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I'm Selling The Farm And Getting The Hell Out Of Dodge!

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  "Hi-Oh, Silver! Awaaaaaay!" - I'm Out Like The Lone Ranger Well, I did it... I escaped. It took a while, and my plans didn't go as planned, but I was able to get the hell out of that crazy-ass "relationship". If you read my two earlier posts, then you know a couple of bad things (like this Coronavirus and people moving in on me and running my bills up) had to happen in order for my plot to run away from home to be successful. But, I wrote down my "Goals" and kept updating my "To-Do List" constantly to stay on track. * Even when things didn't happen when they were supposed to happen, I stayed the course. * Even when it seemed like I only had "bad luck", I kept visualizing the end goal. * I prayed. My co-workers and "friends" doubted me. They thought I was in love and really didn't want to get out of that "relationship". I know it was difficult for them to listen to my perpetual sob story and me not t...

Things You Never Hear People Talk About After A Toxic Relationship Break-Up

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(September 21, 2020) A while back, I posted an ABC news story about a guy who ran off and left his family. They thought he was dead... Until he was found 23 years later - remarried and "living it up" down in Florida.  To this day, nobody really knows why he ran away from home. His wife said they had a great life - or so, she thought it was a great life until he abandoned them - but, I never found any kind of videos or articles that shared his side of the story.  And, I know a lot of people would say: "There's no excuse for leaving your family and abandoning your kids!" Well, let me say this... You never know what kind of outlandish B.S. is going on in someone's relationship until you're walking in their shoes. If you had to put up with some of the crap a lot of toxic couples go through with each other, you'd probably crack and run away from home too. It's better to do that than to make things worse. Look at the all the tragic events and drama tha...

Feeling Like Life Is Passing You By? Just Stop Wasting Your Time.

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 Video: "Holding Back The Years" - Simply Red     Video provided by -  Simply Red     (Sometime in August...)   I wish I could tell you a fascinating story about the last 5 or 6 years of my life, but to be honest, the most important - and saddest - thing that happened to me was a revelation (or an "awakening") I experienced last week. Before I tell you what happened, I just want to make something perfectly clear: I'm not a motivational coach. Nor am I a life coach. And, I'm 100% certain you have already heard the point of what I'm about to say. And, if I start preachin', forgive me. But, I'm gonna say it anyway because it's still important. And, you should take heed or you will suffer and hate yourself later in life if you don't. Hell, you might even regret how you lived your life if you don't pay attention to this wisdom. And, before I tell you what happened to me and go off on a rant, let me just say this... Althoug...

DAMN! Now SHE has found This Blog AND my YouTube Channel! 😫

If you have never felt trapped in a relationship for a long period of time, I can tell you firsthand that it really will drive you to the point of doing the unthinkable. I didn't snap or anything, but I was walking around in the middle of the night cussin' at the wind, cussin' at the sidewalk, cussin' at the past, and cussin' at myself. It was stress, frustration, irritation, anger, sadness, and just plain being "sick and tired" of everything and everyone around me.   This is all MY fault. I got myself into this because I was "doing the right thing" by helping people who needed help. That's what we're all supposed to be doing on this great green earth, right? We're supposed to be helping each other or helping others when we can.   Now, that philosophy was biting me in the backside. And, I was starting to hate everything I was taught... I hated my upbringing and beliefs, but I couldn't turn away from it. I was even mad at my f...

YouTube Video: Funniest joke you’ve ever heard about being late. Andy Woodhull - Full Special

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Video provided by - Dry Bar Comedy *Click on the link to subscribe to Dry Bar Comedy's YouTube channel loveqna.blogspot.com (back to top) You are welcome to share your opinion, suggestion, or personal story on Love.QnA. Most articles, interviews, videos, vlogs, stories, jokes, and documentaries can be found on various dating sites and YouTube sites here on the Internet. I focus on toxic relationships and relationship drama in order to turn the negatives of a relationship into positives. My main goal is to help others find a compatible partner/team player OR see the positives of being single and enjoying the single life.

