Why Do Some People Think Being A Virgin Is A Bad Thing?

I know I should be updating some of my earlier posts in which I published only notes, but I have to comment on a subject I recently came across on the Net.

There was a 27 year-old woman on a forum who was wondering whether or not she would still be desirable if guys found out that she was a virgin. And, there are lots of people out there with the same "blessing" who are wondering the same thing.

And, I say (many people say), "of course a guy or girl will date you if you're a virgin". It's not like you have the plague or something.

A virgin might be inexperienced (and some people might not like that), but overall, it's not a bad thing. Especially, if you've been focused and moved forward in your life and have grown spiritually - or even started a career and have something to show for yourself.

If you've "abstained" to stay pure for marriage, that's not a bad thing either. But, you'd better be "skilled" when the honeymoon comes or else your love life is going to boring as hell. Maybe. (some virgins are closet freaks and sexual addicts waiting to explode)

Some men and women would actually prefer to meet a virgin and settle down with him or her because of the virgin being pure.

Some men (I don't know how women feel about this) would love to teach a virgin the ways of Love and how to make love. Maybe it's even a fantasy for some guys, who knows.

Many people also believe virgins are more likely to be faithful because:

Number One - They have already proven they have self-control

Two - Many virgins (probably most) fall in love with their first lover

Three - A virgin is not going to be tempted sexually by a guy or girl no matter how hot the guy or girl is

But, there's more...

Can you imagine how hard it is for a single guy with no kids to meet a twenty-one year-old (or older) woman with no kids??? It's like searching for a needle in a damn haystack!

Hell, you'd be lucky to find a 27 year-old who ain't a grandma nowdays!

I'm just kidding.

But, baby-mamas and baby-daddies ARE running rampant as hell around here, aren't they???

But, seriously...

If you're a virgin, it ain't nothing to be ashamed about.

Don't feel pressured or odd because of what your friends and family says. They're just teasing you and having a bit of fun. And don't let the haters and manipulators talk you into doing something you might regret. They just want you to feel their pain. If any of them could do it all over again, they would wait too.


The only people that don't get this are the ones who have sex but who have no common sense or wisdom about love. or, they have no real relationship goals. they're just going with the flow of life.

You're cute and have great character. That's a prize catch by any man's (or woman's) standards.

As long as you and your choice are compatible and know how to enjoy all aspects of Life (sex included), you're gonna have a wonderful relationship. Just make sure you have chemistry on all levels before you settle down.

Everybody knows that virgins rock.

- loveqna