Stay Away From Crybabies And Whining Men And Women

If you want to enjoy a peaceful, PRODUCTIVE, and sane life, stay away from a guy and girl who constantly whines about his or her relationship.

I mean, there's nothing wrong with helping people (you SHOULD try to help if you can) - but, when you have a friend who asks for your advice EVERYDAY about the SAME SITUATION, and the SAME PERSON... and, complains time and time again about the bum mistreating him or her and doing him or her wrong, and you give the best advice, suggestions, and opinions that you can give, and yet they STILL WON'T LISTEN... that's when you just have to "throw in the towel" and say "I give up."

Because...

No matter what you say, they're still gonna whine and complain. And, they're still gonna go back to that bum and put up with all kinds of crap, and get disrespected and abused yet again, and come back running to you yappin about the same damn problems...

Man, I don't want to hear that crap every day... Get the hell out of here with all of that damn whining and those negative vibes...

It's like they've developed appetite for it and can't get enough of it - especially when they see You. They HAVE to talk about how bad their situation and life is - ALL the damn time.

It's like, every time they see you, they come runnin' - ready to tell you what their mean-ass deceitful lying sneaky boyfriend, girlfriend, or husband, or wife, has done wrong within the last fifteen or twenty minutes - if you're lucky.

If they start talking about what happened the day before, you're gonna be stuck for a while since they've had to time to think about the "drama" and come up with all kinds of ideas, fantasies, questions, and opinions as to why their relationship is falling apart or not going the way they think it should.

I swear, it seems like these "crybabies" LOOK for trouble just so they'll have something to talk about. It's like they're not happy unless they HAVE drama in their lives.

Now, I know sometimes when people are going through hard times in their relationships, there are issues that can't be cured overnight or in a week (and maybe even not in a year), But, if these people are not trying to make any progress - or, at least, talking about the progress they're making (or, changes that they're making in their lives), then it's time to "cut the line" and change the subject, because they're not trying to improve their situation.

They talk about how bad they feel and how much they've been neglected, used, and abused, yet they keep going back to the bum for more - and, sucking other people into the drama as well. Causing grief and arguments left and right.

All they have to do is leave.

But, their problems aren't bad enough for them to change. So, why are you so worked up about it? Let it go. Recommend professional help and get on with your life.

You've already given them good advice. They know they're being "played", used, and abused, yet they keep going back for more.

If they're too damn dumb to leave the relationship, just accept the fact that they're crazy as hell or crazy in love and leave it alone.

Don't stress yourself out or get frustrated about it (especially if you're a parent).

Tell them to Get out of the relationship if it's causing that much pain. Or, advise that they talk to a counselor.

But, that's not what they want to do. They want to stick around and constantly fuss and fight with the bum (or suffer the abuse) although the bum they're with is not even trying to improve the relationship or make it work.

And, they're running back to him or her - blabbering their mouth off - and telling that skeezer everything you've said...

Get away from that mess!

Don't let that crybaby drag you into the drama! You don't need the distraction in your life. It can ruin YOUR relationship!

How???

Your relationship might start falling apart because you're spending all of YOUR time on the phone with your friend and neglecting your duties to your partner. He or she needs attention, affection, quality time, and conversation, too.

Your partner doesn't want to sit around twiddling his or her thumbs while you're spending all of your time engaged in some foolish drama. That might cause grief and spite between the both of you.

Then, the next thing you know, you'll be the one carrying around those bad vibes and whining everyday.

Help if you can, but realize when you can't, and let that crap go.

The best way to help someone like that is by letting someone who gets paid to help "troubled couples" take over.

Why continue to waste your time?

If they're not taking heed to your advice, you're just flappin' your gums and yappin' for no reason anyway.

- loveqna

Broken Heart Testimony: Mary

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One of my friends is going through a terrible time in her life right now. She suffers from a broken heart, loneliness, and a mind full of confusion.

She "felt empty inside" and "worthless".

She got hold of a gun and was on route to attempt suicide but another friend of ours was able to intervene just in time and talk her out of it.

This poor girl is being tormented by all kinds of demons. She isn't just having "man troubles" and relationship drama, she is confused about life and where she is going in life. She is afraid of her future. She is afraid she will be alone forever. She is afraid she is going to be stuck living this monotonous mundane lifestyle.

