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One of the best ways to improve confidence is through preparation for an event or situation. When you know (or sort of know) what to expect or what might happen, you don't have to think and worry about the unexpected. Your brain and instincts takeover and allow you to enjoy the moment. You know what's coming and what's about to happen so you don't feel anxious and nervous. You become more engaged with your date (or friends)... And you're able to relax and have a good time. Or, show off your "skills" and wit. Or, ask better questions to get others engaged and talking. Preparation is something you should practice often. It will make social situations become a lot more natural to you. And, you'll feel just as comfortable and have a good time like everyone else. But, another way to improve your confidence and to get rid of shyness is by DISCOVERING and USING your Alter-Ego. We all have one - a fierce and courageous personality that roams on a hi...

The Script - Before The Worst Video provided by - TheScriptVEVO ----------------------------------------------- Just got home from a Thanksgiving Dinner hosted by a friend and I'm a little tipsy, but I was just thinking... This year has been great (one of the best years of my life). But, it hasn't been all "peaches and cream". I've been stressed out, disappointed, confused, depressed, overworked, almost ran-down by crazy drivers on the road, dealt with irate customers, seen some of my friends fired, missed opportunities... I've suffered some Trials and Tribulations! And, I'm sure there will plenty more where all that came from! But, if I didn't have the blessings of making new friends and finding that job and having the health and strength that I have to write or ride my bike, I'd probably have a lot more trials and tribulations than what I've suffered thus far. I'd be broke as hell, homeless, and wouldn't have a friend ...

Some days I feel like "Dave Matthews Band"; Some days I feel like Bob Marley - Or, in this case, UB40... Red Red Wine - UB40 Video provided by - emimusic - loveqna

There are a lot of people out there who play games, and, a lot of people out there who don't know what they want. Some of them get phone numbers for fun (or sport). Some of them get phone numbers and are afraid to call. Some of them will get a person's phone number and don't know what the hell they want to do. I know dealing with these kind of people are frustrating - especially if you're interested, but don't lose any sleep over these bums. There's nothing wrong with you, it's just that THIS person may be a player or a waffler. Or, the timing wasn't right and there were no good vibes. Sometimes people just aren't interested but they'll accept a phone number anyway just to be nice. I'm sure you've been in that position where you might get someone's number so that you don't have to turn the person down and hurt their feelings. But, there could be any reason. Maybe there was no connection. Maybe he or she was looking for...

I know I should be updating some of my earlier posts in which I published only notes, but I have to comment on a subject I recently came across on the Net. There was a 27 year-old woman on a forum who was wondering whether or not she would still be desirable if guys found out that she was a virgin. And, there are lots of people out there with the same "blessing" who are wondering the same thing. And, I say (many people say), "of course a guy or girl will date you if you're a virgin". It's not like you have the plague or something. A virgin might be inexperienced (and some people might not like that), but overall, it's not a bad thing. Especially, if you've been focused and moved forward in your life and have grown spiritually - or even started a career and have something to show for yourself. If you've "abstained" to stay pure for marriage, that's not a bad thing either. But, you'd better be "skilled" when th...

Yuck! These Hi-Def TVs are sweet, but have you ever seen the actors and actresses on one of these things??? Some of the women I thought were hot - really look terrible... These TVs show off all of their flaws and everything! Thank God for makeup and lighting... It helps a little. I hate this TV. Anyway... Here is another conversation tip to consider when you're out on a date or talking on the phone or socializing with a group of your buddies this week. Talk about yourself. - what good news (or bad) have you heard lately and how do YOU feel about it - what is the funniest thing happened to you this week - what is the weirdest thing you've seen today - have you thought about cooking anything lately or learning how to cook - do you have a dilemma - are you sick and tired of working at your current job - have you had any ailments lately - are you thinking about going back to school/college and getting a degree - have you had poor customer service lately...

Okay, the weekend is officially here, and for those of you who are looking to improve your conversation skills, approach skills, and social skills, here is the first of two posts for this week. And, I must insert this disclaimer: You all know that I'm not a "pick-up artist" or "expert", so (please) for "top-notch" advice, review one of those type of sites. Today, I had a few other topics in mind to post but somehow I ended up surfing the Net and came across an interesting question (and "reality") on Yahoo I want to share with you. You could call this a simple observation but, I think it's a real benefit and could take some of the pressure off of approaching some good prospects if you use your instincts and "read" them well. The one thing I like about this post is that it CONFIRMS that men and women DO appreciate eye-candy and are checking each other out all the time. The problem is: Women are just as much afraid of r...

