I'm still with my new roommate. Everything is fine.
I'm laying in bed checking out some of the forums on the Net. There's some weird stuff out there. And, funny as hell.
But, there are some sad folks out there too.
Here's a question from Yahoo! Answers.
Now, this chick is saying that she doesn't trust men and wants a dog (or two) for companionship... Now, I may be wrong, but I'm 99% sure that type of relationship is illegal. And, it's just plain crazy.
Ladies (and Guys), I know that trying to find a honest man or woman out here in the dating game is like trying to tap dance through a minefield. Hell, I've said it plenty of times. But, if you keep having bad luck with dates, then maybe it's not the people or prospects out here. Maybe it's You.
And, I don't mean that in a bad way.
I'm just saying that you need to step your game up.
- Improve on you instincts
- Don't rush into love
- Be stronger and don't give-in so easily to any requests or favors
- Be fair to yourself and do what's right for YOUR life (then, after you get to know the bum and commit to each other, then you do things to benefit the BOTH of your lives - but still be fair to yourself)
- Don't allow that hoodrat to talk to you in a demeaning way
- Be strong enough to leave - if you're crazy and can't let go of a toxic relationship - get your crazy-ass some help and get out
The main thing is: Don't think negative and give up so easily. Think positive and step-up your game.
Here's the question:
WIll I be lonely if I don't marry? Will having a roommate help then, if I stay single forever?
I do NOT ever want to have a committed relationship with a man at all. It's wasteful & i do NOT have trust for men. Most imo are self serving and very unreliable. But, living alone isn't easy, so will it be better to get a roommate? WIll I be lonely if I don't marry? I definitely want to get a dog or two. What do u say & Why?
The Answer:
As long as you have that attitude you probably WILL be single forever.
For one, you are walking around with a chip on your shoulder and it will show to the world.
And, if a good man - a man of quality - DOES happen to notice you, you will drive him away or get involved with him and make him miserable... OR, you will ruin your OWN happiness by living your life full of bitterness and pessimism. And, a woman with bad vibes is a terrible thing.
Maybe those dogs will love you, but it's just not right for someone to purposely deprive herself (or himself) of love. That's not living a complete life. Or, enjoying life to the fullest.
I know nuns and priests do it, but that's just weird as hell too. God didn't give them those emotions and feelings to NOT use. That's like buying a car and refusing to take keys. What are you gonna do, walk back to the dealership every once and a while to look at it??? That's Crazy.
And, while some people out there might suggest that you call up friends when you want someone to hang out with or talk to, the truth is: You're still going home alone.
And, unless your roommate is single or a loser, he or she will want to spend time with his or her partner sometimes. Or, they have their own obligations or plans to attend to. They can't come running to your poor pitiful ass every time you feel lonely and need some company. It might be okay for a while but AFTER a while, that crap will get old.
Now, that's not saying that you can't be single and love it. Some people claim that the "single life" is the best lifestyle in the world. But, many of those folks who love that lifestyle still go out on dates. They still mix and mingle. The ones that don't - and who shut the world out because they'd rather have their personal space and don't want to be encroached on are weird as hell and crazy as bat shit. I've seen'em. Those oddballs come into the store on Friday and Saturday nights looking "lost" as hell when they should be out having a good time with friends. Right? But here they are - strolling around (with that blank look on their faces) while we're about to lock the doors. Weirdos.
But, maybe that's what a mid-life crisis will do to some people.
I couldn't imagine getting old and not having someone in my life for companionship as well as for affection. I'd at least date on a regular basis.
Hell, you have to be sucker to deprive yourself of love and affection and want to masturbate your life away. That's weird as hell too.
It's bad enough that most of us will end up being alone when we get old anyway. At least have some fun and enjoy all the pleasures of Life while you can.
Okay, so Yeah, the world is full of hoes and dogs on both sides (men and women) but don't let that stop you getting the love you deserve... Get out and meet people. Stop being so picky. Take your time with dating. Have confidence. Stay cute and Be Sexy. Maintain self control and self-respect. Demand it. And, in the end, you'll find a good guy who wants to love you every way that you want to be loved. I'm sure of it.
