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A few notes I've been wanting to post sparked by a friend on Yahoo Answers... Why Suicide is NOT the answer to your problems: first of all, you MIGHT feel as though people would rather have you gone or would miss you but you really don't know. second, you don't how severe this step you're thinking of taking would torment the ones you love. when we lose someone we love, it hurts really bad and lasts for a long long long time, trust me. third, you don't know what the future holds or whose life you will touch or who you help in the times to come. you may save dozens of lives or help someone who is also suffering. or, someone less fortunate or someone in desperate need of advice or friendship or kindness. and, to be loved, you have to be lovable. you have to reach out to people. give of yourself. give of your time, friendship, and advice. i know from experience that someone loves you or wants to love you - maybe you just haven't met that person yet. give...

I know Life sucks for a lot of people right now. There are many people out here going through a lot of B.S. and crap that a lot of us could not imagine. Some people are haunted by bad memories. Some people are feeling out of place and out of touch with reality. Some people feel like they don't fit in. And, some people are just full of sadness and pain and don't have any idea why. Maybe you feel all alone... It's possible that there's some jerk in your life causing you nothing but grief, confusion, and anguish. Maybe you see no hope in your future. I won't lie and say that you can conquer these feelings. Some people are surrounded by friends, family members, and lovers, and still feel empty inside. They've went to doctors and experts and still didn't find a cure. They've taken medications but to no avail. Some of them have tried to conquer their issues with "religion" but that didn't help. I've been one of those peop...

There's something I hate to admit but I won't feel good about this post unless I come clean and tell you about it. The other night, I was severely distraught over a new girl I met. I was almost in tears. I know this chick is crazy for me. I like her a lot too. But, I can see all the drama looming ahead. I think she's crazy as hell. I'm almost sure that one day she's gonna "snap". And that's too bad because she's an attractive girl with beautiful brown eyes, a great smile, a sweet personality; kind, witty, caring, a great hostess, energetic, hard-working. She has a lot of positive traits. But... She has a "dark side" too that I've Heard about. Her zodiac sign is Gemini. And, you know Geminis have split personalities. So, I'm almost sure everything I've heard is true. People that know her say that she starts arguments and that she lies a lot. I've already mentioned in an earlier post that she is imposing, ...

I remember a few months back when people where asking me about becoming a room mate and where I lived and this and that, and I'd have to tell them I already had a roommate. Almost all of them would ask if I lived with a girl or a guy. And, whenever I told them it was a girl (a woman) their eyeballs would damn near pop out of their sockets. I said, "Damn... Do I look that bad that I can't have a woman for a roommate?" A couple of them saw this chick and went nuts. Now, my roommate isn't a beauty queen but she has style and a nice phat ass. I mean, her booty is round and plump. Almost perfect. Men and women are always admiring it and giving her compliments on her body because she stays in shape and she's slim and trim. So, anyway, she dropped me off at work a few times and a few of my homeboys (or mates) happen to catch a glimpse and ask me why I hadn't tried to tap that ass. Well, let me just say that tappin' that ass can sometimes lead to a ...

Queen - 'Another One Bites the Dust' Video provided by - queenofficial ------------------------------------------- These mean-ass manipulating men and crazy-ass psychotic women make my blood boil! I'm sick ovem! Why in the hell would you let that asshole play games with your mind and emotions??? Why are you allowing that scumbag to manipulate you and abuse you? Why are you settling for a sub-standard way of surviving when you could be living the life you deserve and enjoying life to the fullest??? You don't have to settle for a life of heartache and pain and loneliness! This way of life that you're living only robs you of the Joy and Happiness that every man and woman deserves. Men and Women weren't meant to live in Fear all the days of their life! You shouldn't be cut off from your Friends and Family! You deserve to be loved just like everybody else! Tell that no-good rat-soup eatin' bum to kiss your ass! Go to the people t...

I've already mentioned this year being a great year for me, but this past week has been awesome as well. I attended that big Thanksgiving dinner on Thursday. I made more friends. I had a pic-nic on the hood of a car with a cute girl at 2:00AM Saturday night. She's somewhat strange and bohemian, but nice. I went to church. (don't be surprised.) Man, there were so many babes in there, I know the Lord is gonna punish me for watching all of that booty. But, I couldn't help it. I tried not look (really, I did), but those church-going girls were beautiful. They all looked liked booty-licious angels. Mmph! Lord, forgive me. I went hiking on Sunday with about seven or eight other people who were all sweet and friendly. We sat around and chilled at the lake for a while and talked. It was cool. I became closer to the friends I already had and made even more friends. And, I got the opportunity to practice a few of my conversation skills. And, I felt cool and comfo...