R. Kelly - Your Body's Callin Video provided by - RKellyVEVO ------------------------------------------------- It's cool to be on casual standing with your girl to the point where you can relax and let your hair down and "just be You", but sometimes, you've got to be a little bit romantic and suave. We all know hunks appreciate a little attention and being romanced and appreciated every now and then - but, so do our women! Now, I know you know how to make love to your woman (mentally and emotionally). So, I'm not doubting your skills. But, every once and a while, I know we brothers have a tendency to get a little lax and take our partners for granted. We don't show them enough love and appreciation. Or, flirt with them. Or, laugh and have a good time with them. We don't put enough passion into intimacy and love-making. We get slack on doing the little things that show we care. I know sometimes (or often) kids might be a distraction....

I know it SEEMS I've been doing a lot of female bashing lately in these last few posts, but I'm not angry at women. Topics come to me all the time. and when I'm not being lazy or feeling overwhelmed (mentally), I write about whatever seems to stay in my head the longest - Like this current thought about "why guys hate it when chicks TEASE entirely too much". I see this crap all the time. And, men do it too. They'll flirt and lead you on like they like you, get you interested, then give you the run-around and play games with your mind and so forth. Or, they'll get your phone number and say they're gonna call you but then they don't. (Guys and Girls do this.) But why? Observe closely, use your instincts, and you'll see the reason a lot clearer... Some people are players and do it just for amusement... or, entertainment. They just love to flirt and they love the attention. It's an ego-boost for some of these "flirty-birdies...

Video provided by - JoPro2 ---------------------------------------------------- Three or four times during the past week the same bit of wisdom has been passed onto me by some older men and women. And this video I ran across tonight while searching for something else has confirmed it. Why the Lord has led me to it is beyond me but maybe it's a message for someone else. ??? Who knows... But, the message and the philosophies that these people had is this: Don't stress yourself so much over whether your man or woman is cheating or whether or not he or she might cheat on you. Don't chase him or her - or beg for his or her Love; Or, try to keep the guy or girl locked up in the house away from the World... Because, "IF a man or woman wants to cheat, he or she is gonna cheat. And, there's nothing you can do to stop it if he or she wants it bad enough. So, why worry yourself about it? Why stress over it? And, if it happens, don't ruin your life over it!...

Have "The Eye Of The Tiger"! Be a soldier and "go in" without worrying about being turned away. Smile and get in there and let that sweet lamb KNOW that you're interested. Everybody knows that most of us who let sweet-looking babes and handsome hunks walk out of our life do so because of the fear of rejection. We'd rather suffer heartache and deal with the emptiness and loneliness we feel rather than make a move and ask that cutie-pie out on a date. I'm not gonna lie. The fear of rejection has made me freeze up a few times. Hell, I've seen confident outgoing guys and girls clam up and turn into shy wimps around certain people or when it came to approaching someone they were interested in meeting, so don't feel bad. We all get shy or a little nervous sometimes. The fear of rejection and not knowing what to say or being unsure about what to do can do that to you. These days, I don't really feel all that shy about approaching prospects....

I saw these big beautiful mums at a garden nursery so I snapped a picture of them with my new LG500g cellphone. Anyway... Now that I'm a full-time "sales" mane, I'll have to really work hard on my conversational skills! So, I'll try to post something at least twice a week for those of you who struggle with conversational flow as I do. And, it's weird... people seem to really enjoy talking to me and want to talk to me but, I'm nervous sometimes whenever I have to talk to them - even if they are fun to talk to and easy to talk to. I Still get nervous. ??? I don't know what's up with that. But, people still seem to enjoy talking to me or want to talk to me. Even my managers and supervisors. Sometimes, I even get people asking me for advice or for my opinion on personal matters. Or - out the blue - these guys and girls will share secrets about their personal life with me. Sometimes I just listen. Sometimes, I'll start yappin' and apo...

