Guys.
Nice Guys aren't going to approach unless they KNOW the woman or unless the timing is right... MAYBE. Most Nice Guys will talk and talk and talk and never get around to asking a girl out. They're almost always late to the punch!
Most Nice Guys approach women who are already DATING someone else! It's true.
Approaching a woman is like a roll of the dice for those guys. Those types of guys live on the hope that they'll get lucky. They make so much small-talk that they don't even know if the woman they're talking to is "Available" or not. They've probaby been checking out a certain lady for days, weeks, or months - dreaming about her, thinking about her, fantasizing about their future together - and have turned a simple request for a phone number or a date into an event they're afraid won't turn out positive. Their main concern is to be respectful and nice and take things slow. But, they're so respectful and nice that they're stagnant!
I know some women believe that a man who's afraid to approach women ain't a real man, but those women either don't have a man - or, in their relationship - they ARE the "Man". Don't let them talk you into missing out on some good men. If you're interested in a guy and have the courage or connections to arrange a date with him, then do it. He may be interested in you and simply don't know what to say.
- loveqna
My Girlfriend Dumped Me...
THEN...
five minutes later, she was all lovey-dovey and hooked back up with me again. I'm beginning to think she has a few screws loose.
Let me tell you what happened...
She got me so pissed off the other day that I just didn't want to talk to her ever again. So, I ignored her a little bit and avoided her to keep from hearing more of her big mouth. Women love to talk and she is no exception. She loves to chat, talk, gossip, complain, rant, and debate, so the "silent treatment" really pissed HER off and she exploded. It was funny though because sometimes in the middle of her yelling, I would say: "Hold up a minute", and gargle my mouth with mouthwash or get a q-tip and clean my ear or walk over to the closet to change my shirt, and she would stop screaming at me and wait until I said, "Okay, finish telling me." And she would continue her yelling without breaking a stride.
Now, I don't mean to sound like I was making a joke out of the whole thing, but I'm just sick of hearing her fuss. And, she wants me to argue back and debate with her. And, I don't want to do it. I don't like to argue. There are better things I could be doing with my time... Maybe that's how SHE likes to release bottled-up energy but that's just not my bag.
So, I said to her: "I don't feel like arguing or debating all the time. And, whenever you're angry, I just try to stay out of your way."
Wrong. I shouldn't have said that. Then, She really got loud.
"YOU THINK EVERYTHING IS AN ARGUMENT. I'M NOT ANGRY. I'M A WOMAN. I'M GONNA SPEAK MY MIND. YOU WANT SOMEBODY THAT'S A PUSHOVER. WELL IT'S NOT ME. I AIN'T THE ONE. I'M GONNA TELL YOU EXACTLY HOW I FEEL. AND IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT, THAT'S JUST TOO BAD. YOU NEED TO SPEAK YOUR MIND AND STAND UP FOR YOURSELF..."
She wants me to argue with her is basically what she's saying.
Now, when I give my opinion - like last week when she went to look at handbags - this broad tells me (while we're in a crowded store) to shut-up and that I didn't know what women liked in a handbag and that I had no taste. Shut-Up??? For a second, I snapped. I was about to say: "Bitch, you shut-the-hell-up!" But, I wouldn't call a woman that unless we were joking around. Anyway... I said, "You shut-up! You don't tell anybody to shut-up! Not me no way. I ain't one of your chaps!" And we continue to shop. She does this all the time out in public - which is crazy - and disrespectful.
Now, believe it or not, right after this, we are not angry at each other. I'm not angry that she told me to shut-up in public. I'm a little offended but not really angry. What pisses me off is that she asks for my opinion or view on something all the time and then she tells me that I don't know what I'm talking about. Well, why in the hell did you ask me in the first place??? And what's the point in me explaining my point when she is already firm in her belief. Does she want me to agree with Everything she says? I'm not going to do it. If you want my opinion, I'm gonna tell you MY opinion and not what you want to hear.
So, this kind of crap has been going on all week.
Then, she called to tell me that she was tired and would probably be sleep when I got off of work, so I should call her and wake her up and she'll come to get me.
Right about the time I was due to get off of work, the store manager wanted to talk to me. After she finished talking to me, I pulled out my phone to call my girl. I had a "missed call" from her. I called her cell. As soon as she picked up the phone she was like: "WHY DIDN'T YOU ANSWER YOU PHONE. I CALLED YOU. YOU CALL WHEN YOU WANT SOMETHING. YOU NEVER ANSWER YOUR PHONE WHEN I CALL. I JUST LEFT THERE. NOW, I GOT TO TURN AROUND AND COME BACK... blah, blah, blah."
