The Easiest Way In The UNIVERSE To Find Your SoulMate - Part 3

Number Ten: Most relationship books or articles will tell you "the number one reason relationships fail is due to lack of communication". Or, they may say: "Communication is the key to all successful relationships." I can't knock that. It's true. You will have a much better chance of meeting the right girl or guy and having a relationship that's "the bomb" if you focus on communication. But, there is much more to it than that. "Communication" isn't just about listening to a woman whine about her problems, or talking when you have issues, or making sure you both are on the same page with the expenses, bills, and errands. Communication is also about showing each other attention - showing that you care and that you're interested in each other; that you appreciate and like (or love) the person that you're with or trying to "sell" yourself to. Here are a few ways to Communicate and to show your lover some attention. If you do this, it will not only help you gain your SoulMate, it will improve your chances of keeping them and keeping them happy about being with you. And I GUARANTEE you if you can find other things to add to this list, this guide will keep your relationship with your SoulMate from being tedious and Boring.

* Have fun with being flirtatious (and a little "dirty") sometimes. Give your mate a hug or a pat on the ass or a kiss on the cheek just to show that you think he or she is cute or sexy or that you're attracted to him or her.

* Compliment him or her on his or her looks sometimes like "Damn, you're looking sexy." or "I like that outfit." or whatever comes to your mind.

* Watch TV together. Skip the news every once and while and watch a reality show, or home and garden, or the food channel, or court TV - something exciting that you can talk about, laugh about, or experiment with.

* Go for a drive and visit some places like a flea market, produce market, a festival, the park, or just visit some friends.

* Dress sexy sometimes. Get his or her attention every once and while. Put on some nice smelling fragrance and look your best. Wear some "nice" boxers or sexy lingerie sometimes.

* Be thankful and give "Thanks" when your partner does something sweet or works hard to please you.

* Cook a meal together. Have an exotic dinner date at home with candlelights and the whole shabang. And have fun with it. Don't worry too much about the meal itself. Remember: It's not a formal dinner, you're just "kickin' it" and "chillin'". Even if you go out for fast food, taking it home and watching something good on TV is a plus. Food can always lead to good conversations if not more.

* Be thoughtful. If you're out and about and headed his or her way, call to see if they want you bring something extra or stop by the store. It just shows you care.

* Flowers, plants, or a small trinket every once and a while also shows that you care.

* If you have a hard time talking, one of the best things you could do for yourself is to learn to improve your conversation skills. Women love to talk and men will open up and talk if you're talking about something they want to hear.

* Ask for his or her opinion sometimes. It doesn't have to be on any major issues. It could be on your style, a what shirt or pants to wear, what to eat, what wax to buy to polish your car, a small dilemma, whatever.

* Find out how your partner/prospect feels about certain things every once and while. Continue to get to know him or her: "Do you like..." or "How do you feel about..." or "Would you ever try..." or "Could you see yourself going to/ doing..."

* Read books on lovemaking, things to do on date, how to flirt, etc.

* Be ready to apologize, forgive, or reconcile after an argument or heated discussion. Don't let bad vibes linger or they may turn into hatred, disgust, or revenge.

And Remember this if you don't do anything else to attract and keep your SoulMate...

Whomever your SoulMate may be, he or she will appreciate you more if you two can laugh, talk, and have fun in each other's company, so find ways to be attentive and to enjoy each other. That's the Real key.

And remember what Communication is really about: Get to know the person and let them get to know you. No matter how long you've been involved - whether you're just starting out or have been married for years - you still have to stay "in touch" and strive to learn your partner's habits, ways, interests, wants, needs, likes, dislikes, turn-offs, turn-ons, and goals. People change and you have to stay abreast of what's going on with them. You also have to keep them interested and swooning over You so that you'll feel good about them and the relationship. That's the challenge. Those are the things make a relationship interesting and that help keep the passion going.

If you fail to add these few simple tips to your "game", I promise you, you'll end up in a stale dead-end relationship and your life will suck like hell until you find a new mate or a way out.