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Don't Be So Critical Of Yourself

A couple of weeks ago, I was helping this lady load some merchandise into her car. This car was a small sporty Lexus. She had a lot of stuff and stuff that was too big to fit in her little-ass sports car. I tried all kinds of adjustments to make the packages fit but at the same time, I wanted to be careful NOT to scratch the car or damage the merchandise. I said, "Ma'am, I don't think all this stuff is going to fit. These packages are kinda bulky." She kept on piling the stuff she had in her hands in the car - not leaving me ANY room for my stuff (the stuff I had to put in there) - and said, "Oh, it'll fit. If I can get my fat ass in this car, I know this stuff will fit in there." We laughed. But, that ass didn't look half bad. She was bootylicious. She had to be about 40-something, but she was attractive, and thick. Now, don't get me wrong, she wasn't a "knock-out", but she had potential. I think most people, when they get ...

Finding Love In The Workplace

Do you think it's a good idea to get involved with a co-worker? If you don't, you're not alone... Most of the people I know would say "Heeell naw. I'd never hook-up with anyone from work." But, many people still do it, don't they? One of my old supervisors once told me, "Boy, Never get your two "P"s from the same place." That's your paycheck and your...... well, you know. I've never followed that rule. If I see a fine-ass single co-worker - and she's giving me "the eye" - I'm going in. Why not. No one can predict whether the relationship will be a success or failure. And who knows, that person you're working side-by-side with may be your Soulmate. You don't know if he (or she) IS or ISN'T until you get to know this little cutie-pie. That's a fact no matter WHERE you meet each other. Hell, if the guy or girl is looking good and smelling good all the time, and has a nice personality, S...

How To Tell If A Man Or Woman Is Playing Games

Let's be honest with each other... Aren't you sick and tired of men and women who play romantic games? Well, in this post I'm going to spill the beans on the game these pretenders and so-called wannabee players try to run on the innocent romantics out there looking for a relationship and love. This won't be a comprehensive list, but if you pay attention and observe - AND keep your awareness level high, you'll be able to spot the bullsh*t before those scallywags play you out, give you the run-around, and lead you on a path to wasting your time, energy, and money. But, you have to be careful! Many of these manipulators and teasers have some good game and will lie like hell to get what they want out of you. They'll butter you up and mislead you. They'll flatter you, court you, and tell you everything they think you want to hear to seduce you. They are good at deception because they practice deceiving people constantly. People who are lonely and those ...

Why Guys Have To Make The First Move - Most Of The Time

There are some men that really expect a woman to approach them rather than them approaching the woman. I mentioned this in an earlier loveqna blog post, but I have to bring it back up because I KNOW FOR A FACT that there are women out there that aren't afraid to approach a man if he's what the woman really wants. True, some guys feel a little uneasy about this. Some are even turned off by it. Some think women who approach men are possible psychos and weirdos. It's a double-standard and confusing as hell, I know. Because, here you have guys who are TOO AFRAID to approach a woman but when SHE approaches one of them, the guy runs off because he scared that she's a nut! It's like he becomes the girl who's paranoid that anyone who approaches is a potential stalker. Even if they're both in a night club, this can happen. But how and why??? First, I'm going to give you a list of why people reject romantic attempts, then I'll list THE REASONS WHY MEN MU...

5 Reasons Why You Keep Getting Your Heart Broken

Sometimes, the "love" in a relationship won't last no matter HOW hard you try. And, there could be any number of reasons why a lover or partner wants to end his or her relationship. The only one who truly knows what the reason (or reasons) may be is the person who wants to move on. BUT... The partner who was "dumped" in the relationship should have SOME idea why this happened also. Read on, and let me explain why. During the relationship, there are always telling signs that the relationship is going downhill when it's going downhill. A man doesn't have to be told he isn't spending enough time with his woman or that he isn't romantic enough. He knows it! He can make excuses about having to work all the time and having to do this and that around the house and being tired and all, but he's still going to hear some complaints from the woman that they don't do anything and that she's bored with their lifestyle. And, if he isn't...

Style And Swag That Will Put You In The Zone

There's nothing wrong with having your own personal style. The main thing is confidence anyway. And, if you personality shines and you give off a good vibe, that will always outweigh appearances. But, Let's face it... Some of us need some style and swag in our lives! That's why we ain't gettin' those dates and meeting the man or woman of our dreams. How many good prospects do you think you're going to attract if your weave is flying all over the place or the heels of your shoes are busted? How many good prospects do you think you're going to get if you look like you've just staggered out of the wilderness after 20 years or just woke up looking like you've been on a 10-day drunk??? Have some style and class. If you got it, good. If you don't, get it quick. It will definitely give your love-life a boost! I know some of you may be satisfied with the way you look, but ain't nothing wrong with making those other guy's and girl's mout...

Is Depression Ruining Your Love-Life?