The craziest thing about it is: She has TONS of friends. She has a great personality. She's attractive. She has guys lined up wanting to be with her. She has her own house. She has her own car. She makes her own money...

And, the girl has been "saved" and goes to church. (I think she did this to try to "cure" the pain she has inside of her. I kind of doubt she "committed herself to God" with a whole heart. I'm not a religious person. This is just my thoughts on her situation.)

Yet, she is still lonely, empty, and feels worthless. Nothing in life matters. Nothing is important to her - not even her friendships; not even her life.

Her mom is with her right now and her "companion" (a "friends with benefits" lover who helped ignite all of this crap by treating the broad like dirt).

He doesn't have to love the girl.

It's not his fault if he doesn't care for her in that way. He told her he didn't want a relationship. So, he's not blamed for that.

But, he belittles her, criticizes her, and dumps on her without any consideration for her feelings as a human being. He's a liar, a sneak, and a jerk. Those are his faults. And, that's what pushed her over the edge.

He KNEW she had been treated like this in past because we've all sat around talking about relationship experiences before. So, he knew all about what she went through and was going through. He just wanted to tap that ass and have no commitments. He knew she was vulnerable.

This babe was picking from the bottom of the barrel when it came to prospects. You should've seen the guys she went out with or was interested in.

Now, I've told you in previous posts that I've seen some Beasts come into the store with some beautiful women, but these guys she's been hanging out with lately, look like they jumped right out of a cartoon. I'm talking about a collection of some of the wackiest looking scumbags I've ever seen in my life.

And, she was ready to commit to any one of these bums! lol.

They were some good-hearted guys though.

Hell, I know I'm no "Prince Charming", but you would've fell on your ass laughing after you took one look at some of these gorillas.

Anyway...

She was still feeling the pain as she told me her story a few nights ago. And, I didn't want to tell her what everyone else was telling her about "focusing on herself" and how "she needs to get her life together first" before she starts trying to love anyone because I know those words aren't helping her. They haven't helped her yet. And, she been dealing with this pain for a while. I've known her for at least a year, so I know it's been at least that long.

So, I listened as she spoke and cried and let all of her emotions out. Actually, I didn't know what to say to her at the time so, I clowned around a bit.

She cried and laughed and cried some more.

It was almost one o'clock in the morning when I left her but I texted her the next day after she took me to work. She wanted me to take the day off but I suggested she spend it with her mom or a girlfriend because I'm not too good at situations like this yet.

So, she dropped me off and later the real advice I needed to give to her came to me.

I can't remember the message I texted her but it was basically about "perspectives".

She was looking at this guy as someone who rejected her love, but really, he's a dumbass who doesn't know how good of a woman he has. And, he WON'T know until this "good thing" is gone out of his life.

And, it will be great if he NEVER discovers how great she is because he's a fucking jerk.

Her last love was a jerk also. And, she was mean to him because he wouldn't cooperate. But, maybe they weren't compatible. He wasn't "feeling it" and she couldn't accept it. So, she thought she wasn't good enough.

Some people look at things all wrong... And, pray for the wrong things selfishly.

They look at people, situations, and things, and believe that those people, situations, and things will bring them happiness, but all the while that "stuff" and those people are making them anxious and miserable as hell.

They don't realize that without that crap in their lives, they could grow and prosper and find true happiness.

Their true love or SoulMate could be a foot away!

This un-compatible person may be a "test" for a love that IS compatible.

This un-compatible person and the drama they bring to your life is helping you for when you really have to deal with the drama that is yet to come - from the haters and from situations that could try to separate you from someone who will truly make your life complete!

That girl think she is cursed, and in reality, she's blessed to be untied to these guys. All they did was chastise her and put her down and she got so low, she couldn't get up! And, she almost killed herself! For what??? Selfish Love.

"You can do bad by yourself!" Life is tough enough. You don't need any extra drama in your life bringing you down.

Men, stop chasing these mean-spirited nagging ill-mannered deceitful broads.

Ladies, stop crying over these no good lying cheating neglectful douchebags.

