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Showing posts with label free. Show all posts

RnR: PERMANENT Hair Removal With Electrolysis

If you've ever considered permanent hair removal, electrolysis is the way to go. Check out some of these videos and some of the others on YouTube more info.

Is electrolysis permanent hair removal?

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- loveqna

Why It's Hard For A Booty-Call To Develop Into Something More

There's an old saying that goes: "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"

This is the philosophy of the men and women who appreciate "friends with benefits" relationships or "a relationship of convenience" with a man or woman who is strictly a "booty-call".

It's difficult to get emotionally involved with a person who is simply a "booty-call" because the only reason a man or woman needs a person like that is for sex. They may not care who else the person is dating or sleeping with or what they do with their free time. All they care about is satisfying their sexual desires or fetishes.

Unlike a "friends with benefits" relationship, you don't take a "booty-call" or "sexual partner" out on dates or go to social events with them. You don't necessarily go out in public or chill together. They are in your life only to help you with your sexual needs.

So, although they might have "fun" together and enjoy each other sexually, they fight their emotions so as not to get attached to one another.

They may even have an "understanding" about their relationship and never contact each other on a regular basis. Sometimes, it's "just business".

The only time they might meet is at a nightclub, a hotel, or a bar - if they're not hooking-up in a local park or parking lot after work.


In fact, these two "booty-calls" may already BE in relationships. Sometimes long-term relationships. But, they use each other to get what they're not getting at home sexually. They're getting all of the other "benefits" but good loving ain't one of them.

Maybe their partner is boring in bed. Or, too small. Or, unable to perform. Or, too prudish. Sometimes, the man or woman just wants "something different". Every cheater has their own reasons for straying.

But, a booty-call is not limited to people who are in "committed relationships". Single folks enjoy booty-calls as well. Sometimes, these single folks are just sex addicts plain and simple. They're like "free spirits". They go out looking for action. Their goal in life is to have fun and to have sex. They don't want a commitment. They enjoy having booty-calls. You can go on some of these adult dating websites and find the pages packed with profiles of those looking for quick romp.

And, I hate to say it, but some people are booty-calls and don't even know it.

(I'm not going to put anybody on blast because discussion of some situations may make some people have second thoughts about their relationships, or falsely judge the circumstances of their relationship.)

Now, personally, I've never seen or heard of a long-term booty-call developing into anything more than what it is in the beginning. I've known some people to get attached and want more, but usually, the other "partner" doesn't want to take things any further because they're either married, involved in a long-term relationship, or enjoy being single. It causes a little bit of drama (sometimes "break-ups") but usually the booty-calls continue - at least for a while.

And, that's how most booty-calls remain - strictly business. No love. No promises. No commitments.

But, there are some relationships that have Started Off as a booty-call and have developed into more than just a "relationship of convenience".

When this happens, usually one of the "partners" is waiting to get out of relationship or get a "break" from a relationship so that he or she can fully commit to the booty-call, or at least, become "a friend with benefits".

I know in one case where a crackhead kept taking his (non-druggie) friend home with him and the friend got to know the wife pretty well. And one night, while the crackhead was out on the hunt for a score of crack, his friend was at his house "getting jiggy" with his wife. Well, a few booty-calls later and they were living together. A few years later, and they were married. And, even before they got married, they were buying a home and starting a family. So, they're probably still together.

Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn't.

That's why some cheaters break-up with the booty-call they cheated with or end up getting cheated on BY the booty-call they cheated with. Emotions get involved. They try to date or start a relationship, and it just doesn't work out.


The cheater thinks he or she has found love and all the while the booty-call has another booty-call on the side or, he or she doesn't want to be in a committed relationship. Maybe because the booty-call is a "free spirit". Maybe it's because the booty-call enjoys the benefits of his or her present life or lifestyle.


So, they may or may not have more than a "sexual connection". But, when one or both "partners" are free to date, that's when they find out if there is more to be discovered between each other.

It's a gamble like almost everything else in life.

All I can say is: If you don't want to be a booty-call, get to know the person and know what you're getting into before you give up the booty.

Don't lose your mind and go in with great expectations right off the bat. Use your good instincts and Intuition and take heed to the game, because all the sweet-talk and begging later on ain't gonna change the situation or the person's mind if a booty-call is all he or she wants.