Besides mosquitos, cockroaches, social animosity, and violence, Depression is high on the list of the things I hate. And, I know you must hate it too... I hate on Depression because Depression ruins a lot of lives and relationships. Not only does it have the ability to turn you against YOURSELF. It can turn you against your family and friends, and it can turn your family and friends against you. I can't stand it. Why do we even HAVE this emotion in psychological inventory? Lots of things can cause Depression. My belief is: it depends on the person, his or her perspective of life, his or her perspective of social situations, and how he or she deals with social and personal situations. And don't forgot about including his or her habits and addictions. These things can play a part in a person's overall mood and vibe too. I don't want to sound like some kind of quack or guru because I'm not. I'm just trying to learn as much about it as possible and pass on a...

Become A Pick-Up Artist To Meet The Man Or Woman Of Your Dreams

Honestly, I don't believe in that "pick-up artist" lifestyle. Don't get me wrong, it's real. And, the stuff those "gurus" teach really works in the right situation. And, if you're targeting the "right" people. It's the same old game guys have been using for years. Nothing's change. But, in the last 8 or 9 years it has become a phenomenon and a "science". An artform really. But, what I don't like about "pick-up" is the idea of hounding people for sexual recreation. That's what a lot of people DON'T like about learning "pick-up techniques". Many of these gurus and their apprentices learn good social skills and use them for sexual manipulation the same way a sexual predator would. Don't go down that path if you can help it. I don't believe in just being a ho just to be hoin'. I know sex has health benefits, but it's also risky... But, to each his (or her) own. And, if th...

VIDEO/ ADULT HUMOR - How Men Screw Up Romance

Video provided by - lizziedaisy - loveqna

VIDEO/ADULT HUMOR - Why Women Stay Single...

Video provided by - oakley951 - loveqna

VIDEO/ADULT HUMOR - Why Men Don't Talk To Women

This video may piss some women off, but as you can see, it's truly how some guys feel. If you'll remember one of my earlier posts ( Why Single Women Rarely Get Approached By Good Men ) you'll start to understand that many men are experiencing this type of drama with women regularly. I don't agree with the ending in this video (and I don't think a lot of guys or gals should take it too seriously either... but overall, it's funny as hell. Video provided by - ascarsner

VIDEO - Why Women are Crazy and Why Women Do Not Understand Men

I love this video. It's open and honest, but you have to break up the message to see the wisdom in it. It reveals many truths. Guys, especially pay attention. Girls are shy, reclusive, and feel awkward in social situations too, so don't think you're alone. We all just need to learn to communicate better with each other and not be too quick to agree with negative stereotypes. Listen, reflect, and learn from the good wisdom presented here. Video provided by - FoxyArt - loveqna

VIDEO/ADULT HUMOR - MISTER GOOGLE FIND ME AMERICAN WOMAN

Video provided by - savepapadizi - loveqna

VIDEO - American Tourist Marries Rickshaw Driver (news article included)

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September, 2009 PROOF that you can find love (or at least meet a good woman) anywhere if you're persistent and have the courage to ask... I have searched for the outcome of this relationship to see if they were still together but I haven't found anything yet. Hopefully, they are still together. I believe in true love and I hope it lasts for a very long time. Video provided by ABP NEWS For more information: google "whitney ricksaw driver" - loveqna Here are the details and notes about this unique romantic experience as reported by some of the media... It took only one week for a motorized rickshaw driver, Harish Hotala, to win the heart of a 26-year-old American tourist traveling in India. Whitney (her surname was not given by the "Mail Today" newspaper) hitched a ride in a rickshaw last week and married the driver a few days later. Whitney from Chicago met her prince charming in Jaipur in Rajasthan. She hired this strapping young lad to ta...

How To Get Over A Break Up

I remember the very first time I got dumped... I was literally in a daze. My mind was blank. I didn't know WHAT I was going to do next. I was in a state of disbelief. I felt broken and defeated. My ego was shattered also. Her name was Charlene. No matter what I tried to say to regain this girl's love, make her stay with me, and feel the way she felt when we first met - and no matter how much I begged - she just kept saying "No." And although my mind raced to search for something romantic to say to make her swoon and accept my apologies, I just couldn't find the right combination of words. So, I lost her. I felt empty inside knowing that my next minutes, hours, and days would be spent without the girl whose personality, style, and companionship, I admired and was more than happy to endure. Let me tell you how it happened... I cared about this girl so much that I didn't want to seem clingy or intrusive. I wanted her to want me as much as I enjoyed be...

Sex Restrictions Create Global Turmoil

Now... What couples do behind closed doors is their business. But I was mad as hell when I found out that there were so many men and women out there suffering from lack of affection and sexual experiences with their mates. Let me tell you the reason why it pisses me off... And, I'm sure it will piss you off too once you realize what's been going on and how it affects you. Think about this... And, I'm 100% sure you'll agree. To many people, sex is a very important "benefit" in a relationship. Not only does it do your body good, it's also one of the best ways to connect with your partner. Good Loving helps you get to know More about each other and helps you express your deeper emotions. It's the deepest form of communication between the mind, body, and spirit of two people - if used properly and with good intentions. Think about it... Most of the time, after a good romp or during a romantic interlude, couples are cool, calm, "in the zo...