I wasn't planning on calling her anyway since she complained that she was so tired and sleepy. Hell, I had been getting to work without her for damn near two weeks so why call her now?
I started to say, "Bitch, you ain't gots to come back! Keep rolling with your damn big-ass mouth!" But, of course, I didn't say that. My poor lame ass. I said, "My phone was on vibrate in my pocket and I didn't feel it. I didn't realize I had a call." Which was true, but She didn't want to hear that sh*t. She went on yelling and calling me a liar. But, really, We're not supposed to have on phones on us while we're on the sales floor and they're not supposed to ring out loud if we do. I keep mine on me to keep up with the time and to check any texts she may send, but I don't get the opportunity to check them right away. And, I just don't stand around when I work. I try to keep busy - with or without customers. So, I may not feel the vibration of my phone sometimes. Anyway, she came back and scooped me up, dropped me off at the house and went to Sam's Club to purchase food and stuff she had to have for Thanksgiving.
When she got back, her and those bad little rugrats busted in the room. Those little brats were bouncing off the bed, the floor, and walls. Pulling papers and stuff off of the dresser and just throwing them on the floor. Dragging their toys and clothes in the room and just leaving them on the floor... Hopping around like rabbits and sh*t. Stomping around. I said, "Chill-Out, You little rug-monkeys!"
Of course, it's a joke, but their antics and unruly behavior still takes me away from blogging and writing. I can't stand all of that noise ALL the time.
Anyway, I think she brought them in there out of spite to distract and disturb me, because she doesn't like for me to be on the computer. She wants to talk. No. So, I picked up my laptop and went downstairs. But... those little demons where hot on my tail and followed me on down - begging for cereal and Kool-Aid - and whining that one hit the other or one of them is not sharing or something...
(Lord, have mercy! Somebody, get these damn chaps!)
Anyway, that pissed me off because she could've left them downstairs or told them to play in their mama's room but she knows they'll run to me most of the time. She just hates the fact that I'll get on the computer instead of listening to her rant and rave.
So, after that I gave her the silent treatment out of spite and she got tired of it and dumped me. I kind of expected it would happen, but I told you: I know her very well... and she's crazy. So, I wasn't shocked when we were smooching on the bed a few minutes later.
My advice to anyone involved in a relationship with a woman:
Don't try to understand women. Just get to know the one you've got and everything will be alright.
Now, let me go in here and help this dizzy broad with this turkey and stuffing.
HAPPY THANKSGIVING! And, thanks for listening!
- loveqna
five minutes later, she was all lovey-dovey and hooked back up with me again. I'm beginning to think she has a few screws loose.
Let me tell you what happened...
She got me so pissed off the other day that I just didn't want to talk to her ever again. So, I ignored her a little bit and avoided her to keep from hearing more of her big mouth. Women love to talk and she is no exception. She loves to chat, talk, gossip, complain, rant, and debate, so the "silent treatment" really pissed HER off and she exploded. It was funny though because sometimes in the middle of her yelling, I would say: "Hold up a minute", and gargle my mouth with mouthwash or get a q-tip and clean my ear or walk over to the closet to change my shirt, and she would stop screaming at me and wait until I said, "Okay, finish telling me." And she would continue her yelling without breaking a stride.
Now, I don't mean to sound like I was making a joke out of the whole thing, but I'm just sick of hearing her fuss. And, she wants me to argue back and debate with her. And, I don't want to do it. I don't like to argue. There are better things I could be doing with my time... Maybe that's how SHE likes to release bottled-up energy but that's just not my bag.
So, I said to her: "I don't feel like arguing or debating all the time. And, whenever you're angry, I just try to stay out of your way."
Wrong. I shouldn't have said that. Then, She really got loud.
"YOU THINK EVERYTHING IS AN ARGUMENT. I'M NOT ANGRY. I'M A WOMAN. I'M GONNA SPEAK MY MIND. YOU WANT SOMEBODY THAT'S A PUSHOVER. WELL IT'S NOT ME. I AIN'T THE ONE. I'M GONNA TELL YOU EXACTLY HOW I FEEL. AND IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT, THAT'S JUST TOO BAD. YOU NEED TO SPEAK YOUR MIND AND STAND UP FOR YOURSELF..."