YouTube Video: Why Men & Women Are Different. Mike Paramore

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Video provided by - Dry Bar Comedy *Click on the link to subscribe to Dry Bar Comedy's YouTube channel loveqna.blogspot.com (back to top) You are welcome to share your opinion, suggestion, or personal story on Love.QnA. Most articles, interviews, videos, vlogs, stories, jokes, and documentaries can be found on various dating sites and YouTube sites here on the Internet. I focus on toxic relationships and relationship drama in order to turn the negatives of a relationship into positives. My main goal is to help others find a compatible partner/team player OR see the positives of being single and enjoying the single life.

YouTube Video: 7 Incredibly Awkward ‘Catfish’ Meetups 😬 Ranked: Catfish

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Video provided by - MTV Catfish *Click on the link to subscribe to  MTV Catfish's YouTube channel loveqna.blogspot.com (back to top) You are welcome to share your opinion, suggestion, or personal story on Love.QnA. Most articles, interviews, videos, vlogs, stories, jokes, and documentaries can be found on various dating sites and YouTube sites here on the Internet. I focus on toxic relationships and relationship drama in order to turn the negatives of a relationship into positives. My main goal is to help others find a compatible partner/team player OR see the positives of being single and enjoying the single life.

YouTube Video: 5 ‘Catfish’ Couples w/ Surprise Happy Endings 💘 | Catfish: The TV Show

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Video provided by - MTV Catfish *Click on the link to subscribe to  MTV Catfish's YouTube channel loveqna.blogspot.com (back to top) You are welcome to share your opinion, suggestion, or personal story on Love.QnA. Most articles, interviews, videos, vlogs, stories, jokes, and documentaries can be found on various dating sites and YouTube sites here on the Internet. I focus on toxic relationships and relationship drama in order to turn the negatives of a relationship into positives. My main goal is to help others find a compatible partner/team player OR see the positives of being single and enjoying the single life.

YouTube Video: Story time| I WAS SCAMMED BY MY OWN BOYFRIEND! Relationship Scammer| Single Mom Vlog

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Ahhh... Spring is nearly upon us, and you know what that means: Lust and Love will be in the air. And, there will be a lot of desperate folks out there trying to find their soulmate or anyone who'll have them. So, be careful! Don't get caught-up riding the bandwagon... There will be - and always has been - unsavory pimps, players, con-artists, scam artists, bums, and manipulators waiting on an unsuspecting poor clueless lamb to use, abuse, and control. Remember to be on the look-out for bums and beggars! Once that begging starts, it won't stop. Once they start trying to make you feel self-doubt about yourself, you have to stand your ground - and, give some serious thought about kicking him or her to the curb. Never doubt yourself and don't give up on your hopes and dreams to people who don't believe in you. Don't allow yourself to be put in a situation where you're explaining Everything All The Time. Even more worse than that is "Guilt-Tripping...

YouTube/VH1 Video: Iman Shumpert On Falling In Love w/ Teyana Taylor | How We Met | Teyana & Iman

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There is something about "How We Met" stories that I just love. I don't know if it's all the obstacles and complications that people have to fight through to get together or if it's the sparks that flew when they first met or kissed... Maybe it's the approach and the chase - I don't know what it is, but I really like hearing stories about how people met and started their relationships. Maybe I still have hope about finding true love... Or, maybe I'm just like other humans and love a good story. Who knows. Anyway... Here's a short romantic story you might enjoy. To be honest, it's not one of my favorites because it's way too short. Hella short. And, although as a basketball fan, I like Iman Shumpert (Cleveland Cavaliers), I don't know why he is trying to be "poetic" or "dramatic" in telling his version of the story. Just tell the damn story, man. And, give us all the juicy details. Video provided by - VH1 *C...