VIDEO - Surprise Wedding Dance

Love is always so beautiful at the beginning... Video provided by - adlee78 - loveqna

VIDEO - Slap, Tap, BAM!

This ain't "Dancing With The Stars". It's "dirty dancing" gone wild! Video provided by - theviraltrend - loveqna

VIDEO - Prank Phone Call Gone Wrong - Cheating Boyfriend

A creative way to find out if your boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating... Video provided by - Jaymes95 - loveqna

VIDEO - Prank call gone HORRIBLY wrong!!

This is another prank call concocted by "The Playhouse" radio show. More proof you should be careful about the games you play with your mate. Video provided by - PlaymakerSeries - loveqna

VIDEO - Wife Prank Gone Wrong

Sometimes it is best not to prank the mother of your expected child , because in the heat of anger she may just say something you don't want to hear! I'm sure some of you may not approve of this video, but remember it can go both ways... Be careful of the games you play. Video provided by - Javier1171 - loveqna

To Be Or Not To Be

I'm beginning to feel like some of those helpless whipped men I see come into the store where I work. I can look at their long bored faces and tell they'd have more fun hanging by their necks from a rope than to be in there shopping with their wives and girlfriends. I had this lady come in with her husband a couple of weeks ago and bought so much stuff, it looked like they were having a yard sale on wheels - INSIDE the car. She must've hit a windfall because she was shopping like she had money to burn, but the car looked like it was on it's last legs. And, her husband kept trying to tell her there wasn't much room and that it would unsafe to drive the car with so much stuff piled in there - blocking the back windows, on the floor in the front, piled up on the arm rest... She just kept right on buying and directing us to get this thing and that thing. And, told him not to say anything - just keep loading. He was pissed, but she was the boss. So, he did what he wa...

VIDEO - How To Flirt - 2,000,000+ Views

If you want to get that hot guy or pretty girl you've had your eyes on, you gotta take action! Improve your flirting skills. Practice. Have Fun. Be complimentary sometimes. Learn to comment on and talk about current events and news. And don't be afraid to suggest a date or offer your number. I can't tell you how good this video on flirting is. See it for yourself and You be the judge... Video provided by - Howcast - loveqna

50 Year Old Nightie - Adult Humor

A husband and wife were celebrating their 50th anniversary. That night the wife approached her husband wearing the exact same sexy negligee she had worn on their wedding night. She looked at her husband and said, "Honey, do you remember this?" He looked up at her and said, "Yes dear, I do. You wore that same negligee the night we were married." She said, "That's right. Do you remember what you said to me that night?" He nodded and said, "Yes dear, I still remember." "Well, what was it?" she asked. He responded, "As I remember, I said, 'Oh baby, I'm going to suck the life out of those big boobs and screw your brains out.' " She giggled and said, "Yes honey, that's exactly what you said. So, now it's 50 years later, and I'm in the same negligee I wore that night. What do you have to say tonight?" Again he looked up at her, and he replied, "Mission accomplished."

Randy The Rooster - Adult Humor

This farmer has about 200 hens, but no rooster and he wants chicks. So, he goes down the road to the next farmer and asks if he has a rooster. The other farmer says, "Yeah, I've got this great rooster named, Randy, he'll service every chicken you've got. No problem." Well, Randy the rooster is a lot of money, but the farmer decides he'd be worth it. So, he buys Randy. The farmer takes Randy home and sets him down in the barnyard, giving the rooster a pep talk... "Randy, I want you to pace yourself now. You've got a lot of chickens to service here and you cost me a lot of money and I'll need you to do a good job. So, take your time and have some fun," the farmer said with a chuckle. Randy seemed to understand, so the farmer points towards the hen house and Randy took off like a shot ~WHAM~ He nails every hen on there THREE or FOUR times and the farmer is just shocked. Randy runs out of the hen house and sees a flock of geese down b...

When The Economy Sucks, Relationships Suck

(Post to be updated later) I know there are some people out there that believe "Love Conquers All", but those people probably don't have a lot of bills and expenses... I'm seeing (and hearing about) couples breaking up and getting into arguments almost daily. Some are FORCED to stay together because they can't afford to be single. Just the other day, a neighbor got foreclosed on and had to pack her bags and borrow a pick-up truck to haul their belongings away. Her husband had been struggling to find work and what little bit of "bacon" he brought to the crib got gobbled up in past due bills and food. The woman didn't complain about him but with six kids, I wondered how long that feeling would last. My girl would've put me out into the streets a long time ago. I met this one-armed homeless guy named... "Ralph", a few months ago who had been put out by his wife. He said it happened because he couldn't get his "benefits...