One of the best ways to improve confidence is through preparation for an event or situation. When you know (or sort of know) what to expect or what might happen, you don't have to think and worry about the unexpected. Your brain and instincts takeover and allow you to enjoy the moment. You know what's coming and what's about to happen so you don't feel anxious and nervous. You become more engaged with your date (or friends)... And you're able to relax and have a good time. Or, show off your "skills" and wit. Or, ask better questions to get others engaged and talking. Preparation is something you should practice often. It will make social situations become a lot more natural to you. And, you'll feel just as comfortable and have a good time like everyone else. But, another way to improve your confidence and to get rid of shyness is by DISCOVERING and USING your Alter-Ego. We all have one - a fierce and courageous personality that roams on a hi...

The Script - Before The Worst Video provided by - TheScriptVEVO ----------------------------------------------- Just got home from a Thanksgiving Dinner hosted by a friend and I'm a little tipsy, but I was just thinking... This year has been great (one of the best years of my life). But, it hasn't been all "peaches and cream". I've been stressed out, disappointed, confused, depressed, overworked, almost ran-down by crazy drivers on the road, dealt with irate customers, seen some of my friends fired, missed opportunities... I've suffered some Trials and Tribulations! And, I'm sure there will plenty more where all that came from! But, if I didn't have the blessings of making new friends and finding that job and having the health and strength that I have to write or ride my bike, I'd probably have a lot more trials and tribulations than what I've suffered thus far. I'd be broke as hell, homeless, and wouldn't have a friend ...

Some days I feel like "Dave Matthews Band"; Some days I feel like Bob Marley - Or, in this case, UB40... Red Red Wine - UB40 Video provided by - emimusic - loveqna

There are a lot of people out there who play games, and, a lot of people out there who don't know what they want. Some of them get phone numbers for fun (or sport). Some of them get phone numbers and are afraid to call. Some of them will get a person's phone number and don't know what the hell they want to do. I know dealing with these kind of people are frustrating - especially if you're interested, but don't lose any sleep over these bums. There's nothing wrong with you, it's just that THIS person may be a player or a waffler. Or, the timing wasn't right and there were no good vibes. Sometimes people just aren't interested but they'll accept a phone number anyway just to be nice. I'm sure you've been in that position where you might get someone's number so that you don't have to turn the person down and hurt their feelings. But, there could be any reason. Maybe there was no connection. Maybe he or she was looking for...

I know I should be updating some of my earlier posts in which I published only notes, but I have to comment on a subject I recently came across on the Net. There was a 27 year-old woman on a forum who was wondering whether or not she would still be desirable if guys found out that she was a virgin. And, there are lots of people out there with the same "blessing" who are wondering the same thing. And, I say (many people say), "of course a guy or girl will date you if you're a virgin". It's not like you have the plague or something. A virgin might be inexperienced (and some people might not like that), but overall, it's not a bad thing. Especially, if you've been focused and moved forward in your life and have grown spiritually - or even started a career and have something to show for yourself. If you've "abstained" to stay pure for marriage, that's not a bad thing either. But, you'd better be "skilled" when th...

Yuck! These Hi-Def TVs are sweet, but have you ever seen the actors and actresses on one of these things??? Some of the women I thought were hot - really look terrible... These TVs show off all of their flaws and everything! Thank God for makeup and lighting... It helps a little. I hate this TV. Anyway... Here is another conversation tip to consider when you're out on a date or talking on the phone or socializing with a group of your buddies this week. Talk about yourself. - what good news (or bad) have you heard lately and how do YOU feel about it - what is the funniest thing happened to you this week - what is the weirdest thing you've seen today - have you thought about cooking anything lately or learning how to cook - do you have a dilemma - are you sick and tired of working at your current job - have you had any ailments lately - are you thinking about going back to school/college and getting a degree - have you had poor customer service lately...