YouTube Video: People Share Their Best Break-Up Advice

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After checking out this video, you should not only know how to get over a break-up, but you should also be able to help your friends and other unfortunate souls find their best ways to get over a break-up. All situations are different. If your break-up is due to being dumped or ghosted by a cheater, it may take more time to get over the humiliation and disloyalty. If you suffered a break-up after trying to change your looks it may take a huge chunk out of your self-esteem and distort your reality. Nevertheless, you must keep moving forward. The worst break-up can come when you're down and need help and the bum you thought was "ride-or-die" and "holding you down", was actually an opportunist, a moocher, or weak and led you on for months and months or years and years. Video provided by - BuzzFeedVideo *Click on the link to subscribe to BuzzFeedVideo's YouTube channel loveqna.blogspot.com (back to top) You are welcome to share your opinion, ...

YouTube Video: The Unstoppable Power of Letting Go

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Guys and Girls, here is a superb TEDx Talks lesson about how to break free of a stagnant or dead-end relationship with someone who doesn't have goals, plans, or a sense of urgency when it comes life or romantic relationships. ??? Sense of Urgency??? Si. Life is short. Don't rush, but don't drag your feet or lollygag either. Time flies whether you're frustrated and anxious or loving life and having fun. Invest your time and energy where you have the best chances of establishing a connection, a bond, chemistry, and real love. Video provided by - TEDx Talks *Click on the link to subscribe to TEDx Talks' YouTube channel loveqna.blogspot.com (back to top) You are welcome to share your opinion, suggestion, or personal story on Love.QnA. Most articles, interviews, videos, vlogs, stories, jokes, and documentaries can be found on various dating sites and YouTube sites here on the Internet. I focus on toxic relationships and relationship drama in order to tu...

YouTube Video: The Secret of Becoming Mentally Strong | Amy Morin | TEDxOcala

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"Before you can change your world, you first have to believe you can change it." - Amy Morin “The strength of your mind determines the quality of your life.” ― Edmond Mbiaka    “The ability to continue moving when you are feeling scared, fearful or lazy is the sign of true mental strength.” ― Matthew Donnelly  “Change what you can, manage what you can't.” ― Raymond McCauley "As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live." -- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Video provided by - TEDx Talks *Click on the link to subscribe to TEDx Talks' YouTube channel loveqna.blogspot.com (back to top) You are welcome to share your opinion, suggestion, or personal story on Love.QnA. Most articles, interviews, videos, vlogs, stories, jokes, and documentaries can be found on various dating sites and YouTube sites here on the Internet. I focus on toxic relationships and relationship drama in order to turn the negatives of a...

YouTube Video: Russell Brand On Getting Over His Ex-Girlfriends

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If you still have trouble getting over your ex, allow Russell Brand to share his philosophy and experience on how to move on from a broken relationship and live your best life in the present. Video provided by - Russell Brand *Click on the link to subscribe to Russell Brand's YouTube channel loveqna.blogspot.com (back to top) You are welcome to share your opinion, suggestion, or personal story on Love.QnA. Most articles, interviews, videos, vlogs, stories, jokes, and documentaries can be found on various dating sites and YouTube sites here on the Internet. I focus on toxic relationships and relationship drama in order to turn the negatives of a relationship into positives. My main goal is to help others find a compatible partner/team player OR see the positives of being single and enjoying the single life.

YouTube Video: KFC x Crocs. Not for human consumption.

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Style and Attraction go hand-in-hand, that's one reason why I'm posting this video. To save you from going too far over the top and scaring your soulmate away is the other reason why I'm posting this video. I'm not trying to shock you, but I swear, you won't believe this. Colonel Sanders is going to leap from his grave and kick somebody dead in the ass... Have you seen these "chicken shoes" created by Crocs and KFC? I believe "everyone is entitled to their own style" just as much as the next man, but if I see a chick wearing these kicks, I'm calling the fashion police. For those of you who have foot fetishes, I'm not hatin'. Push play and enjoy. Video provided by - KFC *Click on the link to subscribe to KFC's YouTube channel loveqna.blogspot.com (back to top) You are welcome to share your opinion, suggestion, or personal story on Love.QnA. Most articles, interviews, videos, vlogs, stories, jokes, and documentar...

