Why Should You Care "Why Men And Women Cheat" - 2

Before you read on, there's something you should know...

I'm not a professional and I'm only offering my opinions and suggestions based on past and current experience...

I don't know how you live, how you handle your problems, your situation, or your personality, so it's always best if you get a second or third opinion from a friend or a professional.

And, although I like to laugh, joke around, and have fun, I believe in EVERYTHING I tell you... I've lived it, witnessed it, or know the people involved. So, nothing here is "for entertainment purposes only".

All of this information is REAL.

Open your eyes. You can actually see it...

Feel it.

Just like "The Matrix", it's happening all around you.

Look beyond all of the yelling and fighting and you will see AND hear why people cheat. Most of the reasons are common. It's stuff that happens everyday. But, the issues can't be solved because couples and spectators allow the Excitement to blind them. They don't listen or try to understand. The only thing the public wants to see is "action". A fight. Yelling and screaming. Drama.

But, don't You fall into that trap!

Open your mind, eyes, and ears! Use your instincts. Listen close and observe and you will see the Truth. It's right there in front of you...

Once you see it and recognize it in your OWN life or see how it is destroying a friend's life, you can use that knowledge and wisdom to change the situation and turn things around for the better.

But nothing stays the same anyway.

No matter how much we fight to remain the same, some things in our lives and in US must change if we are to improve.

You won't be young forever. You can't play games forever. You can't keep going around in circles forever. Eventually, Time and Mother Nature is going to put a stop to all of that sh*t.

And without real love in your life, you will fall by the wayside and be abandoned and forgotten by young ones whose time it is to come up and live their lives and love and raise their families.

And don't think that with all the wealth and trinkets and the nice home that you have now that it can't be stripped away. I've been in nursing homes. I've seen how families and children have dumped their "responsibilities" off and left them to rot in those cold strange places. It'll make you mad as hell.

Anyway... Do the right thing for yourself - Find Love and Spread Love. When you're old and tired, you'll be glad you did.

Now, back to "the changes"...

The changes that must occur may seem drastic or unreasonable, but if you want to be happy, they must be made.

You may have to make a change in your habits, your lifestyle, your associations, your interests, or even your partner. I'm not gonna suggest that you try to save ANYTHING you don't need or that's not making you happy. I'm not gonna try to convince you to STAY in a relationship or to try and "work it out". That's for YOU to decide. Hell, You know how you feel and what you wanna do.

When my girlfriend dumped me, I didn't beg her to stay with me. I didn't beg for a second chance. I even left a day early. And, when she texted me a couple of days later at 1:00AM in the morning asking me if I missed her, I didn't text her back!

When I was riding that bus and she called me and said "you can't wait to get away from me, can you?" I could've sweet-talked her right there. I knew I didn't have a place to go, but I didn't try to sweet-talk her into keeping me around. To hell with that crazy b*tch.

BUT!

Don't follow in MY footsteps. YOU will know how far you want to go. You'll know what changes you can deal with.

If you're sick and tired of meeting and dating "players" you should want to know why men and women cheat.

If you're sick and tired of getting "played" and cheated on by scrubs and wafflers, then you should want to know why men and women cheat.

If you have gotten cheated on in almost ALL of your relationships, then you should want to know why men and women cheat.

You should want to know this stuff because you'll be able to see WHAT changes you need to make!

You will stop being confused and in awe of the foolishness and ignorance that consumes the lives of these greedy "wannabee pimps and players".

Again, you may have to make a change in your habits, your personality, your lifestyle, or your partner. If you're having problems and you don't want to change anything - even your partner if he or she refuses to change - then, you're gonna keep dealing with drama and foolishness until they destroy your friendship and relationship.

Now, there are some people who will tell you: "Don't try to figure it out. Don't let it worry you. Men are going to cheat. Women are going to cheat. And, that's just how it is."

I'm not gonna lie and say that you can totally stop cheating. But, you can reduce the chances of being cheating on by choosing a mate more wisely and by knowing your partner and what he or she wants and needs. And, if you can satisfy those wants and needs, not only will this help reduce the chances of being cheated on or being played, this will also help reduce break-ups.

When couples know each other inside and out and enjoy pleasing each other, their Love lasts for a very very very long time. And, that's just how it REALLY is.

But, if you're the type of person that has accepted the myth that ALL men and women cheat and you don't mind being cheated on, you don't want to waste any more of your time here.

If you enjoy being single and not having to worry about infidelity, then great. You may not want to waste your time here.

If you don't believe any of this will work for you, go somewhere else. Go back to the same sites, experts, and philosophies that you've been running to in the past. Don't waste your time over here.

For those of you who DON'T like being single and who would prefer being in a relationship without a lot of drama, read on. I'll post more revelations soon and update as my writing improves.

I know deep down inside, some of you feel there is something wrong with you that keeps you on the "business end" of being victimized by cheaters.

You think there's something wrong with you OR you think you will never be able to figure these love-birds out.

Some of you out there are getting played, used, and abused and you're sick of it. You're sick of games. You're sick and tired of lies and liars. You're sick and tired of falling in love and having your heart broken by scumbags.

Stick with me. You will be able to figure all of this out. The Truth is in the message.

Open your Mind.

Listen and use your "third eye". Use your Instincts and Experience. Develop your Intuition.

You don't have to search hard to find Real Love. When you have knowledge and radiate good vibes, it will find You.

- loveqna