The Easiest Way In The UNIVERSE To Find Your SoulMate - Part 1

If you pay attention and learn the method I'm about to show you, I can almost guarantee you that you will find your SoulMate. I've used this method over and over again and I've found my Soulmate at least six or seven times...

But before you even start there's one thing you must make sure of: And that is...

You HAVE to have your Mind right.

If you don't, it's just the same as going shopping all day for a new outfit or a pair of shoes (or a new car) and coming back home empty-handed with nothing but frustrations. That's a waste of time, gas, money, and peace of mind. And meeting your SoulMate is way more important than than a pair of shoes or an outfit. So, You can't go out in "The Field" looking for "Mr. Goodbar" or "Ms. Right" if you don't have the proper state of mind.

So, this is what it takes to get your mind right (not in any particular order):

Number One: Know WHERE the type of person you would like to meet would more than likely hang out or shop or work. If you don't know that, then you must rely on family and friends (and possibly associates and co-workers) to throw you a bone every now and then. You never know what those "blind dates" may turn into. Maybe one of those bones might have the "right" flavor, so don't rule out your options.

Number Two: Be confident in yourself. Appreciate who you are, what you have to offer, and your life. Don't ever think a man or woman is too good for you or too handsome to approach for a conversation. You don't know that person's mind or life until you get to know him or her. He or she may be lonely and looking for his or her SoulMate just like you.

Sometimes a man or woman might look too pretty or too handsome OR too Powerful to approach. Just their beauty or the way he or she carries him or herself might throw you off your game a little bit and make you shy and/or afraid to approach or speak for fear of rejection. Or, You may just not know HOW TO APPROACH this particular person due to the current situation - wrong place; wrong time; timing. That's understandable. The only people Time and Place don't affect are those with the "gift of gab". Those people know everything and can talk about anything. They'll talk your damn ears off if you let them. But, back to what I was saying...

Be confident in yourself. Consider your positive qualities and your potential. Don't think too much about a person's looks. Since you don't know him or her (yet), you don't know how he or she views himself (or herself) or how he or she views you. Or, what he or she is looking for in a mate. Or, what turns him or her on. Or, what makes him or her tick. Looks may not be important to this person just because they're important to you.

Where I work, I get the opportunity to see couples of all kinds. And I'm here to tell you the days of "they look good together" don't matter worth a damn anymore. I see all kinds of couples: tall women - short men, fat women - skinny men, skinny women - fat men, cute women - cave men, old women - young men, strong women - weak men, divas and thugs, mixed races, mixed nationalities, the handy and the handicapped, mud ducks and preppies, old folks with older folks, played-out players with teenie-boppers... I see it all. I've seen miserable men with fine-ass women. Why??? How on Earth could you be miserable when you have a Babe like that on your side??? It ain't always about "the looks". Once you're confident enough to get to know a person and they begin to see YOU and the things that they like about you, then your looks only become important or noticeable when you change for some reason. But, you've got to be confident enough to get to know them first to see and understand what really matters to them.

Number Three: Know what you want (and DON'T want) - even down to personality, appearance, style, habits, interests, baggage, etc. And, if you have certain fetishes and fantasize about certain types of people or situations, look for people with those qualities or who are into the same things as you. If you're "in the closet", come out. If you're "in the closet" and afraid to come out at least let the person you want to be with know early on you're in there so you won't be living a lie and shock the hell out of them years later on down the road. I know it'll be hard to break the news to them for fear of them walking right out of your life or telling OTHER people all of your business, but this should make you realize: Do you really want to pursue a relationship with this person? Do you trust this person? Do you REALLY know this person? Does this person really care about you? And, are you prepared to change to keep this person in your life or would you be better off finding the TYPE of person you REALLY want - Someone who appreciates (or who can deal with) your habits, lifestyle, fantasies, interests, and addictions? Someone who likes (or loves) you for YOU?

Keep it real. If they love you, they'll stick around. If they leave, you just have to accept it. Some people would rather "turn the man or woman out", and make him or her fall in love so that they would not want to leave, but this still isn't being fair to yourself because that man or woman STILL may not appreciate what you do or your lifestyle and this ONE THING could make your relationship miserable as hell.

And when I say "in the closet", I'm talking about "in the closet" with any type of lifestyle - whether you're on the "down-low" sexually, spiritually, smoking weed, love to gamble or hang-out at liquor houses, trifling as hell, or whatever you like to do that might not be quite "kosher", that's what I'm talking about.

KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND KEEP IT REAL WITH YOURSELF ABOUT WANTING IT. You can fake the funk with everybody else, but when it really comes down to it, you can't ever fake the funk with your Mama or Yourself.

Number Four: Be willing to adjust, adapt, and compromise but don't allow yourself to be dominated, pushed around, disrespected, used as a "rent-boy", "suck-retary", "gopher", or "taxi cab".

There is a STROOOONG possibility that you might not find a partner or companion with all of the qualities you like. There is probably not a single person in the World who's going to be EVERYTHING you want him or her to be. They may be hard as hell to deal with like this chick I've got. They may be sweet as pie one minute and a firestorm the next. They may be bossy and demanding. Lazy as hell. Know everything. Talk too much or gossip. Wasteful with money. Secretive. He or she may want to change some of your habits or ways. He or she may want a lot of attention. He or she may want you to be more romantic or available. People who are smitten, deeply infatuated, or in love, have no problem adjusting to these types of demands and situations, but if you're "on the fence", stubborn, or "gotten used to" the person, or think people should take you as you are, then you're probably gonna have a hard time adjusting. Some people will accept you for ALL of your qualities if they're afraid to speak their mind and tell you what they really think.

I've never heard ANYONE WITH EXPERIENCE say that any relationship was perfect or without problems, disagreements, or compromise. But if you're looking for a SoulMate and relationship that's 80% drama free (less 20% for miscommunication and misunderstandings), you'll have to make adjustments. This is why you must take your time and get to know the person up front so you'll know what you're getting into before you make that leap. That's the key. Get to know each other inside and out before you get involved. But even then you should keep your "bail money" straight because people and situations change. And if they change for the worse (or you can't deal with the change), you may have to bail out of that relationship and search for a new SoulMate.