They don't want the love you have to give. They don't deserve the love you have to give. They can't handle the love you have to give.

Do both of you a favor and let them go! Get away from them and accept your true purpose in life. Even if they argue and tell you they want to stay. Actions speak louder than words. Let them go.

Endure the pain.

You can still be friends - or not.

Get out and date. Find a new hobby. Spend more time with your family and friends. Join a church. Whatever. Get your mind off of a situation that (more than likely) will amount to nothing.

Stop being selfish and stop trying to force them to love you! It won't work.

Let them go.

Wish them well, and hope that they find whatever it is they're looking for. Stop trying to keep someone that doesn't want to be kept.

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- loveqna

Don't Let A Toxic Relationship Bring You Down

Queen - 'Another One Bites the Dust'



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These mean-ass manipulating men and crazy-ass psychotic women make my blood boil!

I'm sick ovem!

Why in the hell would you let that asshole play games with your mind and emotions???

Why are you allowing that scumbag to manipulate you and abuse you?

Why are you settling for a sub-standard way of surviving when you could be living the life you deserve and enjoying life to the fullest???

You don't have to settle for a life of heartache and pain and loneliness!

This way of life that you're living only robs you of the Joy and Happiness that every man and woman deserves.

Men and Women weren't meant to live in Fear all the days of their life!

You shouldn't be cut off from your Friends and Family!

You deserve to be loved just like everybody else!

Tell that no-good rat-soup eatin' bum to kiss your ass!

Go to the people that REALLY love and appreciate you. People who really care about you. People who want to see you happy.

Why should you stay in a place with a crumbcake-ass loser who doesn't inspire you, who doesn't love you, who gets joy out of using and abusing you, and who's crazy as hell???

I'm sick of these damn tyrants! Lock every last one of their asses up!

Let THEM get abused and mistreated and neglected for a while and see how they like it.

Don't believe their lies and guilt-tripping schemes.

They'll say and do anything to keep you around as their "punching bag".

Face it! The bum is crazy!

Ain't no need in you sticking around and trying to change him (or her).

That lousy-ass rat ain't gonna change until he or she is ready to change.

He or She ain't gonna stop playing games until he or she is Ready to stop playing games.

Sometimes, you've just gotta give people like that their space so that they can see the error of their ways.

You can talk and beg and plead and try to compromise until you are blue in the face and they still won't have a clue about all the wrong they're doing.

Let that guy or girl go. Man-up or Woman-up and move on with your life. The Drama ain't worth it.

Being played and cheated on and berated and cussed out every day ain't worth it.

You HAVE a Higher Power within you. You ARE strong enough to survive on your own.

We all have self-preservation instincts. You just have to have the courage to let yours take over and not fall to your knees and simply accept the abuse that comes your way.

Look for resources and help for a way out of the mess you're in!

Be a Survivor! Be Strong!

Resort to your own bag of tricks, games, and tactics to get yourself out this hell-hole that you've fell in.

You might think you can't move on with your life because you NEED this person financially or for security or because you're in love or because you're afraid to tell him or her that you're NOT in love anymore, but you can do it...

Plan your "escape", Stack your cash, make some connections, and LEAVE.

Now, if this person is REALLY crazy as hell, don't go anywhere that he or she can track you down!

If anything, use reverse psychology! Play the jealous lover role! Or, something. Nag him or her to death. Be a match-maker and hook him or her up with one of your enemies. Let those two bums have each other.

Do anything to make him or her LEAVE YOU (if the bum is crazy as hell).

If you have a good support system like family or friends or a co-worker to stay with for a while until you get back on your feet, that's always a plus. Just make sure you respect their hospitality, their friendship, and their home, so that will be there for you if ever you should need them again.

You should have plenty of people on your side. Everybody knows that's no way for anyone to live or be treated and are willing to help any way they can.

You just have to be willing to have the strength to help yourself.

I know some people feel beat-down so much that they're depressed and lack the motivation to make a move and get out their terrible situation. But, sometimes, you've just got to mad and say "the hell with shit! I'm out!"

And, pack your bags and get gone.

Don't worry about what you're gonna lose or what you're leaving behind... Forget that crap! Half of that stuff you don't need and the other half you probably weren't using anyway!

