What It's Like To Date A Female Player - 5

As soon as I turned into the parking lot yesterday, I someone called out my name.

I scanned the parking lot and saw that it was Slim. That chick was sexy. She wore some tight blue jeans and a form-fitting t-shirt that hugged her breasts. And as she headed my way, I couldn't take my eyes off that broad and her sexy walk. She's not a thick chick but she has a sexy body. And the way those hips swayed when she walked... I said "damn".

But, I knew she was coming over to beg for something. That poor dumb girl is nothing but a damn moocher.

She wanted a cigarette. I gave her two for good measure.

Then she started telling me her sob story...

She was having more family issues and financial issues. I don't want to discuss them because they're personal and a little bit sad. But, she could've been making all of that stuff up to get a few bucks out me.

I told you before that this chick was going to come to me and want to talk. She has a one or two other people there she could talk to but now, she is coming to me also. I don't mind listening and letting her release some of those "demons", but it does pain me to see her hurting like this.

I want to help this broad. I want to chill with her. But, I can't give her the money she needs. I just can't do it.

She's too much of a player. And she could be lying and making all of this sh*t up. You know how beggars do: They'll tell you how hard of a time they're having and how only a few dollars could really help them out, and blah, blah, blah... Crackheads do the same sh*t. I ain't falling for that B.S. She may be trying to trick me out of my money or string me along for financial support for a while. I want to be with her and be there for her but she can kiss my ass. I'm tired of those weak-ass lies and games.

I told you before how the chick was trying to nickel-and-dime me everyday for lunch, breakfast, and gas, like I was her man but when I asked her to price the business cards, or to call me, or if she wanted help with her book project, she ignored me.

Her lying ass probably ain't even working on a book. At best, she's probably got a paragraph scribbled out in a notebook.

And, she still tries to play these "games".

Let me tell you something: I'm not a cold-hearted person. I really would love to be with this girl in a long-term commitment. But, I'm no jackass either. And, I refuse to let her play me out. I don't trust her.

"Never trust a trick and never trust a player."

That's my motto.

If she never sees the light, it will be both of our loss. If she opens her eyes and her mind, I could turn her on to a better lifestyle.

I'm not rich of course, but I'd do more for her than that "roommate" she's living with.

But, I'm not about chasing another man's woman or friend or "roommate", I've got my options open and I won't let one silly girl bring my whole world down.

And, that's what you have to do - whether you're a guy or a girl. Love is strong but you must not let it become selfish Love to the point where you would trick yourself and play yourself out to be with someone who is full of games and drama.

Be in love but stay in the zone.

Keep your mind focused and believe in the dream. Don't always believe in Man or woMan because they can disappoint you, mislead you, or bring you down.

- loveqna