Okay, the weekend is officially here, and for those of you who are looking to improve your conversation skills, approach skills, and social skills, here is the first of two posts for this week. And, I must insert this disclaimer: You all know that I'm not a "pick-up artist" or "expert", so (please) for "top-notch" advice, review one of those type of sites. Today, I had a few other topics in mind to post but somehow I ended up surfing the Net and came across an interesting question (and "reality") on Yahoo I want to share with you. You could call this a simple observation but, I think it's a real benefit and could take some of the pressure off of approaching some good prospects if you use your instincts and "read" them well. The one thing I like about this post is that it CONFIRMS that men and women DO appreciate eye-candy and are checking each other out all the time. The problem is: Women are just as much afraid of r...

R. Kelly - Your Body's Callin Video provided by - RKellyVEVO ------------------------------------------------- It's cool to be on casual standing with your girl to the point where you can relax and let your hair down and "just be You", but sometimes, you've got to be a little bit romantic and suave. We all know hunks appreciate a little attention and being romanced and appreciated every now and then - but, so do our women! Now, I know you know how to make love to your woman (mentally and emotionally). So, I'm not doubting your skills. But, every once and a while, I know we brothers have a tendency to get a little lax and take our partners for granted. We don't show them enough love and appreciation. Or, flirt with them. Or, laugh and have a good time with them. We don't put enough passion into intimacy and love-making. We get slack on doing the little things that show we care. I know sometimes (or often) kids might be a distraction....

I know it SEEMS I've been doing a lot of female bashing lately in these last few posts, but I'm not angry at women. Topics come to me all the time. and when I'm not being lazy or feeling overwhelmed (mentally), I write about whatever seems to stay in my head the longest - Like this current thought about "why guys hate it when chicks TEASE entirely too much". I see this crap all the time. And, men do it too. They'll flirt and lead you on like they like you, get you interested, then give you the run-around and play games with your mind and so forth. Or, they'll get your phone number and say they're gonna call you but then they don't. (Guys and Girls do this.) But why? Observe closely, use your instincts, and you'll see the reason a lot clearer... Some people are players and do it just for amusement... or, entertainment. They just love to flirt and they love the attention. It's an ego-boost for some of these "flirty-birdies...

Video provided by - JoPro2 ---------------------------------------------------- Three or four times during the past week the same bit of wisdom has been passed onto me by some older men and women. And this video I ran across tonight while searching for something else has confirmed it. Why the Lord has led me to it is beyond me but maybe it's a message for someone else. ??? Who knows... But, the message and the philosophies that these people had is this: Don't stress yourself so much over whether your man or woman is cheating or whether or not he or she might cheat on you. Don't chase him or her - or beg for his or her Love; Or, try to keep the guy or girl locked up in the house away from the World... Because, "IF a man or woman wants to cheat, he or she is gonna cheat. And, there's nothing you can do to stop it if he or she wants it bad enough. So, why worry yourself about it? Why stress over it? And, if it happens, don't ruin your life over it!...

Have "The Eye Of The Tiger"! Be a soldier and "go in" without worrying about being turned away. Smile and get in there and let that sweet lamb KNOW that you're interested. Everybody knows that most of us who let sweet-looking babes and handsome hunks walk out of our life do so because of the fear of rejection. We'd rather suffer heartache and deal with the emptiness and loneliness we feel rather than make a move and ask that cutie-pie out on a date. I'm not gonna lie. The fear of rejection has made me freeze up a few times. Hell, I've seen confident outgoing guys and girls clam up and turn into shy wimps around certain people or when it came to approaching someone they were interested in meeting, so don't feel bad. We all get shy or a little nervous sometimes. The fear of rejection and not knowing what to say or being unsure about what to do can do that to you. These days, I don't really feel all that shy about approaching prospects....

I saw these big beautiful mums at a garden nursery so I snapped a picture of them with my new LG500g cellphone. Anyway... Now that I'm a full-time "sales" mane, I'll have to really work hard on my conversational skills! So, I'll try to post something at least twice a week for those of you who struggle with conversational flow as I do. And, it's weird... people seem to really enjoy talking to me and want to talk to me but, I'm nervous sometimes whenever I have to talk to them - even if they are fun to talk to and easy to talk to. I Still get nervous. ??? I don't know what's up with that. But, people still seem to enjoy talking to me or want to talk to me. Even my managers and supervisors. Sometimes, I even get people asking me for advice or for my opinion on personal matters. Or - out the blue - these guys and girls will share secrets about their personal life with me. Sometimes I just listen. Sometimes, I'll start yappin' and apo...

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