Some people will stick around in dire situations and suffer themselves to be another person's personal maid or slave just because they enjoy the comforts of the person's home or just because they're able to enjoy free cable and Internet service. WTF???

Man... Screw those luxuries and go and get your own shit!

I know a toxic relationship is a hundred times worse with an abusive psycho and you might fear making a move because you've never been on your own... But, you can Learn.

Screw those luxuries and go and get your own shit!

People out there are willing to help you.

Get out and ask questions and learn and talk to friends and family and whoever else and find you a safe place or a room mate and move on with your life.

You can do it!

Hell, I've made mistakes all my life and look at me now!

I ain't livin' "high on the hog", but guess what?

Life Is Good.

And, it can be good for you too. All you have to do is start making moves.

- loveqna

Toxic Relationships - Couples Who Love To Hate

Now, we all know that a good relationship can turn "toxic" BECAUSE of cheating, but let's talk about toxic relationships that CAUSE cheating - and/or break-ups.

A "Toxic Relationship" is a relationship full of anger, bitterness, animosity, spite, antagonism, revenge, vindictiveness, backstabbing, talking behind each other's backs, stubborness, rejection, etc.

For some people, it really is a life of hell. And, it can lead to depression and hopelessness. Not to mention, disassociation, reclusiveness, and a change in personality.

Have you ever had a fun bubbly friend - a lover of Life - whose personality and appearance changed for the worse after they got involved with some loser or a controlling-manipulating person?

I've seen it and it's not a pretty sight - especially when you look into the person's eyes and you can tell that they're "not all there". Philosophers have said that windows are the "eyes to the soul" and some of those people in toxic relationships have souls that are drained and sick. It's sad and pitiful.

A toxic relationship not only leads to cheating or breaking up, it drains you. It wastes your time and your life. It'll make you miss out on a lot of good opportunities and pleasures in life.

Toxic relationships rob you of energy, drive, motivation, clarity, focus, happiness, peace of mind, tranquility, ideas, inspiration, freedom, finances, good health, physical and sexual pleasure, confidence (for some people), a promising future, real love, adventure, opportunities,...

all the best that Life has to offer.

The reason why is because you're always dealing with a lot of foolishness, animosity, and confusion.

This jackass is always around (like a bad vibe) pissin' you off. Sometimes just with his or her presence.

Some people will spend all of their "productive" time trying to please this person or they're sitting at home trying to find ways to block-out all of the drama and keep their sanity.

Or, you do "non-productive" things because you simply want a break from the madness in your relationship.

You can't live your life like that...

Now, I'm not saying you should cheat. As bad as my last relationship was, I didn't do it. I didn't consider it. And, I don't want you to think I'm recommending it.

With that being said, I just want to say that most "bad" (or "toxic") relationships WILL drive a man or woman away - or drive him or her to cheating.

And sadly, a lot of partners don't take this into consideration when they're involved a relationship full of anger, arguments, spite, and all-around drama.

They think that they can just go on talking sh*t to their partner forever.

A sudden break-up or separation or their partner cheating is the last thing on their mind.

And what's REALLY amazing is: the partner who gets dumped or abandoned is SHOCKED and mad as hell when he or she finds out that his or her partner left or is leaving.

All that animosity...

They oughtta be grateful that their "enemy" is gone and out their life. They seem to want to keep the "battles" raging on.

Well, sometimes, it's the person who leaves that wants to keep the drama going.

They'll call asking about the TV:

"I wanna know what time you'll be home so I can come by there and get my TV."

"This ain't yo' damn TV. I paid for this TV."

"WHAT!?! YOU BETTER GIVE ME MY DAMN TV OR I'M GONNA COME OVER THERE AND BURN THAT DAMN HOUSE DOWN! AND I WANT MY DOG TOO!"

What the hell???

I know TVs now days don't come cheap, but some of those TVs that couples go to war over are so damn old, they still have knobs on them for changing the channels.

Let that old-ass bullsh*t go and move on with your life.

They ought to be thankful for the new opportunity to find Real Love, but no. What do they do?

KEEP FUSSIN' AND FIGHTIN'.

Accuse each other not being a good partner.

Blame each other for ruining the relationship.