Videos Provided by - LaidiFocus www.blogtalkradio.com/templeradio www.facebook.com/pages/Temple-Radio www.twitter.com/AmentiAstrology ------------------------------------------- Don't overlook the advantages of using the Zodiac charts! Even if you don't use the Zodiac to find Love, it still is of great benefit to you in improving your Natural Instincts about people, situations, drama, dilemma, events, etc. The Zodiac exposes all. Anyone can be deceptive, pretentious, and deceitful, but no man or woman can hide his or her true nature from those with strong Female Instincts or Male Instincts! Trust me when I say you will feel an increase in your Power of Perception and that your game will rise to levels high above average mortals... If there is Love to be found, you will find it. If a player is in your midst, you will know it immediately. If there is any situation that can lead to disaster, you will see it before time... Learn this skill and learn how to "...

There's not a day that goes by when I'm at work that I don't see a beautiful woman. Like I've said before, hundreds of people come into the store every day. And every day, I see a beautiful woman that could potentially be the girl of my dreams. Hell, I see 20 or 30 of them that could potentially be the girl of my dreams... But, could any one of those broads be my soulmate? Or, a candidate for my soulmate? Whenever I hear people talking about looking for their soulmate or waiting to meet their soulmate, I'm always skeptical. I'm a firm believer that any ONE of us has thousands or millions of people that we're compatible with. But, most people - including myself - are so picky that we overlook the man or woman that is good for us and that could be a real benefit to our lives. All of us aren't looking for a soulmate although we claim we are. Most of us are looking for that "Dream Girl" or "Dream Guy" with the good looks, perfect...

Ain't no need in me beating around the bush. I know the title alone is somewhat offensive. But, it's true for most women out here. Especially if the woman is mature, or a Cougar, or a "Lady of Means". These types of women will put your ass to work! And, work you like a damn mule! Cutting grass Raking and bagging leaves Assembling furniture and other products Landscaping Painting Cooking Moving and Loading Car washing Plumbing Carpentry Building Shelves Running errands Killing bugs Changing light bulbs Cleaning gutters Cutting down trees etc. etc. etc. And then, on top of all of that, they worry you half to damn death about what you should do, need to do, should've done, could've done, and haven't done yet... Good Gracious. No wonder so many wives out-live their husbands! They've done worked the hell out the poor slobs. These women-folk are sittin' back taking it easy while we men do all the work. It's a shame and a d...

In Love With Me -Small Breast and All Video provided by - 1GracieGirl -------------------------------------------------- Last night was the worst sleep I've had in weeks. I was tossing and turning and constantly waking up to see if I had overslept. Which, I knew I hadn't because my alarm never went off. But, I kept waking up because I was afraid it had and I didn't hear it. And, I had the weirdest dream... about Illuminati, chocolates, and prostitutes.... but it wasn't sexual. And, even stranger than that, I interpreted the dream at the same moment that it ended and knew what it meant before I woke up. I said "DAMN." I'm telling you about it and I still can't explain it. Either I'm going crazy or I'm losing my mind. Anyway... I'm always hearing women talk about this subject and for the past few days that I've been surfing YouTube, I've ran across quite a few videos on this subject. But, let me get something strai...

I may be way over my head with this post but I'm gonna try to tackle it anyway since I need to appreciate myself more and stop being so humble. *** I WAS GOING TO TRY TO UPDATE THIS POST TODAY BUT I MY MIND IS ROAMING. WILL UPDATE LATER *** notes..... I will relate these notes to relationships; don't let a bully bring you down; don't let cruel love bring you down stop kissing ass and trying to please someone who has no respect for you - people admire courage and strength but they can be mean, evil, and devious when it comes to weakness true friends - no matter how close you are or long you've known each other, friends are not real friends if they are devious and manipulative don't fall for that guilt-tripping b.s. don't hold your head down in shame! don't throw up your hands in exasperation! realize if a reptilian scumbag is trying to manipulate you with guilt-tripping, then that means you have a choice. you have a choice to do something you don...

Dave Hollister - One Woman Man Video provided by - tutnoses ----------------------------------------------- This post is going to be short and sweet - I hope. And, although this topic really ain't earth-shaking news, I HAVE to talk about it because my mind is flooding again with many topics and I'm starting to feel paralyzed and lazy. The reason I have to talk about this particular topic is because one of my cousins' exes spotted me while I was on my way to the bank to withdraw some cash and I guess she just wanted to hear about what I've been up to since we haven't seen each other in so long. But, the conversation quickly shifted to her past relationship with my cousin. She was deeply in love with him (and still is). BUT, she's proud that she has finally found a way to overcome her obsession for him and her desire to chase after him. She believed wholeheartedly that they were meant for each other and that one day they would get married and live ha...