What Women Don't Know About Men And Love* - notes

I just realized it's after midnight, so I'll have to post this tomorrow after I get off of work. And, I'd like to talk to some of my co-workers about what "Men Don't Know About Women And Love".

Both of these will be short posts, but I've been thinking about this subject for a few years now.

notes...

Women think all men would rather have lots of women

women think all men would cheat if they had the opportunity

most women think men don't like romance or to be romantic

most women think all men don't know how to be romantic

women don't realize men get broken-hearted

men fear being cheated on and manipulated

all men don't cheat

there are men out there looking for love and marriage and families - open your eyes

some guys are waiting on ms. right and real love before they get intimate

there are men out there that believe in "happily ever after" - and these ain't sensitive men and wimps either

dumb jokes and brain-washing through the propagation of myths keep women in the blind

how a woman can tell if a man really loves her or not (possible notes) doesn't apply to all men in love (some men show their love by serving,

- showing her off
- calling her to see how she's doing - wanting to make sure she's happy and safe
- calling her to see if she wants to spend time with him - wanting to be with her when possible
- being generous
- not giving her rules - like "call me before you come over". he wants to see her as much as he can
- when something great happens to him, he wants to tell her first
- being respectful
- accepting her how she is and not trying to change her
- doing everyday things for her without her asking - anyone can do something special here and there
- maybe a little jealous at times maybe
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different men have different ways of showing love

men really do fall in love

reading men - what does the prospect want? your love or your body?

things that make men fall in love - only one: overall package but personality is most important after he gets to know her. this goes for anyone.

is she fun
is she adventurous
is she smart
is she supportive
is she kind
is she loyal
is she faithful
is she trustworthy

beauty does play a part in love for some men but does that kind of love last or does it disappear when she gets old?

what captivates the man (or mesmerizes him) to the point that he's thinking about the woman all the time and can't let go?

what does he admire about her? each man is different and each woman is different therefore what affects the man depends on the vibe of the woman and her game.

does he appreciate her mind, her style, her abilities? the way she looks at life? the way she deals with the world? her philosophies? is she regal? her accomplishments? the way she treats him?

a woman should be able to feel when a man truly loves her and when he doesn't - if she can't, she's not using her instincts. or she may be in love, obsessed, and blind to the reality of the situation

two people who are in love usually will operate or live on the same wavelength and feel each others' vibes.

chemistry is major and leads to real love

- a connection is only a connection and not as strong as chemistry
- men who want to love look for same connections that women look for
- having common interests, goals, taste, backgrounds, opinions (but these do not guarantee chemistry or love

chemistry can be on a friendly level and not on a romantic level

could a man in love cheat (have discussed this before in earlier post)

a woman should not test a man's love but some women do this - especially those who try to make the man jealous or drag him into altercations or fights

love can ruin a man's life - is this why some men avoid it by being a player? to avoid being a sucker?

does being a player make a man numb to love? true. he doesn't give the woman a chance to win his heart or give love a chance to affect him.

no one can fight love if it's true love, it will conquer you

a man can fall in love with different things about a woman and not fall in love with her - therefore, he'll keep her in order for no one else to have her

does he love her or does he love tormenting her? domineering. control freak? can't find anyone else? why does he do this?

a woman should never try to force love or plead for love, if it's not there there's nothing she or the man can do about it. he can be faithful and loyal and kind, but love has to take hold on its own

why do men suffer abuse instead of leaving the relationship like some abused women?

men who return to a cheater - list real life examples or famous examples?