Or, one accuses the other of cheating (which might be true).

Or, they fuss about lack of communication or lack of support.

Or, being unreliable.

Hell, they'll fuss about anything.

Have you ever noticed that some people will still want to argue and fight even after you've agreed with them or apologized or resolved the issue?

If they're not still arguing with you about it, they're running around telling other people about the situation instead of moving on with their life.

Sometimes there are two people in a relationship like that.

Their goal never seems to be to resolve their issues. Most of the time they just want to argue, complain, and blame each other for the relationship being so screwed-up. They'll get their friends and family involved. Haters will come out of the woodwork...

And, the crazy thing about it is: They'll break-up or separate, get back together, then, break-up again, and sometimes - get back together.

There are a lot of people out there who go through this B.S. every two or three weeks!

A "Love-Hate Relationship" is what most people call it.

These two love-birds can't stand to be with each other, but they can't seem to let each other go.

Sometimes (maybe often), it's sex that keeps them together.

Sometimes, one of them is attracted to the other one's beauty or sex-appeal and don't want to let go.

Sometimes, one of them isn't attracted to the other at all but goes back because he or she doesn't want the poor sap to feel bad. I hate to say it but it's true. I know there have been times when you've wanted to break someone's heart but didn't do it or avoided it because you didn't want him or her to feel bad.

Sometimes, kids are involved and the couple wants to make it work so the kids will have both parents in the home...

Who knows why they stay together.

Each couple has their own reason for trying to make things work when the relationship sucks.

You have people that will stay in a toxic relationship for years and years. And, it doesn't do EITHER PARTNER any good. They should split-up and fix their internal issues. THEN, when they're ready, find someone else or SOMETHING else that will enhance and inspire their lives.

They shouldn't jump right back into another relationship. Most of the time a break from romance is a good thing because it gives you a chance to get yourself together and "sort things out". Then, after you've healed, move on to someone new. Or, reunite if that's what you wanna do.

But, what causes these "toxic relationships"?

I've got a few "ideas" but let me say this first:

We're not talking about occasional arguments or disagreements. We're talking about arguments and bickering that is constant.

Some people even say that occasional arguments are good for a relationship because they allow partners to express themselves, get over past grievances or unspoken of issues, and to release tension and stress brought on by each other.

I believe it's true because some people seem to enjoy fussin, or banter, or sarcasm, every now and then.

But, a toxic relationship never starts out with both partners verbally jousting and throwing things at each other.

In the beginning, like most good relationships, it's all Love, Promises, and Sweet-Talk, and Huggin', and Kissin'. The two want to see each other all the time.

Then, after a few days, or a few months, or a few years, all the swooning and sweet-talk comes to an end. And, the couple who were once in love are like enemies.

There could be all kinds of B.S. going on, but USUALLY, it starts when ONE PARTNER gets pissed at the other one for:


Lack of Interest and Not making the effort

- being selfish and self-centered - doing his or her own thing

- NOT TRYING to improve the relationship, home-life, or his or her life

- not helping out around the house or with the kids or with repairs or with the bills

- being lazy as hell - that's more of a personality or incompatibility issue but it definitely affects the relationship long term.


Lack of Communication

- not discussing major purchases

- neglecting to discuss major changes in one's life (moving, health, etc)

- not wanting to talk or interact

- neglecting to share personal plans that affect both partners

But, Communication isn't just limited to conversation. You communicate with your actions as well - showing how you feel about the relationship and your partner through your actions. Being affectionate and flirtatious, considerate, thoughtful, helpful, supportive, etc.

When one partner rarely has a conversation with his or her partner or barely speaks when they DO talk to each other, this can lead to a dull, boring atmosphere filled with contempt and disgust and the search for something or some-ONE more exciting.


Backstabbing

Another great way a partner can ruin a good relationship or send it into the "toxic zone" is by talking about his or her partner behind his or her back. Or, by confiding in others - including strangers - about what's going on in the relationship. Friends don't like it when you tell other people their business, so why would your partner like it?

Women will chop your head off for doing this.

Usually, when this happens, the relationship is ON ITS WAY DOWNHILL anyway because the backstabber is getting sick and tired of the relationship and is close to giving up.

