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A lot of professional quack psychologists and "investigative reporters" will tell the public and anybody dumb enough to believe them that all young men are attracted to older women because older women are more mature, confident, and powerful, but we all know this ain't so. Some older women act just as youthful as some of these younger women. And those "old babes" date younger men regularly. Those "experts" also try to convince the public that a relationship between a younger man and an older woman (or vice versa) has a slim chance of success. All relationships these days have a slim chance of success. Look at the divorce rate. Surf the Net and take a look at how many people are suffering from relationship problems. Watch TV and talk shows and check out how many "normal" couples there are dealing with relationship issues and drama. NO RELATIONSHIP is completely safe from failure. The truth is: Each man has his own reasons for dating older ...

Why is it so hard for a man to understand his woman or so easy for a woman to CLAIM to understand her man yet NOT understand why he isn't happy in his relationship or why he would cheat on her with someone else? Maybe he's not so simple to understand after all. What causes this "lack of understanding"? Stereotyping... Believing all men are the same and all women are the same. Instead of the man paying attention to his woman and trying to learn her crazy-ass ways, he ignores her, avoids her, and is satisfied with the idea that "all women are complicated and can't be figured out." Don't follow in his footsteps or you'll be as miserable as he is. DON'T TRY TO FIGURE ALL WOMEN OUT. You can't. ALL WOMEN AREN'T THE SAME. Each one has different habits, interests, issues, preferences, personalities, wants, needs, etc. So, don't try to figure ALL of them out. Stop stereotyping all of these complicated-ass women and focus on the lun...

Number Ten: Most relationship books or articles will tell you "the number one reason relationships fail is due to lack of communication". Or, they may say: "Communication is the key to all successful relationships." I can't knock that. It's true. You will have a much better chance of meeting the right girl or guy and having a relationship that's "the bomb" if you focus on communication. But, there is much more to it than that. "Communication" isn't just about listening to a woman whine about her problems, or talking when you have issues, or making sure you both are on the same page with the expenses, bills, and errands. Communication is also about showing each other attention - showing that you care and that you're interested in each other; that you appreciate and like (or love) the person that you're with or trying to "sell" yourself to. Here are a few ways to Communicate and to show your lover some attention. I...

Number Five: If you're a "home-body" and don't go out that often, then of course, you'll reduce your chances of finding your SoulMate. If you want to find that special girl or guy, you have to get out, network, mix and mingle, and socialize. Some people actually sit around - daydreaming - waiting for Love to fall in their laps. I had a friend tell me one time that he wasn't going to look for love and that if his SoulMate was out there, she would find him. I said to myself: "What if she's sitting around at home waiting too?" I'm not saying you have to be out there looking under every rock or flashing money and trinkets to get the attention of some good "prospects", BUT, you have to at least be willing to meet The Girl or Guy Of Your Dreams half way. God may shower you with Blessings but some of those Blessings ain't gonna fall right in your lap. Many of them will be scattered around and require that you put in a little work or ...

If you pay attention and learn the method I'm about to show you, I can almost guarantee you that you will find your SoulMate. I've used this method over and over again and I've found my Soulmate at least six or seven times... But before you even start there's one thing you must make sure of: And that is... You HAVE to have your Mind right. If you don't, it's just the same as going shopping all day for a new outfit or a pair of shoes (or a new car) and coming back home empty-handed with nothing but frustrations. That's a waste of time, gas, money, and peace of mind. And meeting your SoulMate is way more important than than a pair of shoes or an outfit. So, You can't go out in "The Field" looking for "Mr. Goodbar" or "Ms. Right" if you don't have the proper state of mind. So, this is what it takes to get your mind right (not in any particular order): Number One: Know WHERE the type of person you would like to mee...

If you've ever been in serious relationship, living with a boyfriend or girlfriend, or married, then you know that "just packing up and leaving" is not always as easy as it sounds. Some people can do it. Some people can't. Some people have no choice - especially if your mate puts your ass out before you can leave. And even then, some of those people (the ones that don't want to be in the relationship) beg to go back because they have no money or nowhere else to go. You might have "friends" or associates or coworkers that listen to all of your problems about your relationship drama and recommend that you leave the relationship but none of those people are offering you an invitation to stay at their house. Only your true friends and family are gonna do that. And some of them may only do it if it's an emergency - like you just got your ass kicked and they feel sorry for you. Everybody's got their own story and reason for staying... Some may be...

I'm sure there are a gazillion reasons why men and women end up in suck-ass (bad) relationships. You may be in one right now. If you're not, I'll bet a billion bucks you know somebody who is "trapped and shackled" in one right now. Whipped. Sad. Depressed. And probably going crazy. It's a common tragedy. Every where, there are people out there suffering in these suck-ass relationships. I'm in the worst situation of my life, but it's also the best situation of my life. I'm torn two ways about it. I'm thankful for it because I'm learning from it, but I also hate it because I hate a lot of drama. The girl has a big mouth and talks a lot of trash - constantly. No respect for me whatsoever. But that's my test - to learn how to deal with such adversity, overcome it, and keep my sanity. How did I end up here? She was too fine and sexy to resist. I liked her style. She was sexy, and to be totally honest, I thought she was the "Girl Of ...

I've got about 20 or so books on how to improve my relationship. But, I didn't buy them to learn how to improve my relationship. I bought them to learn how to improve my writing because someday I hope to write a book. I see women (friends and family members) with some of these same books in their personal library at home. Most of these books are full of crap and repeat the same crap over and over again. And a lot of people (men and women) believe the sh*t that's in these books. More than likely because they don't have a lot of experience in romantic relationships or because they don't learn from the experiences that they DO have with romantic relationships. I haven't been able to read 10 pages total of all the books I have. And I've thumbed through them and read some of the paragraphs up and down, back and forth. It's all the same sh*t: You have to communicate You have to compromise and sacrifice Relationships take a lot of work You have to be under...