Why Men And Women Cheat - Who Cares

Let me make something clear to all of the "players", pick-up artists, and "wannabee pimps" out there:

The posts on "why men and women cheat" are not being posted to expose anybody. If you get caught in the crosshairs, tuff titty. But, if your game is tight, you don't need to worry about these posts because you'll still come out smelling like a bouquet roses regardless.

My big fat-ass cousin thinks I'm trying to put his ass on blast because I'm jealous of him and his love-life... B*tch, please. I could care less about that fat hairy bastard's love-life and the handful of hoodrat chicks he's been messing around with for the last 7 or 8 years. Please. He ain't showing me nothin' new!

And, I've definitely never been attracted to any girl he's been with... except maybe one. But, she was Hot... I'd give that chick a 25 on a scale of 1 to 10. But, that bum couldn't hang on to that dime-piece for longer than a couple of months. He was scared of the chick. She was too gangsta for him. lol.

This girl looked like she just stepped off the cover of a magazine. Her body was perfect. Her face was beautiful. She was immaculate in every way imaginable... yet her eyes and personality made you think she was dangerous as hell.

And, she DID have a reputation.

She was as "hood" and as sheisty as can be. Criminal. And the crowd she was associated with were a bunch of local-jokers who liked to chill all the time, smoke weed, gamble, and "do dirt" (illegal sh*t). The majority of them were a bunch of damn losers who lived on the delusion that they were hustlers and go-getters.

He probably was afraid to go sleep around that broad. He probably thought that one day she might set him up for the "okey-doke". lol. That's probably what happened. He couldn't go to sleep around that chick because he was scared that she'd set him up to get robbed. And that fat rascal hated it when his nap time was interrupted.

The bad thing about it is, she was a nice girl. Friendly. Down-to-earth. Thoughtful. She was okay in my book. He was just afraid to die. lol.

And then, there's my Ex:

"Nobody wants to read that crap! Nobody cares why darn men cheat!"

B*tch, you ought to care because you've been cheated on in almost every relationship you've had.

At least that's what she told me.

But, you can see why any man would want to "escape" her big-ass damn mouth and grumpy-ass attitude. She raises more hell than damn Godzilla.

Anyway...

I don't care about exposing anybody.

And, contrary to what my Ex believes, I KNOW there are some folks out there who can improve their relationships and love-lives with this information.

All you have to do is learn it for yourselves, improve your intincts, and use your good judgement and suggestions to help those who could use your help.

There are people out there - maybe even one or two of your friends - who want to get to know someone new but they're afraid to get involved because they're afraid of being cheated on. You could use your experiences, your knowledge, and this information and help him or her get past those fears and make better decisions about choosing a mate.

There may be people who are already in a relationship but paranoid about being cheated on or losing the love of their life. You could explain to them why men and women cheat and/or break-up, and advise them of what they may want to do to avoid being cheated on or dumped.

Their mate might not even be thinking about cheating. You could open their eyes to that possibility as well. And, if you know the best way to get someone to open-up, that'll be a big help too.

Who else could we help with this info?

How about those men and women who keep getting cheated on and don't know why?

You could point out the reasons why cheaters cheat and help them narrow the problem down to a possible solution. They might need to evaluate their lifestyle, personality, choices, or appearance, and make some changes.

Maybe they keep choosing bad boys or bad girls.

Maybe they're not confident enough.

Maybe they really don't put a lot of time into a relationship because they're always on the go.

Maybe they're too antagonistic or bossy or self-centered.

Maybe they have poor hygiene.

There may be a combination of reasons why they keep getting cheated on. But, you'll be able to see most of these things and help them improve their love-life after you discover more reasons why men and women cheat.

And as I've stated a million times before, once you know many of the reasons why men and women cheat, YOU'LL be able to improve YOUR Instincts on the subject.

AND... You'll be able to recognize the games and tricks these wannabee pimps, gimps, players, and "tricks", will try to play on you for money, sex, convenience, or entertainment.

Everyone is NOT going to take heed to your advice, but you never know who will. So, it's best to be ready with some GOOD advice if you're going to give any advice at all.

Like I've said before, don't just go by what I post. I HAVE experience but I'm no expert. Get a second and third and fourth opinion AND observe all things well before you make any suggestions to your friends or anybody. Learn from other sources.

Hopefully, we can open people's eyes and wipe out a lot of this B.S. and Drama before it's too late.

I'm sick of it.

- loveqna