Misunderstandings, Poor Communication, and Making Assumptions

Usually, it's not ONE THING that will cause major drama, but sometimes there is. And, it could be anything.

The reason why this one issue is able to turn a relationship toxic is because a lot of hurtful and offensive things may be said that are unnecessary. And, one partner may never get over argument. He or she might despise the partner for the rest of their lives.


Trying to Control the relationship and Not Respecting one's partner

- not listening and ignoring his or her partner's ideas, opinions, views, or feelings

- trying to control the partner by guilt-tripping, putting excessive or irrational limitations on his or her lifestyle

- always complaining and ranting and putting his or her partner down

- using sexual limitations to toy with one's partner or play emotional games. Depriving him or her of their need for love, affection, and sensuous and physical contact


Complacency and Not Being Attentive to one's partner or the relationship

When a person gets complacent and allows the relationship to coast along, a neglected partner is the least of their worries. Not only do some people feel neglected - some of them get jealous!

The neglected ones might feel empty and unappreciated or unloved, but the jealous one's will feel the same way PLUS they'll imagine you're up to all kinds of mischief. They'll do things to spite you. They might even cheat in order to get revenge.

- not doing anything new or exploring new things

- not socializing with your partner - wanting to stay at home all the time (if your partner loves to go out) or vice versa

I'm not gonna say one partner is right and the other one is wrong, because either one could have a "good" reason for their actions or complaints.

But, if they can't work things out and settle the matter, it's still going to be a no-win situation.

So, can you see how any of these things can lead to a sorry pitiful piss-ass relationship?

A lot of people out here get a "rush" out of arguing and releasing anger. It makes them feel good.

These people have psychological and biological issues. They're f*ckin' nuts. Seriously. They don't know of any productive ways to release that anger so they take it out on their partners or family.

Some of those mean-spirited jackasses will come right out of "left field" with any kind of old stupid-ass sh*t to start an argument.

One day, I was minding my own business and getting ready for work and my girlfriend (my Ex) just kept staring at me. I don't know what the hell she wanted but I KNEW she wanted to start some sh*t.

All of a sudden, her stupid ass said, "Looks like your head is getting bigger."

wtf???

I started to say: "Bitch, you're fat and it looks like your stomach is getting bigger!"

She had put on a few pounds and I knew she was self-conscious about her weight, so I almost "went-off" and blasted on her ass.

But, I don't call women "B"s. Even though I use that word on this site a lot, it's for effect or to clarify a point.

Anyway...

I could care less what she thought.

But, why try to upset me before I go to work??? Why do that to anybody?

At work, you already have to deal with a lot of other foolishness and B.S. from supervisors, co-workers, and in some cases, customers, so why would you do something like that?

I even think she was disappointed that I didn't respond, because right after that, she asked me if I needed something or wanted her to do something. I don't even know what she said. I said "no" and kept it moving.

Sometimes, that's what you've gotta do to keep the peace and avoid that drama.

Keep your mind on other (more productive) things.

To hell with people like that.

Some ovem are just lazy as hell. They don't get out, mix or mingle, or exercise, so the easiest way to release all of that bottled-up energy is to argue, fuss, and complain about anything.

Well, that's all I have to say about it.

Once you see how a good relationship can go bad and turn into a toxic relationship, you will possess a deeper understanding about what makes men and women cheat and/or leave, and your supernatural instincts about love and romance will shoot through the roof.

If you don't believe me, think back on what you've seen, heard, and experienced about bad relationships... Eventually, it will all be revealed to you.

If you can't see it, you're not in tune with your "third eye".

See the Details. Get a second or third opinion. Keep your ear to the ground and listen close at some of these complaints you hear on the job, in school, or when you're out and about. Some of this drama is on TV too.

Search the Net. Some of these relationship complaints by REAL PEOPLE are on here as well.

Even celebrities go through this stuff...

What do think those "Irreconcilable Differences" listed on all of those DIVORCE papers are all about?

When one of your friends is in a relationship and dealing with drama like this, AND wants to know your opinion, consider these factors to help him or her out. Find out what's REALLY going on and what led to him, her, or their partner cheating or leaving the relationship.

Use your "third eye" to see past the whining, complaining, and sob story.