She wants me to argue with her is basically what she's saying.
Now, when I give my opinion - like last week when she went to look at handbags - this broad tells me (while we're in a crowded store) to shut-up and that I didn't know what women liked in a handbag and that I had no taste. Shut-Up??? For a second, I snapped. I was about to say: "Bitch, you shut-the-hell-up!" But, I wouldn't call a woman that unless we were joking around. Anyway... I said, "You shut-up! You don't tell anybody to shut-up! Not me no way. I ain't one of your chaps!" And we continue to shop. She does this all the time out in public - which is crazy - and disrespectful.
Now, believe it or not, right after this, we are not angry at each other. I'm not angry that she told me to shut-up in public. I'm a little offended but not really angry. What pisses me off is that she asks for my opinion or view on something all the time and then she tells me that I don't know what I'm talking about. Well, why in the hell did you ask me in the first place??? And what's the point in me explaining my point when she is already firm in her belief. Does she want me to agree with Everything she says? I'm not going to do it. If you want my opinion, I'm gonna tell you MY opinion and not what you want to hear.
So, this kind of crap has been going on all week.
Then, she called to tell me that she was tired and would probably be sleep when I got off of work, so I should call her and wake her up and she'll come to get me.
Right about the time I was due to get off of work, the store manager wanted to talk to me. After she finished talking to me, I pulled out my phone to call my girl. I had a "missed call" from her. I called her cell. As soon as she picked up the phone she was like: "WHY DIDN'T YOU ANSWER YOU PHONE. I CALLED YOU. YOU CALL WHEN YOU WANT SOMETHING. YOU NEVER ANSWER YOUR PHONE WHEN I CALL. I JUST LEFT THERE. NOW, I GOT TO TURN AROUND AND COME BACK... blah, blah, blah."
I wasn't planning on calling her anyway since she complained that she was so tired and sleepy. Hell, I had been getting to work without her for damn near two weeks so why call her now?
I started to say, "Bitch, you ain't gots to come back! Keep rolling with your damn big-ass mouth!" But, of course, I didn't say that. My poor lame ass. I said, "My phone was on vibrate in my pocket and I didn't feel it. I didn't realize I had a call." Which was true, but She didn't want to hear that sh*t. She went on yelling and calling me a liar. But, really, We're not supposed to have on phones on us while we're on the sales floor and they're not supposed to ring out loud if we do. I keep mine on me to keep up with the time and to check any texts she may send, but I don't get the opportunity to check them right away. And, I just don't stand around when I work. I try to keep busy - with or without customers. So, I may not feel the vibration of my phone sometimes. Anyway, she came back and scooped me up, dropped me off at the house and went to Sam's Club to purchase food and stuff she had to have for Thanksgiving.
When she got back, her and those bad little rugrats busted in the room. Those little brats were bouncing off the bed, the floor, and walls. Pulling papers and stuff off of the dresser and just throwing them on the floor. Dragging their toys and clothes in the room and just leaving them on the floor... Hopping around like rabbits and sh*t. Stomping around. I said, "Chill-Out, You little rug-monkeys!"
Of course, it's a joke, but their antics and unruly behavior still takes me away from blogging and writing. I can't stand all of that noise ALL the time.
Anyway, I think she brought them in there out of spite to distract and disturb me, because she doesn't like for me to be on the computer. She wants to talk. No. So, I picked up my laptop and went downstairs. But... those little demons where hot on my tail and followed me on down - begging for cereal and Kool-Aid - and whining that one hit the other or one of them is not sharing or something...
(Lord, have mercy! Somebody, get these damn chaps!)
Anyway, that pissed me off because she could've left them downstairs or told them to play in their mama's room but she knows they'll run to me most of the time. She just hates the fact that I'll get on the computer instead of listening to her rant and rave.
So, after that I gave her the silent treatment out of spite and she got tired of it and dumped me. I kind of expected it would happen, but I told you: I know her very well... and she's crazy. So, I wasn't shocked when we were smooching on the bed a few minutes later.
My advice to anyone involved in a relationship with a woman:
Don't try to understand women. Just get to know the one you've got and everything will be alright.
Now, let me go in here and help this dizzy broad with this turkey and stuffing.
HAPPY THANKSGIVING! And, thanks for listening!