- loveqna
I'm laying in bed checking out some of the forums on the Net. There's some weird stuff out there. And, funny as hell.
But, there are some sad folks out there too.
Here's a question from Yahoo! Answers.
Now, this chick is saying that she doesn't trust men and wants a dog (or two) for companionship... Now, I may be wrong, but I'm 99% sure that type of relationship is illegal. And, it's just plain crazy.
Ladies (and Guys), I know that trying to find a honest man or woman out here in the dating game is like trying to tap dance through a minefield. Hell, I've said it plenty of times. But, if you keep having bad luck with dates, then maybe it's not the people or prospects out here. Maybe it's You.
And, I don't mean that in a bad way.
I'm just saying that you need to step your game up.
- Improve on you instincts
- Don't rush into love
- Be stronger and don't give-in so easily to any requests or favors
- Be fair to yourself and do what's right for YOUR life (then, after you get to know the bum and commit to each other, then you do things to benefit the BOTH of your lives - but still be fair to yourself)
- Don't allow that hoodrat to talk to you in a demeaning way
- Be strong enough to leave - if you're crazy and can't let go of a toxic relationship - get your crazy-ass some help and get out
The main thing is: Don't think negative and give up so easily. Think positive and step-up your game.
Here's the question:
WIll I be lonely if I don't marry? Will having a roommate help then, if I stay single forever?
I do NOT ever want to have a committed relationship with a man at all. It's wasteful & i do NOT have trust for men. Most imo are self serving and very unreliable. But, living alone isn't easy, so will it be better to get a roommate? WIll I be lonely if I don't marry? I definitely want to get a dog or two. What do u say & Why?
The Answer:
As long as you have that attitude you probably WILL be single forever.
For one, you are walking around with a chip on your shoulder and it will show to the world.
And, if a good man - a man of quality - DOES happen to notice you, you will drive him away or get involved with him and make him miserable... OR, you will ruin your OWN happiness by living your life full of bitterness and pessimism. And, a woman with bad vibes is a terrible thing.
Maybe those dogs will love you, but it's just not right for someone to purposely deprive herself (or himself) of love. That's not living a complete life. Or, enjoying life to the fullest.
I know nuns and priests do it, but that's just weird as hell too. God didn't give them those emotions and feelings to NOT use. That's like buying a car and refusing to take keys. What are you gonna do, walk back to the dealership every once and a while to look at it??? That's Crazy.
And, while some people out there might suggest that you call up friends when you want someone to hang out with or talk to, the truth is: You're still going home alone.
And, unless your roommate is single or a loser, he or she will want to spend time with his or her partner sometimes. Or, they have their own obligations or plans to attend to. They can't come running to your poor pitiful ass every time you feel lonely and need some company. It might be okay for a while but AFTER a while, that crap will get old.
Now, that's not saying that you can't be single and love it. Some people claim that the "single life" is the best lifestyle in the world. But, many of those folks who love that lifestyle still go out on dates. They still mix and mingle. The ones that don't - and who shut the world out because they'd rather have their personal space and don't want to be encroached on are weird as hell and crazy as bat shit. I've seen'em. Those oddballs come into the store on Friday and Saturday nights looking "lost" as hell when they should be out having a good time with friends. Right? But here they are - strolling around (with that blank look on their faces) while we're about to lock the doors. Weirdos.
But, maybe that's what a mid-life crisis will do to some people.
I couldn't imagine getting old and not having someone in my life for companionship as well as for affection. I'd at least date on a regular basis.
Hell, you have to be sucker to deprive yourself of love and affection and want to masturbate your life away. That's weird as hell too.
It's bad enough that most of us will end up being alone when we get old anyway. At least have some fun and enjoy all the pleasures of Life while you can.
Okay, so Yeah, the world is full of hoes and dogs on both sides (men and women) but don't let that stop you getting the love you deserve... Get out and meet people. Stop being so picky. Take your time with dating. Have confidence. Stay cute and Be Sexy. Maintain self control and self-respect. Demand it. And, in the end, you'll find a good guy who wants to love you every way that you want to be loved. I'm sure of it.
- loveqna
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