When your good instincts kick-in and you can see what's actually causing this drama, then you'll know what good advice to give or if you should give any at all. Some people want their relationship to improve. Some people just want to vent and move on.

- loveqna

Sometimes, A Break-Up Is A Good Thing

Breaking-up is hard to do, but it's often not the end of the world.

I AM lonely without a woman. It would be nice to have a sexy "sweet potato pie" to be smoochin' with right now. Or, at least someone of my own to admire, flirt with, and fantasize about.

Yeah, I guess I AM thinking of my old "battle-axe" ex-girlfriend right now. Mmmmph! Those sexy legs and pretty feet. The way she walks. And, she loves walking around in her panties and a t-shirt. Damn, that used to turn me on.

Good gracious...

And she's a little "freaky-deaky" too. A real wildcat (if you know what I mean).

Oh, Let me stop.

I don't miss that broad THAT much.

I'll take this big plush-ass bedroom, this big bed, my walk-in closet, and my full-size bathroom, over that loud-mouth witch ANY day.

I thought I'd be struggling - desperately trying to make ends meet without that broad in my life, but here I am in peaceful surroundings with more than six hundred bucks in the bank and my stock investments (which have almost doubled) blowing up like damn nitro.

I'm riding a bike to work but at least I don't have to ask anyone for a ride or wait on the bus...

I can talk to other chicks and give out my phone number (to female friends/co-workers) and not feel guilty or worry about it...

And, you know what the BEST part about all of this is?

NO DARK CLOUDS HANGING OVER MY HEAD.

That's right, ain't no dark clouds hangin' over My head.

I'm not angry anymore when I'm "Home".

I'm not irritated.

I'm not grouchy or grumpy when I'm here.

I don't have to listen to anybody screamin' and fussin' and complaining about anything.

I don't have to hear any stupid-ass sarcastic remarks and name-calling.

Ain't nobody trying to tear me down and bring down my self-esteem either. lol - which, that poor dizzy broad couldn't do it anyway. lol. She'd get angry because she could never say anything to break me down: "You got a smart answer for everything."

Damn right.

I could care less about the negative sh*t people like that say about me. Any ovem can kiss my ass. I don't care about their opinions, their outlook on Life and people, or what they think or believe or any of that sh*t.

I may hear some of the stuff those haters and hypocrits say, but usually, my mind is someone else, because I really don't care. I just keep it movin'.

And, now that I'm moved out, I done moved on, and I'm movin' up.

That's the way to do it, baby...

If you're in a bad relationship or a relationship that's NOT going in a positive direction, don't stress yourself out and worry about that bull-sh*t.

Let that sh*t GO.

Life is full of good days and bad days, but better days are always coming, and you got to grab a hold of them when you can.

Sometimes a break-up is THE Opportunity for you to enjoy the best in life or at least, better things in life.

It's an Opportunity for you to clear your Mind - and LIFE - of all the "Clutter" and "MESS" that's holding you down and keeping you from focusing and moving ahead.

Sometimes you need a Break away from all the madness so that you can evaluate your life and get on the proper course to getting what you REALLY want.

I'm Single, BUT, I'm "getting myself together".

With the experience I've gained and the improvements I'm making in my finances and "inner Self" (as far as being more peaceful and less stressed), when my NEXT relationship rolls around, I'll ready for it. I'll be able to put more into it and I'll be able to enjoy it more.

I wasn't ready for all of that Madness. I couldn't deal with such a fiery woman. I could "tune her out", but I couldn't keep her ass from raging.

That wench was stark raving mad...

If you're EVER in that position, take you a break. You probably need one and don't even know it.

I hear "fruit-cakes" and religious folks all the time say "Everything happens for a reason."

Hell, I don't know WHAT The Reason is...

But, I know I'm gonna enjoy this Blessing while I can...

And, if you should happen to get YOURS, (your Blessing)...

Don't let it pass you by.

You'd better Jump on it and ride it 'til the wheels fall off.

- loveqna

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FREE MAN IN THE MORNING

From a movie called "A Face In The Crowd"

I don't know if this movie is any good or not, but I found a clip from it that explains how I feel about my previous relationship...



Video provided by - mrdumpcrap

- loveqna