- loveqna
VIDEO - Best Revenge a Guy can Take Over his Girlfriend
I'd like to do something like this to my girlfriend but I KNOW she wouldn't be so passive about it.
And, she ought to kick his ass for this... Check it out.
Video provided by - amitmsachdev
- loveqna
And, she ought to kick his ass for this... Check it out.
Video provided by - amitmsachdev
- loveqna
Why It's Hard For Men To Stay Focused (On One Woman)
I don't expect a pat on the back for being faithful to my girl, but I think I'm doing pretty good considering the fact that all of these fine bootylicious women are running around here looking sexy as hell in their skin-tight jeans and push-up bras.
I must admit, when I'm at work, I do my best to resist taking second looks or gawking at these sexy-looking women. And sometimes it's hard. You wouldn't believe what these women wear and how fine they look - especially the wealthy ones. They'll jump out of those Range Rovers and Mercedes Benzes wearing sexy short shorts and spaghetti strapped tops that advertise all of their "goods". They'll have their hair looking good and flowing in the wind... I think some of those women don't even know how fine they really are. Many are married but they're always alone when they come in. I wonder sometimes if their husbands realize how good their wives look or if their husbands are just complacent about their relationship. Those guys are probably at home checking out other babes on TV.
Sometimes we get "hoodrats" in there. They'll come in wearing clothes so skimpy you'd think they just left a pajama party - or, just finished making an all-chick flick. They don't give a damn. They'll have everything hanging out - or damn near about to fall out - butt cheeks, boobs, and all. Tight-ass shorts. I'm not trying to be perverted. I'm just saying it's hard for a man's mind (and eyes) not to wander these days with so many women out here dressing so sexy and so revealing. And it's not just me. I'm always catching some of the male customers grinning and staring at these hotties. You can't help but look. Some of them make a spectacle out of themselves with those tight-ass booty-shorts on.
But this is my point...
You know how you always hear women complain about men cheating or staring at other women but they never look at it from the man's point of view. Everywhere we go, Temptation follows. Anytime we go out in public, we're gonna see women walking around dressed sexy or wearing clothes that show off their legs or clothes that accent their butts or breasts. If we turn on the TV, we're gonna see sexy underdressed models advertising products that are not only meant for women, but also, products that are meant for men. They have buttnaked chicks doing the news and weather! WHY? What's that about??? That ain't female exploitation! That's MALE exploitation to boost ratings! They know men are gonna look!
Companies are even selling SHOES to help women boost the size and appearance of their butts! I know you've seen them. They're everywhere! It may make women feel better about themselves but THEY KNOW that's what a lot of men like! The more sexy booties the better! They have workout videos that focus on "building a firmer tighter booty". My girl has one of those videos - "Yoga Booty Ballet". And if that don't work, women can save some time and buy "body shapers" like the ones sold by Spanx (the Slim Cognito) that can give a woman's butt an "INSTANT" boost.
But a woman's butt and tight clothes ain't the ONLY tools in her arsenal of "weapons"!
They've got fake contacts, hair coloring, hair extensions, make-up, lip-gloss, sweet-smelling fragrances, pantyhose, high heels, flashy accessories, and a million media outlets that love helping them promote their sexiness and/or sexuality.
Now, I might sound like a man scorned, but I'm not mad about any of it. I love looking at all of that eye-candy. It's like looking at fine art. It's hard to take your eyes off of it. It's a beautiful thing. But, women in relationships have to realize, it's also "Competition". I've heard women say, "It's okay if he looks at the menu as long as he don't touch the merchandise." But, we know what would happen if you caught your man ogling one of those fine mamacitas... especially if she's wearing a T-shirt with no bra on up under it.
You'd try to knock his eyeballs right out of his head! Whap!
But, it doesn't even have to be about that. Look at all the well-known male cheaters that have been caught within the last couple of years. The women they've cheated with haven't been all that good-looking, but they've been sexy. And you can say what you want, but I'll be honest... I'm not a guy who's into women with tattoos and/or piercings but some of those women look sexy too.
So, if you want him to keep his eyes on you (most of the time), you have to stay sexy.
I'm not saying that a woman has to dress like a hoe to keep a man interested, but if you can't be sexy, you'd better have his mind focused on you one way or the other. You'd better be doing SOMETHING to keep his attention and interest. And every little bit helps.
My girl has put on some weight and I'll be honest, I don't like it. BUT, there are still quite a few things about her that I find sexy and irristable. She just gets on my nerves with all that fussing. I can't stand it.
