I know Life sucks for a lot of people right now.
There are many people out here going through a lot of B.S. and crap that a lot of us could not imagine.
Some people are haunted by bad memories. Some people are feeling out of place and out of touch with reality. Some people feel like they don't fit in. And, some people are just full of sadness and pain and don't have any idea why.
Maybe you feel all alone...
It's possible that there's some jerk in your life causing you nothing but grief, confusion, and anguish.
Maybe you see no hope in your future.
I won't lie and say that you can conquer these feelings. Some people are surrounded by friends, family members, and lovers, and still feel empty inside.
They've went to doctors and experts and still didn't find a cure.
They've taken medications but to no avail.
Some of them have tried to conquer their issues with "religion" but that didn't help.
I've been one of those people.
I AM one of those people.
I'm tormented by bad memories every day.
I've been depressed for months and years at a time (even before I was a teen).
I've had more "downs" than "ups" in life.
I've thought about "giving up" quite a few times. And, came close several times.
To be honest, I don't know if I'll have those thoughts OR not. I don't know.
But, one thing I DO know is: I see a purpose for my being here.
We all have a purpose for being here. Me. You. Everybody.
And, you shouldn't ruin your purpose in life due to the trials of life.
There will always be obstacles to face and fight - but, that's just how Life is. It's a series of "tests".
Some things in Life test your emotions. Some things in Life test your intellect. Some things in Life test your Inner Strength.
And, it's Not always about conquering these "tests" that makes us stronger. Sometimes it's how we are able to DEAL with these "tests" that makes us stronger - AND WISER.
And, what is the Benefit of this?
To answer this question, we have to "go deep".
We have to look way way waaay out beyond all space and time.
Now, I don't want to give you the impression that I'm trying to sound like some spiritual guru or Jedi Master or something, but, for a moment, I want you to think about your Karma and the wisdom that you possess and WILL possess as you move forward throughout your life.
There are many things you will learn. The knowledge you gain will make you mentally and emotionally and socially and spiritually stronger.
Your instincts about Life will improve and you will be wiser. Wiser than those who will come after you.
Everyday, you are growing, improving, advancing, gaining insight and learning.
Although it doesn't seem like it (because it's a slow process), you are evolving - either mentally, emotionally, spiritually, or socially, or whatever. Some aspect of your life (besides your age) is advancing whether you realize it or not.
Even when we aren't learning more about ourselves or how to conquer Life's issues we are learning Something.
Hell, you might not realize it, but your instincts about Life are improving every single day! Because you're taking in all of your experiences. All that you see, hear, smell, taste, and touch.
You're learning from your Senses, Imagination, AND Emotions.
All of this stuff is taking you to a higher level each and every day of your life!
Now, some people might ask: "What the hell good is all of this learning and acquiring wisdom and building Karma if I'm only gonna die one day anyway?"
That's selfish thinking. And, the dumbest shit anyone could ever fix their soup-suckers (lips) to say.
What in the hell do they think they're supposed to do with all of that knowledge, wisdom, learning, and Karma???
You pass it on to the next generation so that they can learn, improve, grow, advance, and pass on what they've learned from you to the next generation!
In this way, the World KEEPS advancing and evolving! And, sooner or later, we'll get rid of all of the nuts and mean-spirited people who don't belong here and the World will be a better place.
But, there's another reason why we're here also (and, why you may be going through the issues in which you're going through).
We don't see things, hear things, and experience things just so that we can sit around and whine and complain and gossip about them. Much of the things we go through in Life (especially our mistakes) are so that we can learn from them and teach others (those who need and seek our help) how to overcome the same situations and troubles. Or, how to avoid the mistakes that WE made.
That's your Purpose in Life as a human being. To learn, to grow, and to give information, knowledge, or wisdom to another! To share some news, or info, or a skill with another person. To Teach! Not only your children but anyone who needs teaching or your guidance about things in Life.
Like:
- how to become successful
- how to make a marriage work
- how to get out of a bad relationship
- how to fight depression
- how to overcome sadness
- how to fish and feed themselves
Whatever!
No matter what you're going through, you can learn to conquer it OR deal with it and teach the next guy or girl how to do the same. This is a benefit because you will help yourself in the process.
When this girl or guy comes for your help, You will discover changes in your OWN life that need to be made. You will start to see certain mistakes that you are making that you haven't seen before. You will be more aware of traps and pitfalls that keep tripping you up and causing you to experience grief and drama. Your confidence will also move to higher levels as your knowledge, wisdom, and instincts continue to grow.
Don't let a bad relationship get you down.
Don't let "new chapters" in Life confuse you or the passing of Time break your heart.
Don't let these mean men and women drive you insane.
Don't let a bad economy or lack of money break your spirit.
Keep Moving!
Realize what is REALLY important in Life and you will Learn to overcome your "tests" in Life.
Help others and You will also help yourself.
- loveqna
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