And that reminds me of another saying: "You can lead a horse to water and make him drink. But, watch out when he starts pissing because he might piss on you."

- loveqna

Good Vibes - The Real Confidence Booster - notes

I'm gonna try to keep this short because I want to post other notes to help you just in case you decide to go out partying this weekend...

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Macy Gray - Beauty In The World



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In one of the previous posts (How To Improve (or Boost) Confidence - Tactics and Techniques - notes) I suggested that you should want to tap into your psyche and realize any activity, situation, object, or idea that might help you boost your confidence and to use it as a catalyst or a vehicle to ignite AND maintain your confidence in social situations.

If money gives you swagger, stack some cash.

If you feel better when your hair and nails are done, go to the beauty shop and tell them to fix you up.

If having a nice car makes you feel better about yourself, focus on treating yourself to that.

But, what if you're broke (poor) and can't afford to get your hair and nails done? Or, you can't afford the payments on a hot car???

What do you look to or WHERE do you look for confidence then?

One way is through achievement of your goals.

Think about it...

When you accomplish ANY goal, no matter how large or small, you feel better when you've gotten the thing taken care of and done with. You feel better because you don't have to worry, stress, or attend to it any more.

You might even feel proud about it and tell people all you had to go through to get the goal accomplished.

But, you really feel good because you now move on with your life and work on something new or chill. And, you have more time to do other things than to mess with THAT goal anymore. You're Free from what EVER it was you HAD to do.

Who likes running errands?

Who likes doing home repairs?

Who likes going waiting in lines?

Nobody!

But, once you get those chores done and out of the way, you feel a heck of a lot better because you feel free!

Your wife (or husband) is happy. You don't have to fight traffic or waste your time stopping by the store when you could be spending valuable time working on your golf swing.

You now have your life back and you can relax and do whatever you like because you don't have to plan or work and re-work your schedule to attend to those goals.

Imagine that feeling for a moment...

Being free.

You don't owe anyone anything.

You're not obligated to anyone to do anything.

There's no place you have to be at a certain time.

No deadlines.

You can go wherever you want to go and come and go as you please.

No questions asked.

Imagine having that much freedom when you go out and socialize...

You can stay as long as you like and have as much fun as you want to have.

Now, let's dig a little bit deeper.

Let's imagine that you don't owe anyone anything.

You're not obligated to anyone for anything.

You don't need anything from anyone.

You don't have to impress anyone.

Again, you're free.

Your only goals are to follow your own rules, do what you like, and to have a good time.

You can strike up a conversation with whomever you want and talk about whatever you like.

The idea is to be free and to enjoy life.

It's all about having a good time no matter what material possessions you have or don't have.

It's all about having fun and enjoying life no matter how you look or how much money you've got.

People criticize and judge, but everybody is not judging You.

And, if they are, so what? Who cares???

You're your own Man or Woman.

You know what you want and you that eventually you will get it. And, deep down, you know HOW to get it. Nothing can stop you except You. And, because you know what you're about; and you know your heart, and what you have to offer to the World; Now is the time to relax, let your hair down, and have fun.

Keep that in mind.

Live Free and Enjoy Your Life.

- loveqna

RADIO - Desi Husband Caught Cheating On His Wife

Some people think this radio broadcast is hilarious and to be honest, I was also shocked and laughed at the explanation this guy gave for cheating on his wife. BUT! As I have stated in my previous posts about "Why Men And Women Cheat For Sex", people WILL cheat if they are bored in the bedroom. Sometimes they want something a little more exciting or something "different".

Don't just listen to this broadcast. Think! And, Use your Intuition before it's too late!

If your sex-life is as dull as a flashlight cop's 3rd shift gig, then it's time for you to step your game up immediately. Go get that booty!

Be open. Be more flirtatious and assertive. Clean yourself up and smell like a dream come true from head to toe. Dress sexier. Experiment with new techniques and situations before it all goes downhill and leads to some B.S. like this.

The thing that probably messed this relationship up is that some strange woman got her hands on this man before his wife did. However, he could've already been having sexual fantasies about other women beforehand. But, who knows what goes on in the mind of a cheater unless you get him or her to open up? Even if you're wasting your time with this slob, you should still want to know...

Don't wait until it's too late to find out!

...or, this could happen to you.



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- loveqna

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