Anyway...
Ladies, if you want to keep your man honest then keep your game tight because the Competition is off the chain out here. And these companies are using everything in the book to keep women buying their products to attract attention. And a lot of that attention is coming from committed men.
- loveqna
I must admit, when I'm at work, I do my best to resist taking second looks or gawking at these sexy-looking women. And sometimes it's hard. You wouldn't believe what these women wear and how fine they look - especially the wealthy ones. They'll jump out of those Range Rovers and Mercedes Benzes wearing sexy short shorts and spaghetti strapped tops that advertise all of their "goods". They'll have their hair looking good and flowing in the wind... I think some of those women don't even know how fine they really are. Many are married but they're always alone when they come in. I wonder sometimes if their husbands realize how good their wives look or if their husbands are just complacent about their relationship. Those guys are probably at home checking out other babes on TV.
Sometimes we get "hoodrats" in there. They'll come in wearing clothes so skimpy you'd think they just left a pajama party - or, just finished making an all-chick flick. They don't give a damn. They'll have everything hanging out - or damn near about to fall out - butt cheeks, boobs, and all. Tight-ass shorts. I'm not trying to be perverted. I'm just saying it's hard for a man's mind (and eyes) not to wander these days with so many women out here dressing so sexy and so revealing. And it's not just me. I'm always catching some of the male customers grinning and staring at these hotties. You can't help but look. Some of them make a spectacle out of themselves with those tight-ass booty-shorts on.
But this is my point...
You know how you always hear women complain about men cheating or staring at other women but they never look at it from the man's point of view. Everywhere we go, Temptation follows. Anytime we go out in public, we're gonna see women walking around dressed sexy or wearing clothes that show off their legs or clothes that accent their butts or breasts. If we turn on the TV, we're gonna see sexy underdressed models advertising products that are not only meant for women, but also, products that are meant for men. They have buttnaked chicks doing the news and weather! WHY? What's that about??? That ain't female exploitation! That's MALE exploitation to boost ratings! They know men are gonna look!
Companies are even selling SHOES to help women boost the size and appearance of their butts! I know you've seen them. They're everywhere! It may make women feel better about themselves but THEY KNOW that's what a lot of men like! The more sexy booties the better! They have workout videos that focus on "building a firmer tighter booty". My girl has one of those videos - "Yoga Booty Ballet". And if that don't work, women can save some time and buy "body shapers" like the ones sold by Spanx (the Slim Cognito) that can give a woman's butt an "INSTANT" boost.
But a woman's butt and tight clothes ain't the ONLY tools in her arsenal of "weapons"!
They've got fake contacts, hair coloring, hair extensions, make-up, lip-gloss, sweet-smelling fragrances, pantyhose, high heels, flashy accessories, and a million media outlets that love helping them promote their sexiness and/or sexuality.
Now, I might sound like a man scorned, but I'm not mad about any of it. I love looking at all of that eye-candy. It's like looking at fine art. It's hard to take your eyes off of it. It's a beautiful thing. But, women in relationships have to realize, it's also "Competition". I've heard women say, "It's okay if he looks at the menu as long as he don't touch the merchandise." But, we know what would happen if you caught your man ogling one of those fine mamacitas... especially if she's wearing a T-shirt with no bra on up under it.
You'd try to knock his eyeballs right out of his head! Whap!
But, it doesn't even have to be about that. Look at all the well-known male cheaters that have been caught within the last couple of years. The women they've cheated with haven't been all that good-looking, but they've been sexy. And you can say what you want, but I'll be honest... I'm not a guy who's into women with tattoos and/or piercings but some of those women look sexy too.
So, if you want him to keep his eyes on you (most of the time), you have to stay sexy.
I'm not saying that a woman has to dress like a hoe to keep a man interested, but if you can't be sexy, you'd better have his mind focused on you one way or the other. You'd better be doing SOMETHING to keep his attention and interest. And every little bit helps.
My girl has put on some weight and I'll be honest, I don't like it. BUT, there are still quite a few things about her that I find sexy and irristable. She just gets on my nerves with all that fussing. I can't stand it.
Anyway...
Ladies, if you want to keep your man honest then keep your game tight because the Competition is off the chain out here. And these companies are using everything in the book to keep women buying their products to attract attention. And a lot of that attention is coming from committed men.
- loveqna
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