Blind Dates Play Truth or Drink (Andrew & Megan) | Truth or Drink | Cut

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Truth or Drink sounds like fun, but just for record, I'm not promoting drinking, getting drunk or alcohol. To be honest, I rarely drink at all. But... if you're a drinker and you're drinking in a safe place, you might enjoy this game. * Remember: They're doing this in a studio in front of other people. So, it's probably best to do this among friends or in a group setting. What I really like about this game is the fact it gives you a few good/funny questions that you can use on dates - with your partner or a romantic prospect - to help ease tension or shyness. Good Luck! 🥰 Video provided by - Cut *Click on the link to subscribe to Cut's YouTube channel loveqna.blogspot.com (back to top) You are welcome to share your opinion, suggestion, or personal story on Love.QnA. Most articles, interviews, videos, vlogs, stories, jokes, and documentaries can be found on various dating sites and YouTube sites here on the Internet. I focus on toxic relatio...

YouTube Video: Can 2 Strangers Fall in Love with 36 Questions? Claudio + Victoria

A psychologist conducted an experiment that could lead any two people to fall in love with just 36 questions. In this YouTube video, Jubilee puts the experiment to the test to see exactly what would happen if they brought 2 complete strangers together to answer the 36 questions on a blind date. Do you think it's really possible??? Watch the video for yourself to see what happens. In fact, they have a few videos about this experiment that you can view and judge for yourself. Better still, why don't you try the experiment on your partner or on a romantic prospect. It's a great activity for a first date or even a couple's date-night for connecting and bonding.  Video provided by - Jubilee *Click on the link to subscribe to Jubilee's YouTube channel loveqna.blogspot.com (back to top) You are welcome to share your opinion, suggestion, or personal story on Love.QnA. Most articles, interviews, videos, vlogs, stories, jokes, and documentaries can ...

YouTube Video: Can 2 Strangers Fall in Love with 36 Questions? Russell + Kera

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A psychologist conducted an experiment that could lead any two people to fall in love with just 36 questions. In this YouTube video, Jubilee puts the experiment to the test to see exactly what would happen if they brought 2 complete strangers together to answer the 36 questions on a blind date. Do you think it's really possible??? Watch the video for yourself to see what happens. In fact, they have a few videos about this experiment that you can view and judge for yourself. Better still, why don't you try the experiment on your partner or on a romantic prospect. It's a great activity for a first date or even a couple's date-night for connecting and bonding. Video provided by - Jubilee *Click on the link to subscribe to Jubilee's YouTube channel loveqna.blogspot.com (back to top) You are welcome to share your opinion, suggestion, or personal story on Love.QnA. Most articles, interviews, videos, vlogs, stories, jokes, and documentaries can be found on...

YouTube Video: i got cheated on again...

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I was on YouTube today and found this heartbreaking video about a girl who was cheated on. Now, I felt bad for her, really, but at the same time, it made me think about the old truism "there are two sides to every story". And, that's the problem: We're always looking at the faults and crimes of the cheater. We're ALWAYS looking at the drama from one side. I believe if more people started looking at both sides, then there might be less cheating going on in this world. I may be wrong, but I think all of us can REDUCE the chances of being cheated on if we looked at BOTH sides of the story instead of just looking at OUR SIDE of the story. It's not always about the "victim" doing something wrong. And sometimes, it's not about the cheater WANTING to do wrong. Sometimes, it's just about the situation or circumstances. Let me ask you a serious question... Why do you think certain people get cheated on over and over again in their relationships...